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REPUBLIC OF SOUTH AFRICA
IN THE HIGH COURT OF SOUTH AFRICA
GAUTENG DIVISION, JOHANNESBURG
Case No: 2024/150152
In the matter between:
In the matter between:
MSIPHA EMILY DORAH Applicant
And
TJAITJAI PONTSO ANNA First Respondent
MINISTER OF HOME AFFAIRS Second Respondent
MASTER OF THE HIGH COURT JOHANNESBURG Third Respondent
PONTSO ANNA TJAITJAI N.O. Fourth Respondent
(In her capacity as Executrix of the Late Estate of
Musa Reuben Tjaitjai with Estate Number 007886/2024)
JUDGMENT
MOTHA, J
Introduction
(1) REPORTABLE: YES
(2) OF INTEREST TO OTHER JUDGES: YES
(3) REVISED:
______________ _________________________
DATE SIGNATURE
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1) Facing this court is a perennial predicament for many black South Africans,
torn between what is colloquially called Umshado wephepha and Umushado
wesintu. Due to financial constraints, only a few of these cases reach our
courts. Consequently, many black South African marriages may be null and
void ab initio. To me, the fons et origo mali is the practice of writing judgments
on customary marriages and chieftaincy disputes in our colonizers’ languages.
2) This, ipso facto, leads to linguicide and, more broadly, advances the colonial
project of epistemicide – the erasure of African knowledge. Words rich in
meaning and deeply embedded in black South African customs, such as
imvula mlom o, have been anglicized to mean “opening of the mouth”; g o
gorosa ngw etsi has been simplified to “bride- transfer”; and u membeso has
been altered to mean clothing. Further buttressing this view is the use of the
incorrect but widely accepted term “bride-price,” which refers to ilobolo. Black
women are not commodities. Ilobolo is neither a price nor a sale but a practice
steeped in black African customs of ukwakha ubuhlobo obuhle
nokuhlanganisa izithunywa.
3) This culturicide is deliberately engineered to sound the death knell for
imishado yesintu. In the matter of Alexkor Ltd and Another v Richtersveld
Community and Other
1, the Constitutional Court cautioned against the
obvious dangers of “looking at indigenous law through the prism of common
law.” Already, there is so much confusion about what constitutes a customary
marriage that it is only a matter of time before the next generation completely
turns its back on its heritage, abandons customary marriages and indigenous
South African languages in droves, and mimics the colonizers’ ways of life, in
appearance and speech. When dealing with customary marriages, our
colonizers’ languages should be used as a last resort. Having confirmed
counsel’s fluency in the language of uMageba, this court pens this judgment
in that language.
in that language.
1 (CCT19/03) [2003] ZACC 18; 2004 (5) SA 460 (CC); 2003 (12) BCLR 1301 (CC) (14 October 2003)
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Isiqalo
4) Umshado wesintu uyimpicabadala ezinkantolo zakul elizwe.
Sekuyinsakavukela u mchilo wesidwaba ukuthi uma kucubungulwa umthetho
okumele ulandelwe phak athi komshado wesintu nomshado wesilungu kuba
ongaphansi ongaphezulu, wena owabona kushikisha ufudu!
5) Nakulelicala kunjalo. Umbuzo obhekene nalenkantolo uthi wabe eshadile
ngesintu na umufi uMusa Reuben Tjaitjai (umufi) noEmily Dorah Msipha
(Emily)? Mangabe kunjalo, c hithekiyani amasi igula ligcwele emshadweni
wesilungu phakathi kuka Pontso Anna Tjaitjai (Pontso) nomufi uReuben.
Abaquli balelicala.
6) Ummangali uEmily Dorah Msipha othi wayeshade nomufi uReuben
ngokwesintu.
7) Ummangalelwa wokuqala uPontso Anna Tjatjai naye othi wayeshade nomufi
uReuben ngokwesilungu.
8) Ummangalelwa wesibili ungqongqoshe woMnyango Wezasekhaya.
9) Ummangalelwa wesithathu iNhloko yeNkantolo Enkulu.
10) Ummangalelwa wesine ngu Pontso Anna Tjatjai omele ifa likamufi uReuben.
Amanqampunqampu alelicala, kanye nohlangothi luka Emily
11) Ummangali wokuqala uEmily uthi washada nomufi u Reuben ngomhla zing a
mashumi amabili nanye ngenyanga ka Ndasa ngo nyaka wezinkulungwane
zamakhulu ayisishiyagalolunye namashumi ayisishiyagalolunye nambili 2.
Ubufakazi bo kuthi wayeshadile ngesintu, uthi uEmily, butholakala encwadini
yama lobolo ebhalwe ngalendlela elandelayo:
“ IsivumeLwane Samalobola Phakathi Kwa Msipha Nabakwa Tjaitjai
2 21 March 1992.
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Namahla 21 March 1992 a bakwa Tjaitjai Bakhiphe imali engu R2200,00
yokuLobola u Emely Msipha.
Abakwa Msipha B ayavuma, izinkomo ezisele zingu 4 inkomo eyodwa ingu
R550.00. Bakwa Tjaitjai bayavuma ukuthi kusele izinkomo ezingu 4.
Msipha Family
June Msipha
Tjaijai Family
John Khoza”
12) Kusigaba samashumi amathathu nanye kwincwadi yakhe efungelwe, uEmily
uthi yena nomufi uReuben babengaphezulu kweminyaka e yishumi
nesishiyagalombili mhlazane begena emendweni wabo.
13) Akuphikiswa ukuthi uEmily wahlala nomufi uMusa Reuben Tjaitjai endaweni
ebizwa ngokuthi iLangaville, Extension 3, Brakpan, 1 […] N[…] Street, E[…] .
Umshado wabo wabusiswa ngezingane ezimbili, uTinyiko Daniel Msipha
owazalwa ngomhlaka 21 September 1995 kanye no Sbongakonke Msipha
owazalwa ngomhlaka 23 May 2008.
14) Bahlala njalo kwaze kwaphela iminyaka engam ashumi nambili , ngokusho
kukaEmily. Izivunguvungu zempilo za wudubaduba umshado wabo, baze
bahlukana ngonyaka ka 2015, ngokombhalo wencwadi efungelwe ka Emily .
Okumqoka ngokwahlukana kwabo ukuthi ab azange bay e enkantolo
kaMantshi
3 noma enkantolo E nkulu yaseMajajini 4 ukuyo hlukanisa umshado
wabo wesintu. Yaqala laphoke inkathazo.
3 Magistrate’s court.
4 High court.
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15) Umufi uReuben waqhubeka nempilo kwathi ngomhla ka 13 April 2004
wangena emshadweni wesilungu nesinqandamathe sakhe esisha uThembi
Mary Tjaitjai (Thembi).
16) Phela uma abantu beshada ngesilungu (noma ngomshado wabokufika)
umshado wabo ulandela umgomo othi: “okwakhe kungokwami no kwami
kungokwakhe,”5 ngaphandle mangabe abashadi bangene esivumelwaneni 6
phambi kommeli wemishado7 ngaphambi kokuba bashade.
17) Umufi wahlala noThembi iminyaka eyishumi nesishiyagalolunye. Umdali
wababusisa ngezingane ezimblili , u Bongiwe Tracy Tjaitjai, owazalwa
ngomhlaka 26 February 2003 kanye no Lifalakhe Blessing Tjaitjai, owazalawa
ngomhlaka 01 May 2008.
18) Kwamphinda lokho umufi uReuben. Inkosikazi yakhe uThembi wathi
usewushiya phansi umendo wabo. Waqonda ngqo enkantolo kaMantshi yase
Nkomazi, uThembi, eyofaka icala lokwehlukanisa umshado wabo. Umufi
uReuben waphendula ngencwadi yo kuphikisa is icelo sokwahlukanisa
umshado. Kuthe la isibambene ngezihluthu, umufi uReuben was e phenduka
njengotshwala esiswini wa faka isicelo sokuguqula am aphepha akhe
asenkantolo.
19) Kwisicelo sakhe wageqa amagula um ufi esho ukuthi yena wayesashadile
ngokwesintu noEmily, ngakhoke umshado wakhe noThembi wawufana
nenyoka efile.
20) Ngalesikathi behambisana ezinkantolo oThembi nom ufi kwase kusebenza
uMthetho Wokuqashelwa Kwemishado Yendabuko wango- 1998 (Act 120 of
1998), obizwa phecelezi ngeRecognition of Customary Marriage Act (RCMA) .
Lomthetho i RCMA uqinisekisa ukuthi imishado yendabuko ibhekwa
njengokusemthethweni njengemishado yezakhamuzi , futhi umshado wesintu
ubekwa ezingeni elilinganayo nemishado yabokufika noma yesilungu.
5 In community of property.
6 Antenuptial contract.
7 Notary public.
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21) Phela ngokomthetho iRCMA, kwingxenye yesishagalombili 8 umuntu
akavunyelwe ukuthi ashade ngokwesintu aphinde ashade nomunye umuntu
ngesilungu engazange afaka incwadi yokwahlukanisa umshado wesintu
enkantolo kaMantshi noma enkantolo Enkulu yaseMajajini. Okusho ukuthi
umangabe ngempela umufi wayesasha de uEmily ngesintu, futhi
bengahlukanisanga umshado wabo enkantolo, kwase kuxabene ubende.
22) Ikhuluma ngalomgomo weRCMA, i nkantolo Ephakeme yaseM ajajini9
yakusho kwagcwala umlomo lokhu kwical a lika Rudzani Netshituka v Joyce
Munyadizwe Netshituka. 10Kwingxenye y esithathu yeRCMA ifundeka kanjena
ngolwimi luka George:
“Section 3(2) of the Act provides that:
"Save as provided in section 10 (1), no spouse in a customary marriage shall
be competent to enter into a marriage under the Marriage Act. 1961(Act No.
25 of 1961, during the subsistence of such customary marriage".
23) Lelicala, lika Thembi nomufi uReuben, lase libikwe enkundleni E nkulu
yaseMajajini eMpumalanga. Ngomhlaka 17 Kamasingana (January) 2022,
kwaphuma isinqumo senkantolo esibiza uEmily kwinkundla Enkulu
yaseMajajini eMpumalanga. Lesinqumo sasibhalwe ngolwimi luka George:
“AFTER HAVING HEARD BY COUNCIL OF THE APPLICANT AND HAVING
READ THE PAPERS FILED OF RECORD, THE FOLLOWING ORDER IS
MADE:
8 8 Dissolution of customary marriages
(1) A customary marriage may only be dissolved by a court by a decree of divorce on the ground of the
irretrievable
breakdown of the marriage.
9 SCA
10 Netshituka v Netshituka and Others (426/10) [2011] ZASCA 120; 2011 (5) SA 453 (SCA); [2011] 4 All SA
63 (SCA) (20 July 2011)para 15 “In Thembisile v Thembisile13 Bertelsmann J held that a civil marriage
contracted while the man was a partner in an existing customary union with another woman was a
nullity.14 It was not argued in this court that Thembisile was wrongly decided. It follows that the civil
marriage between the deceased and the first respondent, having been contracted while the deceased
was a partner in existing customary unions with Tshinakaho and Diana, was a nullity.
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1. Matter is removed from the roll
2. The matter should not be re-enrolled without:
2.1. Ms Msipha joined as a party to the application
2.2. Unless the settlement agreement between the applicant and the first
respondent is attached to the proceedings
3. No order is to costs”
24) Kubalulekile ukusho ukuthi umufi uReuben kwaku nguyena um ngenisicala
(applicant), kanti uThembi kwaku ngu mngeniswacala wokuqala (first
respondent) enkantolo Enkulu yaseMajajini eMpumalanga. Ngomhlaka 18/07/
2022, icala laphinde lasulwa ezincwadini zenkantolo ngesizathu esilandelayo:
“Having read the documents filed on record, heard Counsels for the applicant
and the Respondent, and considered the matter, it is ordered that:
1. The matter is removed from the roll for personal service on Ms Msipha.
2. No order is to costs.”
25) Kuthe angatholakala u Emily, w ase efakwa ezincwadini zenkantolo Enkulu
yaseMajajini eMpumalanga njengomunye wabaquli becala kwicala
elaliphakathi kukaThembi nomufi . Ngomhlaka 26 ku Nhlaba ( May) 2023,
inkantolo Enkulu yaseMajajini eMphumalanga yakhipha isinqumo esithi:
“IT IS ORDERED THAT –
1. The civil marriage between Musa Reuben Tjaitjai (the applicant) and Thembi
Mary Tjaitjai (the second respondent) contracted on 13 April 2004- ("civil
marriage") is declared null and void;
2. The Minister of Home Affairs (third respondent) is directed to expunge the civil
marriage between Musa Reuben Tjaitjai (the applicant) and Thembi Mary Tjaitjai
(the second respondent) from the marriage register; third respondent).”
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26) Ngomhlaka 22 ku Ndasa (March) 2024, uReuben wasishiya lapha emhlabeni.
Wathi ukuzwa ngesifo sika Reuben, uEmily wagijima washiya isithunzi
eqonde eho visi leNhloko yeNkantolo Enkulu eyobika ukubhubha kuka
Reuben.
27) Wahlangana nezimbila zithutha ziholwa e mhlophe phambili, ngoba wathola
ukuthi uReuben ushone eshadile ngokwesilungu noPontso Anna Tjaitjai .
Okusho ukuthi lona kwakungum ushado wesithathu kamufi uReuben.
Yingakho uEmily elapha enkantolo. Ufuna umshado kam ufi no Pontso
uchithwe, noma ususwe ezincwadini. Nakhu okunye okumqoka, umufi
uReuben uhamba emhlabeni engenayo incwadi yefa.
28) Ngokusho kukaEmily umshado wakhe noMusa wawungazange uhlukaniswe
ngokuya ngomthetho wesishiyagalombili weRCMA.
Uhlangothi luka Pontso
29) Inkosikazi kamufi uPontso uphikisana n enkulumo ethi umufi wayeshadile
ngesintu noEmily. Okunye futhi uPo ntso useqokwe njengo m untu
ozohlukanisa ifa likamufi. Encwadini ephikisa uEmily, uPontso ume ngezizaba
ezimbalwa. Ngizozibiza kanje:
Iminyaka ka Emily mhlazana engena emendweni noReuben
30) Impica badala ukuthi uEmily waye neminyaka eyishumi nesikhombisa
mhlazana eshada uReuben. Lokhu, kusho uPontso, kuchaza ukuthi akazange
ashade ngesintu uEmily, noma umshado wakhe wawungekho emthethweni.
Ngonyaka ka 1992, imishado yesintu yayi ngapha nsi komthetho wamabhunu
owawubizwa ngo kuthi iBlack Administration Act 38 of 1927.
31) Ngaleyo minyaka kwakubekwe am ashumi am abili nanye njengo nyaka
wokuba mdala ng onkomthetho. Ngamafuphi uPontso uthi kwakufanele kube
nemvumo yabazali ngaphambhi kokuba bashade uEmily noReuben. Futhi
ngokusho kweRCMA, ubudala ngokomthetho yiminyaka elishumi
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nesishiyagalombili. Kuyo yomibili lemithetho uEmily wayengeke ange ne
emshadweni ngoba wayesaseyingane emehlweni omthetho, kusho uPontso.
Ubufakazi bomgcagco.
32) Okwesibili, uPontso uthi uEmily akazange abonise ukuthi washada ngempela
ngesintu ngoba abukho ubufakazi ezincawdini zasenkantolo o bubonisa
umcimbi nokubungazwa komshado wabo wesintu. Eqhubeka uPontso uthi
uEmily a kakhulumi ngamasiko alandelwa mhlazane eshada. Amasiko afana
nomembeso, umabo noma ukuhlabisa abakhwenyana, kusho uPontso.
33) Egqizelela uPontso uthi bekufanele bufakwe nobufakazi ezincwadi
ezifungelwe obuphuma kulabo ababekhona mhlazane kukhokhwa amalobolo.
Ukungabikhona kwalezincwadi kusho lukhulu.
Incwadi yamalobola.
34) Uma se kuza encwadini yama lobolo ehamba namaphepha kaEmily, uthi
uPontso lencwadi uhubhu lukabhejane.
35) Uyabuza uPontso ukuthi eminyakeni engaphezulu kwamashumi amathathu,
kungani uEmily angazange ake acabange ukubhalisa umshado wakhe noma
afake isahlukaniso enkantolo?
36) Lapho esegeqa am agula uthi uzozibhalisa izingane zikamufi ezinc wadini
zokwahlukaniswa kwefa likamufi.
Impendulo kaEmily
37) Esephendula uEmily, umile kwelokuthi ushadile ngesintu no mufi. Futhi uthi
iRCMA ize emuva kweminyak a eyisishiyagalombili ashada , ngakhoke
isiqephu sesibili
11 seRCMA siyaweseka umshado wakhe. Uyaqhubeka uEmily
11 S2(1) of RCMA
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uveza i ncwadi efungelwe ka mufi. Lencw adi umufi wayifungela ngenkathi
ehlukanisa enkantolo noThembi. Uthi lencwadi isho ukuthi umufi wayeshadile
ngesintu naye. Ekugcineni ukhuluma ngen cwadi efungelwe ebhalwe
ngumama wakhe.
Isimosomthetho mayelana nemishado yesintu.
38) Ngaphambi kokuphela kombuso wobandlululo, imishado y obomdabu yayi
bukelwa phansi , futhi ingekho ezingeni elilingana ne mishado yabokufika.
Yayibukwa njengenhlanganisela imishado yesintu. Guqukiyani izinto lapho
kungena uMthethosisekelo omusha kanye nentando yeningi.
UMthethosisekelo we Ningizimu Afrika oka 1996 uthi kwingxenye yamashumi
amathathu:
“Ulimi namasiko
30. Wonke umuntu unelungelo lokusebenzisa ulimi aluthandayo futhi
abambe iqhaza empilweni yamasiko awa thandayo, kodwa akekho ovunyelwe
ukusebenzisa law o malungelo ngendlela engahambisani nanoma yisiphi
isimiso soMqulu wamaLungelo.”
39) Uphinde kwingxenye yamashumi amathathu nanye uthi:
“Imiphakathi yamasiko, izinkolo kanye nezilimi ezithile
31. (1) Abantu abangamalungu emiphakathi yamasiko, izinkolo
noma izilimi ezithile abanakuphucwa ilungelo, kanye
namanye amalungelo alowo mphakathi –
(a) lokuthokozela amasiko abo, ukuqhuba inkolo yabo
nokusebenzisa ulimi lwabo; kanye
(b) nokubumba, bajoyine futhi bagcine izinhlangano
zamasiko, zenkolo nezezilimi kanye nezinye izinhlaka
zomphakathi wezakhamuzi.
(2) Amalungelo esigatshana sesi (1) akufanele asetshenziswe
ngendlela engahambisani nanoma yisiphi isimiso esikuMqulu
wamaLungelo.”
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40) Ngamafuphi, kusho ukuthi imishado yendabuko i semthethweni ngaphandle
mangabe ingahambisani noMthethosisekelo. Mayihlaziya lendaba, i nkantolo
yoMthethosisekelo12 kwicala lika Mayelane v Ngwenyama and Another13yathi,
ngawami amagama, kufanele imishado yesintu ingabhekwa ngehlo lemithetho
yabokufika. Kodwa kumele ibukwe njengomthetho ozimele geqe.
41) Inkantolo ku Mayelane14 yachaza ukuthi umthetho iRCMA iqiniseka umgomo
okwingxenye 211(3)15 yoMthethosisekelo. Kusukela umthetho iRCMA i ba
semthethweni yonke imishado yendabuko eya sungulwa ngaphambi noma
ngemuva konyaka ka2000 yabekwa emthethweni ngokugcwele, futhi inikezwa
amalungelo alinganayo nemishado yezakhamuzi.
42) Ngokuya ngengxenye yesithathu yeRCMA umshado wendabuko ub a
semthethweni umangabe uhlangabezane nezidingo ezintathu:
Izidingo ezinqala zoMshado wesintu ukuze ubesemthethweni:
a) Abashadayo kumele babe neminyaka eyishumi nesishiyagalombili.
b) Kumele kube nemvume yabo bobabili abashadayo.
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13 (CCT 57/12) [2013] ZACC 14; 2013 (4) SA 415 (CC); 2013 (8) BCLR 918 (CC) (30 May 2013) [24] at para 24
“This Court has, in a number of decisions, explained what this resurrection of customary law to its rightful
place as one of the primary sources of law under the Constitution means. 28 This includes that: a)
customary law must be understood in its own terms, and not through the lens of the common la…”
14 At para 26 the court held: “The Recognition Act represents "a belated but welcome and ambitious
legislative effort to remedy the historical humiliation and exclusion meted out to spouses in marriages
which were entered into in accordance with the law and culture of the indigenous African people of this
country. "32 Past law accorded marriages under customary law recognition only as customary "unions"
and this "grudging recognition of customary marriages prejudiced immeasurably the evolution of rules
governing these marriages. "3" The Recognition Act is legislation "specifically deal[ing] with customary
law" , as envisaged in terms of section 211(3) of the Constitution. Its enactment was inspired by the dignity
and equality rights and the normative value system of the Constitution.34 It is an adaptation of customary
law which "salvage[s] and free[s] customary law from its stunted and deprived past. "
15 The courts must apply customary law when that law is applicable, subject to the Constitution and any
legislation that specifically deals with customary law.
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c) Kumele kube nemithetho yendabuko elandelwayo (isib onelo: ukukhishwa
kwelobolo, ukubonisana kwemindeni).
43) Okumqoka ukuthi akusavumelekile ukungena kumshado we silungu mangabe
usashadile ngesintu.
44) Mangingakushiyi lokhu, ngokwengxenye yes ine yeRCMA abashadi
bayagqugquzelwa ukuba babhalise imishado yabo ezinyangeni ezi ntathu
ngemuva kokuba usunguliwe umshado wabo wesintu, kodwa ukungabhalisi
akusho ukuthi umshado wesintu awukhosemthethweni16.
45) Ngowami umbono lokhu kuyisisusa sezinkinga eziningi emishadweni yesintu.
46) Uma sezihlaziya futhi z ichaza lomthetho iRCMA, i zinkantolo zakulelizwe
zenze izinqumo ezininingi ezingafani. Ekucubunguleni lezidingo inkantolo
Ephakeme yaseMajajini eBloemfontein ecaleni lika Mbungela and Another v
Mkabi and Others 17 yakubeka kwakhanya u kuthi iRCMA18 ayichazi
ngokuphelele ukuthi kuyini okufuneka kufezeke ukuze umsha do wesintu
kuthiwe usemthethweni . Yathi inkantolo lokhu kwenziwa ngoba amasiko
ayaguquguquka, ngakhoke abashaya umthetho (iPhalamende) bakushiye
ezandleni zezinkantolo ukuhlulela ukuthi amasiko alesosizwe alandelwe
ngendlela eqondile ukuze kuthiwe umshado wesintu ususunguliwe futhi
usemthethweni.
47) Okumqoka ukuthi inkantolo kulelicala yala uku bhekana nombuzo omayelana
nokuhambiswa kukankosikazi emzini. Inkantolo yavumelana nom bono ka
Professor Bennett othi abomdabu sebethathe izenzo, n ezinkolelo zabase
ntshonalonga19kanye nenkolo yobukrestu bazifaka kumasiko. Lokhu
kubonakala ngokuthi bangabe basathela abashadi ngenyongo kodwa b afake
16 4(9) Failure to register a customary marriage does not affect the validity of that marriage.
17 (820/2018) [2019] ZASCA 134; 2020 (1) SA 41 (SCA); [2020] 1 All SA 42 (SCA) (30 September 2019)
18But s 3(1)(b) does not stipulate the requirements of customary law which must be met to validate a
customary marriage.
19 Westernized
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indandatho emunweni. Uthi futhi abasahlabi, esikhundleni salokho baya
esontweni lapho umshado ubanjelwa khona. Inkantolo Ephakeme
yaseMajajini eBloemfontein yamukele imibono ka J C Bekker . Ekugcineni
inkantolo yathi kubalulekile ukuqeda ubandlululo, futhi kumqoka ukulandela
uMthethosisekelo, ngakhoke ukungahambiswa emzini aku sona isihibe
esingenza umshado womdabu ungabisemthethweni.
48) Kwicala lika Tsambo v Sengadi .20 Inkantolo Ephakeme yaseMajajini ese
Bloemfontein yakusho kwa gcwala umlomo ukuthi ukungenziwa koku ‘go
gorosiwa’21 (o leng karolo ya botlhokwa ya lenyalo la Setswana) akusona
isihibe sokuthi umshado ubesemthethweni . Ivumelana nenkantolo Enkulu
yaseMajajini eGoli, in kantolo Ephakeme yaseM ajajini eBloemfontein
yaqhubeka yathi amasiko ayaquguquka ngakhoke ukungalandeli imithetho
yesintu ngqo njengothi lukamentshisi akungeze kwavimbela ukuba umshado
ubesemthethweni.
49) Kulelicala ubaba kamufi uTsambo wayekhala ngokuthi kwakungazange
kuhlatshwe isilwane, futhi umakoti wayengazange athelwe ngenyongo.
Inkantolo yakuphebeza konke lokho yavumelana nomakoti uSengadi, owathi
emva kwamalobol o emali ezinkulungwane ezingamashumi amathathu
nanhlanu kwasala izinkulungwane ezi nhlanu. Futhi umalumekazi kamufi
wamugqokisa ingubo athi ingubo yakhe yomshado. Um a bephumela
ngaphandle kwegumbi ababekulo wabona ukuthi nomufi wayeg qoke
izambhatho ezifana nengubo awayeyigqokile, wena owabona amawele. Uthi
bamanga bemtshela ukuthi bayamhalalisela ekwendeni umufi.
50) Uma ubuka ukuthi uSengadi wayemubhalisile umufi ezincwadini
zokunyangwa ngodokotela, phecelezi medical aid, futhi basebehlale bobabili
isikhathi, inkantolo Ephakeme yaseMajajijni eBloemfontein yathi umshado
wabo wesintu wawusemthetweni.
20(244/19) [2020] ZASCA 46 (30 April 2020)
21 The courts call it handing over of the bride.
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51) Nayo lenkantolo yawugwema umbuzo omayelana noku hambiswa
komushadikazi emzini. Lombuzo uyimpicabadala ngoba uthi kungani
kungabesifazane bodwa abahambiswayo emzini. Ababuzalombuzo bathi
lenqubo iphikisana nengxenye yesishiyagalolunye yoMthethosisekelo. Abanye
babuza ukuthi kungani amalobol o akhokhwa abesilisa bodwa, qhude
manikiniki mnike isongo lakhe!
52) Yona futhi inkantolo E phakeme yaseM ajajini eBloemfontein kwicala lika
Manwadu v Manwadu and Others 22yathi ngaphambi kokuba um shado
wesintu kungathiwa usemth ethweni kubalulekile ukulandela amasiko
anjengokuhlaba nokwenza imikhuba yalabo bantu abasuke beshada.
53) Inkantolo kwicala lika Tsambo yathatha i zaluleko zika Professor Bennett
owayezibhale kudala eminyankeni en dlula am ashumi amathathu. Lena
yinkinga esibhekene nezinkantolo. Ngenkathi lemibhalo yenziwa ubandlululo
lalushisa bhe. Kuyihlaya ngem pela ukuthi yiyo imibhalo esetshenziswayo
manje ezinkantolo.
54) Kodwa inkantolo yoMthethosisekelo ecaleni lika Alexkor Ltd and Another v
Richtersveld Community and Others
23yaxwayisa izinkantolo zonke ukuthi
ziqaphele imibhalo kanyenongoti bakudala. Iqiniso liyababa, cishe iningi
lababhala ngemishado yesintu abantu abangakaze babe sezinyaweni
zabomdabu.
22 (799/2023) ((799/2023)) [2025] ZASCA 10; [2025] 2 All SA 27 (SCA); 2025 (3) SA 410 (SCA) (10 February
2025) “Before a customary marriage can be recognised as valid and registered it must satisfy certain
requirements. As is evident from s 4(4)(a) of the RCMA, and the customary law requirements referred to
above, before registering the marriage, the registering officer had to be satisfied that the marriage must
have been concluded in accordance with customary law, meaning that the customs and usages
traditionally observed among the indigenous African peoples of South Africa, which form the culture of
those people, must have been adhered to. The marriage negotiations, rituals and celebrations must be
according to customary law
according to customary law
23 (CCT19/03) [2003] ZACC 18; 2004 (5) SA 460 (CC); 2003 (12) BCLR 1301 (CC) (14 October 2003)
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55) Ecaleni lika Manwadu inkantolo izaluleko zayo yazithatha kuNkuna-Mavutane
ME and Jamneck J.24
56) Inkantolo yoMthethosi sekelo kwicala likaMayelane v Ngwenyama and
Another25 igcizelela ukuthi okubalulekile ukundlula amasiko ukuba kugcinwe
imigomo yoMthethosisekelo.
57) Inkantolo yoMthethosisekelo kwicala lika VVC v JRM and Others26 yathi noma
abashadile beguqula umshado wabo wesintu ukuze ube umshado wabokufika
(wesilungu)27, imigomo emayelana nezimali emshadweni wesintu ayila xazwa
phansi. Ngalokho, inkantolo yayi khombhisa ukuthi imishado yesintu
isisezingeni elifanayo nomhlado wesilungu
58) Awuthi ngicaze lenkulumo. Kulelicala abashadi bangena emshadweni wesintu
ngomhlaka 5 kuNtulikazi (August) 2011. Kwathi emuva kweminyaka
eyisishiyagalombili emshadweni wesintu, ngomhlaka 19 kuNhlolanja
(February) 2019, bavela phambili kommeli wemishado beguqula isimo
sezimali ngaphambi kokuguqula umshado wabo wesintu ukuze
ubengumshado wabokufika noma wesilungu, ngomhlaka 10 ku Nhlangulana
(June) 2021.
59) Njengoba sonkesazi ukuthi umshado awuzimele gelekeqe, ufak ela nezamafa
(izimpahla, izindlu nezimali) . Nizokhumbula ukuthi ngike ngakusho ukuthi
imishado yesilungu makuza kwezamafa ilandela umgomo othi “okwami
okwakho nokwakho ngokwami ,”28ngaphandle mangabe ngaphambi li
komushado kunesivumelwano29 esenziwe phambi kommeli wemishado.30
24 ‘An Appraisal of the Requirements for the Validity of a Customary Marriage in South Africa, Before and
After the Recognition of Customary Marriages Act 120 of 1998(2023) (26) PER/PELJ 1 at 8.
25 [76] Section 3(1)(b) provides that one of the requirements for a valid customary marriage entered into
after the commencement of the Recognition Act is that "the marriage must be negotiated and entered
into or celebrated in accordance with customary law. " The application of customary law is subject to the
Constitution" and its development must promote the spirit, purport and objects of the Bill of Rights. The
achievement of human dignity and equality is one of the founding values of the
26 (CCT202/24) [2026] ZACC 2; 2026 (3) BCLR 234 (CC); 2026 (3) SA 1 (CC) (21 January 2026
27 Section 10(2) of RCMA.
28 Phecelezi in community of property
29 Antenuptial contract
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60) Ngokwengxenye yesikhombisa31 yeRCMA yonke imishado yesintu iyimishado
ehamba ngomgomo othi: “okwami okhwakho nokwakho ngokwami ”,
ngaphandle makuwumushado wesithembu noma kwenziwe lesivumelwano
engisishilo ngaphambili.
61) Mangikusho ukuthi abashadi noma bengazange benza isivumelwano phambi
kommeli w emishado ngaphambi kokuba b ashade, bavumelekile ukuguqula
isimo sezimali ekubeni “okwami okwakho nokwakho ngokwami” kube “okwami
ngokwami nokwakho ngokwakho” . Ukwenza l okho kudingeka balandele
imigomo yengxenye yamashumi ambili nanye yeMatrimonial Property Act 88
of 1984 (MPA).
62) Kwicala lika VVC, inkinga kwaba ukuthi umabewuguqula umshado wabo,
abashadi benza isivumelwano ngaphambi k ommeli we mishado. Ngakhoke
babese belawulwa yimigomo emibili:
• Ngaphansi komshado wabo wesintu kwakungu: “okwami ngokwakho
nokwakho ngokwami.”
• Ngaphansi k omshado wesilungu kwakungu: “okwami ngo kwami
okwakho ngokwakho.”
63) Njengoba sazi izinkunzi ezimbili azihlali esibayeni esisodwa. Umbuzo kwaba
imuphi umgomo ozolandelwa? Inkantolo yoMthethosisekelo yathi kulandelwa
umgomo womshado wesintu, ngoba ngokuya kweRCMA lowomshado
usezingeni elilinganayo nomshado wabokufika.
64) Inkantolo y oMthethosisekelo yachaza ukuthi noma abashadi bengena
emshadweni wesilungu njengoba ibavumela in xenye y eshumi32 yeRCMA
akusho ukuthi uphelile umshado wesintu.33
30 Notary Public
31 S7(2) of RCMA.
32 10 Change of marriage system
(1) A man and a woman between whom a customary marriage subsists are competent to contract a
marriage with each
other under the Marriage Act, 1961 (Act 25 of 1961), if neither of them is a spouse in a subsisting
customary marriage with
any other person
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65) Eqinisweni ngikuthola kunzima ukuthi umshado wesintu ungaguqulwa
uqhubeke futhi ume mpo. Ngombono wami isende indlela ngoba kuvumelekile
ukuguqula umshado ube owesilungu kodwa a yikho indlela yokuguqula
owesilungu ube owesintu. Okusho khona ukuthi ukhalo luselude.
66) Ekuphetheni lenkulumo, kusho ukuthi uma abashadi befisa umshado wabo
ube ngaphandle kokuhlanganisa izimali namafa kufanele bangene
esivumelwaneni phambikwegqwetha (ummeli) lemishado ngaphambi kokuba
kuphume incwadi ehlongoza am alobolo. Yinkinga lena. Umuntu ubacela
kanjani omalume ukuthi bayomkhongela kodwa ebese wukhethile umshado
azongena kuwo?
67) Kuwo wonke lamacala angikaze ngizwe bekhuluma ngengoduso. Lokuhluleka
ukwahlukanisa phakathi kwabantu abashadile nengoduso kungumsusa
wezinkinga eziningi. Izingoduso zithathwa njengabashadikazi ngalokho
izinkantolo zifaka abantu emshadweni w esintu abangakashadi ngokuphelele
ngokwesintu.
Izicelo zabameli
68) Ekuphethweni kwecala inkantolo yalayela ukuba bobabili abameli bangezelele
kwizinhloko zezindaba
34 ngoba kuningi okumqoka ababengakushongo.
69) Abameli baka Emily bagcizele le loludaba lokuthi wayeshadile ngesintu ngoba
incwandi yamalobolo yaphuma. Futhi bathi ngaphambili k weRCMA umthetho
wawungasho ukuthi abashadi kumele babeneminyaka engakanani. B ema
33 45] It must be accepted that the later civil marriage subsumes the customary marriage.[43] However,
this does not mean that, factually, the customary and traditional way of life that the parties had, ceases
to exist. This must be distinguished from the legal consequences that flow. The civil marriage must be
interpreted to replace the customary marriage as a dual marriage is a legal impossibility.[44] But it is
important to emphasise that this does not mean that the customary marriage is terminated as some
commentators appear to suggest.[45] It can, in terms of section 8(1) of the Recognition Act, only be
terminated through a decree of divorce
34 Heads of argument
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ngecala lika Gumede. 35Kulelicala inkantolo yoMthethosisekelo yage qa
amagula isho ukuthi um thetho wabomdabu wawu bhekelwa phansi njenge
nhlanganisela hayi njengomshado.
70) Mayelana nokw ahlukaniswa kwamafa emshadweni abammeli bakaEmily
bakhuluma ngecala lika Gumede v President of the Republic of South Africa
and Others.36
71) Abameli baka Pontso bavika ngecala lika Mayelane, kakhulukazi lapho
likhuluma ngokulandelwa kosiko. Izikhalo ezinohlonze zabammeli bakaPontso
zine. Bakhala ngokungabikhona kobufakazi bokuthi wayeshe de ngaluphi
usiko uEmily n omufi. Uma bekuc haza lokhu, abameli bakaP ontso, bathi
isiqephu sokuqala seRCMA sigcizelela ukuhlonishwa kwes iko lal abo
abashadayo. Okwesibili bama ngecala NDP P v Zuma. 37Kulelicala inkantolo
yakuchaza ngokugcwele ukuthi akufuneki inkulumom pikiswano emacaleni
ezincwadi ezifungelwe. Beqhuba abameli bakaPontso bathi inkulumo kaEmily
iphikisana nenkulumo kaMufi.
72) Bekuchaza lokhu ba mile kwelo kuthi lelicala kwakungafanele lize kumacala
ezincwadi ezifungelwe. Kodwa kwakumele liye kwinkantolo yobufakazi
obufungelwe ukuze bezohloma imibuzo ofakazi. Okwesithathu bathi umshado
kaEmily awuzange wabakhona ngoba wayeyingane. Ngokomthetho
iChildren’s Act38 iseqephu seshumi nesikhombisa ubudala ngokomthetho
kwaguqulwa kwaba ishumi nesishiyagalombili. Lomthetho waguqula
umthemtho iAge of Majority Act 39 owawubeke ubu dala ngokomthetho
kwiminyaka engamashumi amabili nanye. Ekugcineni bathi incwadi kaEmily
yomshado iyinzwabethi efana namahemuhemu ngenxa yokusweleka
kobufakazi balabo ababekhona mhlazane kuhambiswa amalobolo.
Imibono nemicabango yenkatolo
35 Gumede (born Shange) v President of the Republic of South Africa and Others 2009(3) SA 152 (CC) ku
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36 (CCT 50/08) [2008] ZACC 23; 2009 (3) BCLR 243 (CC) ; 2009 (3) SA 152 (CC) (8 December 2008)
37 National Director of Public Prosecutions v Zuma 2009 ZASCA 1(12 January 2009) para 26.
38 No 38 2005.
39 1972(Act 57 of 1972)
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73) Umbuzo oqandis a ikhanda obhekene nalenkantolo othi wabe eshadile na
uEmily nomufi uReuben ngokwesintu? Umile uEmily ekutheni mangabe
umshado kaThembi wachi thwa njengongaka ze wabakhona nasejudeni,
kanjaloke nomshado kaPontso kumele ubenjongongakaze wabakhona.
74) Masesijula ngokwen gqondo, kukhanya bha ukuthi uEmily unqike
ngamaphuzu amabili . Elokuqala, uk uthi umufi uReuben wathatha isifungo
mhla ebhala incwadi esho ukuthi wayeshadile noEmily ngesintu. Okwesibili,
ume ngepheshana elisho ukuthi amalobolo akhishwa kwasala izinkomo ezine.
75) Mangihlaziya iphuzu lokuqala, kuvela inkulumompikiswano enkulu phakathi
kobufakazi bakhe uEmily. Umufi uReuben uthi wagana uEmily ngonyaka
ka1998. Lokhu kuphi kisana nobufakazi bukaEmily o buthi bashada ngonyaka
ka1992. Lempambano im qoka ngoba uPontso ume ngelithi wayeyingane
uEmily ngenkathi eshada ngo1992. Uma ubala ngokuya ngamagalelo kamufi,
uEmily waye sehlanganise iminyaka engamashumi amabili nambili , noma
ngaphezulu mhlazane bengena emendweni.
76) Njengoba ngishilo ngaphambili kwisi gaba samashumi amathathu nanye
kwincwadi kaEmily efungelwe, uthi yena nomufi babengaphezulu kweminyaka
eyishumi nesishiyagalombili mhlazane beshada. Akulona iqiniso lelo mangabe
umuntu ebala iminyaka yakhe kusukela ku nyaka ka1992. Phela uEmily
wazalwa ngo1975. Lokho kusho ukuthi wayengaphansi kw eshumi
nesishiyagalombili. Lenkulumo ivumelana no kuthulwe u mufi uReuben uma
ethi bashada ngo 1998.
77) Lenkulumompikiswano ihlala obala lapho umufi ethatha isi fungo ethi
wayecabanga ukuthi wahlukana kudala noEmily. Kodwa abammeli bakhe
bathi wayesashadile ngesintu. Lokhu kutholakala k wisigaba seshumi
kwincwadi yakhe efungelwe. Eqhubeka uthi yonke incazelo ik wi“FA1”.
Masiyakuyo i”FA1”, ithi ngonyaka ka 1998 izinkulumo nokukhishwa kwa
malobolo kwenzeka p hakathi komdeni womufi noEm ily Dorah Msipha
womazisi 7506030747082. Uthi bahlukana ngonyaka ka2017.
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78) Kungani amagqwetha angazange anikeza incazelo kulenkinga esemehlweni?
Bakhethe ukuthula cwaka. Ngisho noma sengi banike ithuba lokufaka
izinhloko zezindaba. Kwinkantolo Enkulu yaseMajajini eMpumal anga
angitshelwa ukuthi bathini ngalenkinga. Okwesibili abacacisi ukuthi
benzenjani ngendaba yokuthi uEmily wayeyingane mhlazane elotsholwa.
Yonke lemibuzo ayi nazo i zimpendulo. Ngamafuphi, uEmily uyaziphikisa
kwincazelo yakhe. Kuyimpica badala ukuthi kungani umufi uReuben anikeza
unyaka ongafani nencwadi yamalobolo kodwa wa yeyiphethe lapho eya
enkantolo eMpumalanga.
79) Anginikwanga incazelo ukuba kungani uEmily wavumela umufi ashade
uThembi Mary Tjaitjai ngo2004 ngoba, ngokusho kukaEmily , bahlukana
ngo2015. Kanti futhi noma esebuya enkantolo Enkulu yaseMajajini
eMpumalanga kungani engafakanga isahlukaniso ngoba wayengasahlali
nomufi. Ngisho nezingane zikamufi no Thembi , imbala zazalwa ngaphamb i
kokuhlukana kukamufi uReuben no Emily.
80) Okwenzeka enkanto lo Enkulu yaseMajajani eMpumalanga ngomhlaka
17/01/2022 umfowethu, ijaji, uRatshibvumo wakhipha isinqumo
esingumnqamulajuqu. Nomangike ngakusho ngaphambili, angikuphind e,
wathi ngelika George ulimi:
“2. The matter should not be re-enrolled without:
2.1. Ms Msipha joined as a party to the application
2.2. Unless the settlement agreement between the applicant and the first
respondent is attached to the proceedings.”
81) Okumqoka ukuthi wathi kumele kube nesivumelwano phakathi kukamufi
uReuben noThembi. Lokhu kuchaza ukuthi lelicala ali qulwanga ngokugcwele.
Yingakho ngo26 May 2023, uAJ Roelofse wathi ukhipha i sinqumo emuva
kokumamela abammeli bakaReuben. Lokhu kusho ukuthi uThembi
wayengaphikisananga nesicelo sika Reuben. Yinkinga ke lokhu ngoba yonke
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lemibuzo azange icubungulwe. Ngakho angeke ngikusho ngingangabazi
ukuthi uEmily wayeshadile noRueben ngesintu ngokusemthethweni.
82) Kwinkantolo emamela izincwadi ezifungelw e, a bufuneki ubufakazi
obuphikisanayo. Uma inkantolo inquma ukuthi kunobufakazi obuphambanayo
ngakhoke bekufunakala ofakazi bafungiswe bese behlonywa imibuzo,
ingalichitha icala. Ngokomgomo wesithupha 40 kwimigomo yasenkantolo
Ephakeme yaseMajajini mangabe kuvela inkulumompikiswano emaphepheni
inkantolo ingenza okukodwa kuzinto ezintathu:
• Ingalichitha icala u mangabe ummangali wabe efanele ukubona ukuthi
kuzovela inkulumompikiswano.
• Ingathumela icala ukuthi kuyolalelwa lengxenye okuphikiswana ngayo.
• Ingathumela lonke icala ukuthi kuyolale lwa bonke ofakazi bafungiswe
bese baphinde bahlonywe ngemibuzo.
83) Ubufakazi bukaEmily buqhubuzana bubodwa. Angazi kungani kungena
bufakazi balabo ababehola amathimba amalobol o. Lapha ngisho uJune
Msipha kanye no John Khoza. Lelicala engibhekenenalo ngizolichitha ngoba
kwakumele abam meli bakaEmily bekubona ukuthi izobakhona
inkulumompikiswano. Kakhulukazi mangabe umufi esho okungafani no
kushiwo uEmily. Kwicala iPlascon Evans Paints v Van Riebeeck
Paints,41inkantolo yakubeka obala ukuthi inkulum ompikiswano ayifuneki
mangabe kusetshenziswa izincwadi ezifungelwe enkantolo. Inkantolo ayinayo
indlela yokucubungula ukuba ubani othembekileyo enkulumeni mangabe
ibhekene nezwincwadi ezifungelwe zodwa. Icala elinjalo kumele liye
ekuqulweni lapho ofakazi bezofakwa imibuzo enohlonze.
84) Sengigeqa amagula, akwazeki ukuthi uEmily wayengaphe zulu k weminyaka
engu18 mhlazane eshada ngokusho kwakhe, futhi aphinde abe ngaphansi
kwaleyominyaka ngokuya ngencwadi yam alobolo. Kanti ngokusho kukamufi
40 Uniform rule 6(5)(g) of the uniform rules of court.
41 1984 (3) SA 623 (A)
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bahlukana ngo2017 kodwa washada uThembi ngo 2004. Zinqunywa
amakhanda ziyekwe.
Isiphetho
85) Ngikhethe ukubhala ngolimi lalona olahlwe yicala ukuze azi ukuthi limlahla
ngamagama athini. Ngiyathemba lokhu kuphedula umbuzo wabameli
bakaPontso. Kanti futhi ngithemba ukuthi kuzoba usizo kubantu abansundu
ukufunda ngolimi lwabo imigomo yemishado yesintu sabo.
Izindleko
86) Kuyinjwayelo ezinkantolo ukuthi lowo olahlwe yicala akhokhele izindleko
zonqobile. Angiboni kungani kufanele ngiguqule lenqubo kulelicala.
Isinqumo
1. Isicelo sika Emily siyachithwa.
2. Izindleko zizoba ngesisindo sika B.
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MP MOTHA
JUDGE OF THE HIGH COURT
GAUTENG DIVISION, JOHANNESBURG
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Appearances
For the Applicants : Att Gwebu
Instructed : Madlela Gwebu Mashamba Inc.
For the Respondent : Adv Dlamini
Instructed : TTS Attorneys
Date of hearing : 11 May 2026
Date of Judgement : 17 June 2026