F v F (82419/2015) [2016] ZAGPPHC 1054 (22 December 2016)

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Brief Summary

Divorce — Maintenance — Rule 43(6) application for contribution towards legal costs — Plaintiff sought R250,000 for legal costs due to defendant's failure to comply with maintenance orders — Defendant failed to file opposing affidavit, resulting in being barred from contesting allegations — Court ordered defendant to contribute R200,000 towards plaintiff's legal costs based on financial circumstances and increased litigation costs.

Comprehensive Summary

Summary of Judgment


1. Introduction


This judgment concerns divorce proceedings in the High Court of South Africa, Gauteng Division, Pretoria. The matter was heard as an action for divorce in which the plaintiff (Mrs F) sought a decree of divorce and ancillary relief, including spousal maintenance, maintenance for two children (one minor and one major but still dependent), and a further contribution to legal costs by way of an application brought in limine under Rule 43(6). The defendant (Mr F) delivered a counterclaim likewise seeking a decree of divorce, division of the joint estate, and ancillary relief, coupled with a tender relating to maintenance.


As recorded at the outset of the hearing, certain issues were not pursued for determination at trial. The parties indicated that the division of the joint estate (in practical terms) and the parties’ respective rights regarding the care and control of the minor child (including contact) were not issues requiring adjudication in the divorce trial itself, although the court ultimately still issued orders relating to parental responsibilities and rights and the minor child’s residence pending Children’s Court proceedings.


The dispute before the court therefore narrowed to a defined set of questions: a Rule 43(6) legal-cost contribution application; the quantum and duration of spousal maintenance; the quantum of maintenance for the minor child; the quantum of maintenance for the major dependent child; and costs.


The general subject matter was the proper regulation, upon divorce, of post-divorce financial support for the former spouse and the children, in a context where the court found there had been extensive litigation between the parties and ongoing conflict, including non-compliance with earlier court orders.


2. Material Facts


The parties were married in community of property on 14 February 1996 and had been married for approximately 20 years at the time of trial. Two children were born of the marriage: a major dependent child (about 19 years old) and a minor child (about 16 years old). Both children resided with the plaintiff at the former matrimonial home. The parties had been living apart since 2 October 2015, when the defendant vacated the common home.


It was common cause that the marriage had irretrievably broken down and that there was no reasonable prospect of restoring the marital relationship. While the parties disagreed about the reasons for the breakdown, the court treated the marriage as beyond repair and proceeded to dissolve it. It was also accepted that it was in the minor child’s best interests that both parents retain parental responsibilities and rights, although residence and contact were complicated by pending Children’s Court proceedings.


A substantial portion of the relevant factual matrix concerned the parties’ financial circumstances and litigation history after separation. The plaintiff alleged she had been unemployed since February 2014, had no savings or investments to fund litigation, and had been compelled to borrow money and obtain assistance to support herself and the children. She relied on the defendant’s alleged failure to provide consistent maintenance after he left the matrimonial home, and his alleged non-compliance with earlier court orders (including a prior Rule 43 order granting interim maintenance and a contribution to legal costs).


The plaintiff’s case on litigation costs was that she had incurred extensive costs in bringing and defending various proceedings, which she attributed largely to the defendant’s failure to meet maintenance obligations and comply with court orders. She further asserted that, to pursue her claim for spousal maintenance (including a claim advanced on the basis of asserted incapacity to work), she had to engage expert evidence and pursue steps to investigate and compel disclosure of the defendant’s financial position.


On the Rule 43(6) application, it was material that the defendant did not file an opposing affidavit, with the consequence described by the court that he was barred from placing controverting affidavit evidence before the court in terms of Rule 43(3), although he could still argue on the applicant’s sworn statement or seek the admission of evidence under Rule 43(5). The court also treated as material the plaintiff’s evidence that an earlier contribution to legal costs ordered on 3 March 2016 (R10 000) had not been paid by the defendant.


On the merits of maintenance, the plaintiff relied on evidence that she had resigned from employment in 2014, that she suffered physical and psychological conditions (including depression and back/hip pain), and that she experienced difficulty securing employment given her age and circumstances. Expert evidence was led by a counselling psychologist, an industrial psychologist, and an orthopaedic surgeon. The defendant, for his part, contended that the plaintiff should not receive lifelong maintenance and advanced a rehabilitative maintenance tender, while asserting financial constraints and outstanding liabilities (including to SARS), and disputing aspects of the plaintiff’s narrative concerning the marriage breakdown and the plaintiff’s unemployability.


The court treated as material that the plaintiff had received significant funds after resignation (a net amount exceeding R1.19 million) and later a retirement annuity payout, and that these sums were spent. The court also treated as material its assessment that both parties had displayed financial imprudence, including large expenditures over time despite later being under debt review.


As regards accommodation, the court considered it material that no evidence was presented quantifying the plaintiff’s future accommodation requirements or costs. This absence of quantification constrained the court’s ability to incorporate accommodation into maintenance in any specific way.


On the defendant’s means, the court accepted that the defendant earned approximately R42 030 per month, had allowances (including a medical allowance and car allowance), received rental contributions from a tenant, and had not made full and reliable disclosure of his overall financial position. The court treated the defendant’s evidence on finances and expenditures as unreliable in material respects, including in relation to additional income streams and the extent to which claimed deductions (such as SARS deductions) should be treated as overriding his maintenance obligations.


3. Legal Issues


The central legal questions requiring determination were, first, whether the plaintiff established grounds for an additional contribution to legal costs under Rule 43(6), and if so, what amount the court should order in the exercise of its discretion.


Secondly, the court was required to determine, under section 7(2) of the Divorce Act 70 of 1979, whether spousal maintenance should be ordered post-divorce, and if so, the appropriate quantum and duration, considering the factors enumerated in the statute and the requirement that the order be just.


Thirdly, the court had to decide what maintenance and related contributions were appropriate for the minor child and the major but dependent child, in light of the common-law duty of support, section 6 of the Divorce Act, and the principle that the best interests of the child are paramount. This included the question of whether support should be expressed as fixed monthly sums and what additional obligations (such as school and medical costs) should be included.


Finally, the court had to determine the appropriate order as to costs, taking account of the parties’ relative success and the litigation conduct described in the evidence.


The dispute was predominantly one of application of legal principles to contested and uncontested facts, together with evaluative and discretionary judgments on matters such as credibility, the extent of demonstrated need, the appropriate period for rehabilitative maintenance, and the weight to be attached to incomplete or unreliable financial disclosure.


4. Court’s Reasoning


On the Rule 43(6) application, the court approached the matter on the basis that such an application is competent where a material change of circumstances is shown. The court accepted that the plaintiff’s litigation costs had increased substantially after the earlier Rule 43 order, particularly in light of further litigation which the court understood to have been driven, at least in significant part, by the defendant’s failure to maintain and/or comply with orders. The court emphasised that the quantum of a contribution is discretionary, and that the applicant must be placed in a position to adequately present her case. In exercising its discretion, the court had regard to the parties’ respective financial positions, the nature and scale of the litigation, and the principle of equality before the law, including the dignity-related concern referenced in the authority it cited.


The court considered the plaintiff’s evidence that she had insufficient means to fund litigation and had incurred substantial legal costs, including expert costs, and contrasted this with the defendant’s apparent access to funds, including monies in his control that formed part of the joint estate to which the plaintiff lacked access. The defendant’s failure to file an opposing affidavit meant the plaintiff’s version on the Rule 43(6) papers stood uncontroverted in affidavit form. While acknowledging that the plaintiff was not entitled to all anticipated costs (and that the contribution related to the action rather than interim applications), the court concluded that a substantial further contribution was justified and fixed it at R200 000, which it considered reasonable.


On spousal maintenance, the court applied section 7(2) of the Divorce Act, treating the statutory factors as non-exhaustive and requiring a balancing exercise aimed at a result that is fair to both parties. The court cited authority indicating that no single factor is decisive and that the overall enquiry is directed to what is “just” in context.


In evaluating conduct and causation of the breakdown, the court accepted that the marriage had irretrievably broken down but aligned itself with the view that fault plays no part in the determination of maintenance on the facts of the case as presented. It characterised both parties as having contributed to the breakdown and, critically for the maintenance enquiry, as having demonstrated extreme financial imprudence over time.


A major point of reasoning concerned the plaintiff’s claim for maintenance in perpetuity, said to be justified by medical unfitness for work. The court examined the plaintiff’s employment history, noting sustained employment over many years during the marriage and that the plaintiff had worked despite longstanding back pain and depression. It considered the plaintiff’s varying explanations for resigning in 2014 and found it improbable, given the financial hardship the parties experienced at the time, that the defendant would have insisted she resign; the court regarded it as more probable that the plaintiff exercised an autonomous choice to resign. The court also considered that the plaintiff had remained motivated to work, including performing hairdressing work after separation, and that the plaintiff testified she wanted to work and would accept employment if offered.


While the court accepted that the plaintiff was in need of maintenance at present, it concluded that the plaintiff had not established an inability to work that would justify lifelong support. The court reasoned that a perpetual award would unfairly bind the defendant indefinitely while the plaintiff remained economically inactive, and it expressed the view that it was appropriate, on these facts, to apply a “clean break” approach geared toward economic independence. At the same time, the court recognised constraints on the plaintiff’s employability, including age and current psychological condition, and it therefore sought to craft an order that created a window of opportunity for therapy and re-entry to work, thereby incentivising self-support.


As to the quantum of spousal maintenance, the court relied on the plaintiff’s reduced claim (R4 402.75 per month, later reflected in the order as R4 403.00) and found it not unreasonable or exaggerated, noting that the figure excluded medical requirements. The court accepted the need for therapy as recommended and made provision for monthly payments to cover therapy sessions at the rate testified to, limited to a defined number of sessions.


On accommodation costs, the court referred to authority recognising accommodation as potentially part of maintenance needs, but held that it could not determine accommodation-related maintenance because the plaintiff led no evidence quantifying future accommodation needs or expenses. The court considered it just, in the circumstances, that the plaintiff’s future accommodation should be financed from her share of the joint estate once the matrimonial property was sold and proceeds divided.


On maintenance for the children, the court applied the principle that children are entitled to reasonable maintenance, assessed contextually, and reiterated that the best interests standard is paramount. For the minor child, the court took into account the plaintiff’s concession during cross-examination that R1 500 per month would be sufficient at that juncture (excluding medical and accommodation costs), and coupled that with an order requiring the defendant to pay the minor child’s high school educational expenses and reasonable medical costs.


For the major dependent child, the court relied on authority (including the recognition that the duty to maintain can extend beyond majority) and rejected the notion that support should be left wholly to the defendant’s discretion. Although the defendant claimed he paid what was needed as finances permitted, the court found his asserted inability to comply with a maintenance order in respect of the major child not credible, particularly given evidence of discretionary expenditures and the defendant’s history of non-compliance with maintenance orders while funding other expenses. Because the evidence did not quantify the major child’s full monthly needs with precision, the court crafted an order directed at at least the ongoing household and living costs borne by the plaintiff (including food and services), together with an obligation for reasonable additional items such as cell phone, entertainment, pocket money, and clothing.


On the defendant’s means and capacity, the court was not persuaded that claimed liabilities (such as SARS deductions) should trump maintenance obligations, especially because the defendant provided no reliable documentary basis for the asserted arrangements and timeframes. The court found that the defendant had not provided a true or accurate disclosure of his financial affairs and that he had additional means and benefits beyond what was straightforwardly presented, including allowances and other income streams. It concluded, on the totality of the evidence, that the defendant was able to afford the maintenance amounts ordered.


On an order sought in heads of argument relating to the defendant’s pension interest being used to pay certain prior cost orders, and on a request concerning tertiary education costs, the court declined to grant such relief. It reasoned that the division of the joint estate and proportional distribution were not triable issues in the proceedings as delineated at trial, and that enforcement mechanisms such as contempt proceedings were available regarding unpaid costs. It also declined to order tertiary education costs because such relief was not sought on the pleadings being used for determination and no evidence was led on those costs.


On costs, although acknowledging partial success on both sides, the court emphasised the defendant’s litigation conduct, including ignoring court orders, inadequate financial disclosure, and an approach described as akin to “catch me if you can.” It considered it just that the defendant pay the plaintiff’s costs of suit.


5. Outcome and Relief


The court granted a decree of divorce and ordered division of the joint estate. It declared that the defendant’s interest in the Government Employees Pension Fund (identified by number in the order) is, for purposes of the joint estate, an asset of the joint estate.


The court ordered that both parties retain parental responsibilities and rights in respect of the minor child, and granted the plaintiff primary residence of the minor child pending finalisation of proceedings in the Children’s Court, with reasonable contact to the defendant by arrangement.


The court ordered the defendant to pay maintenance for the minor child of R1 500 per month from 1 January 2017 (escalating annually with CPI), to pay the minor child’s high school educational costs, and to pay the children’s reasonable medical costs directly to service providers.


The court ordered the defendant to pay maintenance for the major dependent child of R1 500 per month from 1 January 2017 (escalating annually with CPI), together with the reasonable costs of the major dependent child’s cell phone, entertainment, pocket money, and clothing, until age 25 or self-support, whichever occurs first.


For the plaintiff, the court ordered rehabilitative spousal maintenance of R4 403 per month for three years from 1 January 2017 (escalating annually with CPI), and payment of R1 025 per month for 24 months for therapy sessions, payable directly to the service provider.


In addition, in a Rule 43(6) order made in limine at the commencement of trial (reasons later furnished in the judgment), the defendant was ordered to contribute R200 000 towards the plaintiff’s legal costs, payable into the trust account of the plaintiff’s attorneys within 10 days of the order.


The defendant was ordered to pay the plaintiff’s party-and-party costs of suit.


Cases Cited


Van Rippen v Van Rippen 1949 (4) SA 634 (C).

Nicholson v Nicholson 1998 (1) SA 48 (W).

Muhlman v Muhlman 1984 (1) SA 413 (W).

Senior v Senior 1999 (4) SA 955 (W).

Bates v Bates 1969 (3) SA 168 (R).

Cary v Cary 1999 (3) SA 615 (C).

Dodo v Dodo 1990 (2) SA 77 (W).

Service v Service 1968 (3) SA 526 (D).

Micklem v Micklem 1998 (3) SA 259 (C).

Maas v Maas 1993 (3) SA 885 (O).

S v Van der Meyden 1999 (1) SACR 447 (W).

LW v LW (52148/2007) [2013] ZAGPPHC 268 (22 June 2013).

Botha v Botha (2005/25726) [2008] ZAGPHC 169 (9 June 2008).

Grasso v Grasso 1987 (1) SA 48 (C).

Swart v Swart 1980 (4) SA 364 (O).

Smit v Smit 1980 (4) ALL SA 52 (O).

Zwiegelaar v Zwiegelaar 2001 (1) SA 1208 (SCA).

Buttner v Buttner 2006 (3) SA 23 (SCA).

Bursey v Bursey and Another 1999 (3) SA 33 (SCA).

Kemp v Kemp 1958 (3) SA 736 (D).

Legal-Aid South Africa v Mzoxolo Mogidiwana (1055/13) [2014] ZASCA 141 (26 September 2014).

B v B (700/2013) [2014] ZASCA 137 (25 September 2014).

Gauteng Province Driving School Association & others v Amaryllis Investments (Pty) Ltd & another (006/11) [2011] ZASCA 237 (1 December 2011).


Legislation Cited


Constitution of the Republic of South Africa, 1996 (section 9(1)).


Divorce Act 70 of 1979 (sections 6(1)(a), 6(3), 7(2)).


Rules of Court Cited


Uniform Rules of Court, Rule 43(3).


Uniform Rules of Court, Rule 43(5).


Uniform Rules of Court, Rule 43(6).


Held


The court held that the plaintiff established grounds for a further Rule 43(6) contribution to legal costs and, exercising its discretion, ordered the defendant to pay R200 000 towards those costs.


On the merits, the court held that although the plaintiff was in need of maintenance at the time of divorce, she did not establish an entitlement to lifelong spousal maintenance. Applying the statutory framework in section 7(2) of the Divorce Act and an evaluative balancing of fairness to both parties, the court ordered rehabilitative maintenance for a finite period, together with therapy costs, to facilitate recovery and the pursuit of employment.


The court further held that the defendant must maintain both the minor child and the major dependent child, including specified monthly payments (with CPI escalation) and additional educational and medical obligations, and that it was not appropriate to leave the major dependent child’s support entirely to the defendant’s discretion.


Finally, the court held that the defendant’s litigation conduct and non-compliance with orders justified a costs award against him, and it ordered him to pay the plaintiff’s party-and-party costs.


LEGAL PRINCIPLES


The judgment applied the principle that a contribution to legal costs under Rule 43(6) depends on a material change in circumstances and is awarded in the discretion of the court, having regard to the parties’ financial positions, the nature and scale of litigation, and the need to ensure a party is placed in a position to adequately present their case.


In relation to post-divorce spousal maintenance under section 7(2) of the Divorce Act 70 of 1979, the court applied the principle that the court must consider the statutory factors in a contextual balancing exercise directed at an outcome that is just and fair to both spouses, and that no single factor is inherently decisive.


The judgment applied the principle that a child’s right to maintenance is determined by reasonableness in the circumstances and that the duty of support may continue beyond majority for a dependent child. It further applied the principle that in matters concerning children, the best interests of the child are paramount and that a divorce decree should not be granted unless the provisions for minor or dependent children are satisfactory or the best that can be effected in the circumstances.


The court further applied the principle that where a party fails to provide evidence quantifying a claimed head of need (such as accommodation costs), the court is not required or entitled to speculate in order to craft relief on that basis, and the evidentiary shortfall may constrain the relief that can be granted.


Finally, the judgment applied the principle that court orders must be obeyed until set aside, and that litigation conduct, including non-compliance with court orders and inadequate disclosure, may be relevant to the court’s discretionary decision on costs.

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F v F (82419/2015) [2016] ZAGPPHC 1054 (22 December 2016)

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IN
THE HIGH COURT OF SOUTH AFRICA
GAUTENG
DIVISION, PRETORIA
Case
No. 82419/2015
Reportable:
YES
Of
interest to other judges: YES
Revised.
22/12/2016
In
the matter between:
F
Plaintiff
and
F
Defendant
JUDGMENT
A.
MAIER-FRAWLEY AJ
Introduction
1.
Because the interests of a minor child are involved, and because
allegations of a salacious nature were made by the parties,
I deem it
prudent not to refer to the parties and the children born of their
marriage by name. For this reason the citation of
the parties in this
judgment will be F (Mrs F, referred to as the plaintiff) and F (Mr F,
referred to as the defendant). The minor
child will remain unnamed,
as too, the major dependant child.
2.
This is an action for divorce in which the plaintiff claims
inter
alia,
a decree of divorce, division of the joint estate, payment
of maintenance for the plaintiff and on behalf of two children born
of
the marriage (one minor and one dependant major) and ancillary
relief.
3.
The defendant instituted a counterclaim in which he claims a decree
of divorce, division of the joint estate and ancillary relief.
The
counterclaim incorporates a tender for payment by the defendant of
maintenance in respect of the plaintiff and both children.
I set out
the relevant tender in specific terms below.
4.
At the outset of hearing, the court was informed that the division of
the joint estate and the parties' respective rights in
regard to the
care and control of the minor child, including defendant's rights of
contact to the minor child, were not issues
for determination at
trial. The parties indicated through their respective counsel that
the matrimonial property will be sold and
the net proceeds thereof
divided between the parties. A division of the joint estate would
occur in accordance with the precepts
of the law, either by agreement
between the parties or at the direction of an appointed referee.
5.
The following were the only issues for determination at the hearing:
5.1 The merits of a
formal application brought
in limine
by the plaintiff (as
applicant) in terms of Rule 43(6) of the Uniform Rules of Court (rule
46(3) application) for payment by the
defendant (as respondent) of a
further contribution towards the plaintiff s legal costs
5.2 The amount of
maintenance payable by the defendant in respect of the plaintiff and
the duration thereof;
5.3 The amount of
maintenance payable by the defendant in respect of the minor child;
5.4 The amount of
maintenance payable by the defendant in respect of the major but
dependant child; and
5.5 Liability of each
party in respect of costs.
6.
In terms of the parties' pre-trial minute, only those documents
referred to in evidence were to be taken into account by the
court.
7.
The court was specifically informed by counsel representing the
respective parties to disregard the amended pleadings filed of
record
in the action and to determine the matter on the un-amended pleadings
filed of record but contained in a separate bundle
for this purpose.
Rule
43(6) application
8.
The plaintiff in the action was the applicant in the Rule 43(6)
application whilst the defendant in the action was cited as the

respondent in the application. For convenience, the parties will be
referred to as indicated earlier in this judgment.
9.
In terms of her Rule 43(6) application, the plaintiff sought a
contribution towards her legal costs in the amount of R250 000.00.
A
substantive application was served on the defendant prior to the
trial date. The defendant failed to file an opposing affidavit.
That
carried with it the consequence that the defendant was
ipso facto
barred from gainsaying the plaintiff's allegations by means of
controverting evidence on affidavit in terms of the provisions of

Rule 43(3) of the Uniform Rules of Court. The defendant remained
entitled to argue the application on the plaintiff's sworn statement

or to convince the court to hear such evidence as was considered
necessary in terms of subrule (5).
10.
The plaintiff urged the court to entertain the application
in
limine
at the outset of the proceedings. The defendant requested
the court to determine the application only after evidence was led at
trial. No explanation was tendered by the defendant for his failure
to reply to the plaintiff's sworn statement. Nor was the court

directed to any specific evidence considered as necessary in the
adjudication of the matter.
11.
After hearing and considering argument from counsel appearing for the
respective parties, I entertained the application before
evidence was
led at trial and made an order in the following terms:
"The defendant is
ordered to contribute the sum of R200,000.00 towards the Plaintiff's
legal costs, which amount is payable
by way of EFT directly into the
trust account of the Applicant's attorney of record within 10 (ten)
days of the grant of this order."
12.
When making the order aforesaid, I indicated to the parties that I
would provide reasons therefor in my judgment at the conclusion
of
the trial. These are my reasons.
13.
As was apparent from the papers filed in the Rule 43{6) application,
the plaintiff obtained an order for interim maintenance
against the
defendant on 3 March 2016 in terms whereof the defendant was ordered,
inter alia,
to pay an amount of R10 000.00 towards the
plaintiff's legal costs on or before the 1
st
of the month
following the date on which the order was granted. The defendant
failed to pay such amount.
14.
According to the plaintiff, she has been unemployed since February
2014. She is presently 55 years old. She has no savings or

investments to use towards the payment of the costs incurred by her
in the divorce litigation. She has had to borrow money from
friends
and her church in order to maintain herself and the two children born
of the marriage between the parties.
15.
The defendant vacated the matrimonial home in the first week of
October 2015 and thereafter only made sporadic and minor arbitrary

maintenance payments to the plaintiff in respect of the upkeep of the
matrimonial home and the monthly expenses of the plaintiff
and the
two children, both of whom reside with the plaintiff. The plaintiffs
monthly expenses were stated to amount to R22 208.46
in respect of
herself and the minor children.
16.
The plaintiff was forced to resort to litigation in order to obtain
monetary relief.
Inter alia,
she sought and obtained a
Domestic Violence interdict for emergency monetary relief pursuant to
which the defendant was ordered
to pay R750.00 per month in respect
of medical expenses. The defendant failed to comply with the order
and instead brought an application
for a variation thereof, which the
plaintiff had to defend and which was subsequently dismissed by the
court.
17.
Thereafter, the minor child applied for and was granted an interim
protection order against the defendant as a result of threats
made by
the defendant to remove him from his current school, which the
plaintiff was obliged to fund. The plaintiff then brought
a Rule 43
application for interim maintenance pending the finalization of the
divorce action, which was opposed by the defendant.
An order was
granted in favour of the plaintiff, which the defendant failed to
comply with.
18.
The defendant later approached the Children's Court, Pretoria, in bid
to remove the minor child from the plaintiff's care, which
the
plaintiff is opposing. Thereafter the defendant brought an urgent
application against the plaintiff and third parties,
inter alia,
to uplift the hold on his bank accounts, which the plaintiff
opposed and simultaneously therewith, brought a counterclaim for
contempt
of court relating to the defendant's non-compliance of the
Rule 43 order. The defendant subsequently withdrew the urgent
application
and tendered to pay the plaintiff's costs, which he again
failed to pay. The plaintiff's contempt application is pending
adjudication.
19.
It was demonstrated that the plaintiff incurred enormous costs in
either instituting or defending the various applications,
which, save
for the matter pending before the Children's Court, were all
necessitated by the defendant's failure to pay maintenance
on behalf
of the plaintiff and the children and/or his failure to comply with
existing court orders.
20.
In the divorce action, the plaintiff seeks payment of maintenance in
respect of herself in perpetuity, on the basis that she
is medically
unfit to work. The defendant disputes her entitlement to maintenance
in perpetuity and his ability to pay the amount
claimed. This
necessitated the plaintiff having to employ the services of three
experts in differing fields of specialization for
purposes of proving
her claim. Due to the defendant's failure to comply with pre-trial
procedures relating to discovery of his
financial position, the
plaintiff was compelled to employ various procedures to investigate
the nature and extent of assets forming
part of the joint estate, the
defendant's income potential and living expenses. To this end, the
plaintiff incurred additional
costs to secure available documentation
from various entities and institutions, including the launch of
interlocutory applications
to compel the defendant to make proper
discovery.
21.
The papers revealed that the defendant earns a monthly income in
excess of R42 000.00 by virtue of his employment at the Department
of
Trade and Industry. He also has access to funds from other sources
inter alia,
an amount of R502 644.49 received in February 2015
pursuant to an employment grievance procedure. The defendant
allegedly forged
the plaintiff s signature in order to obtain a
credit card from which he gained access to further funds, which were
not placed
at the disposal of the plaintiff or the children. The
defendant's bank statement shows that he received an amount of R70
000.00
during November 2014. In addition, an amount of approximately
R800 000.00 was paid into the defendant's Standard Bank account in

October or November 2014, being the proceeds of a second bond which
had been registered over the matrimonial property, to which
funds the
plaintiff did not have access.
22.
On the uncontroverted evidence, the defendant has been utilizing
funds, which are only at his disposal, with which to fund his

litigation and which form part of the joint estate to which the
plaintiff has no access.
23.
From a perusal of the
pro forma
bill of costs of the
plaintiff's attorneys, her aggregate total legal costs thus far
amount to R578 363.73, which amount includes
the costs of three
experts.
Relevant
legal principles
24.
An application in terms of Rule 43(6) may be brought in the event of
a material change of circumstances. The defendant's conduct
since the
grant of the Rule 43 order referred to earlier resulted in litigation
in various courts which increased the plaintiff's
costs of
litigation. The initial contribution given in the Rule 43 order is
clearly inadequate with which to fund the plaintiff
s trial costs.
25.
The amount of a contribution payable by a respondent pursuant to a
Rule 43(6) application is in the discretion of the court.
In this
regard, I am to have regard to the circumstances of the case, the
financial position of the parties and the issues involved
in the
pending litigation. The applicant is required to be put in a position
to adequately present her case before court.
[1]
A further relevant factor is the scale on which a respondent
litigates and the scale on which the applicant intends to
litigate.
[2]
What is adequate
depends on the nature of the litigation, the scale on which the
husband is litigating, the scale on which the
wife intends to
litigate, with due regard being had to the husband's financial
position.
[3]
The contribution
sought need not be limited to disbursements only but can include
attorney's reasonable fees.
[4]
It is trite that an applicant is ordinarily entitled to a
contribution only up to and including the first day of trial but that

thereafter contributions may be claimed on a day to day basis.
[5]
26.
In terms of section 9(1) of the Constitution of the Republic of South
Africa, both parties have the right to equal protection
of the law.
In the case of
Cary
v Cary
[6]
the
position was stated thus: '...The question of protecting Applicant's
right to and respect for and protection of her dignity
also arises in
the present situation where a wife has to approach her husband for
the means to divorce him.'
27.
I am satisfied that the plaintiff has made out a
prima
facie
case
for a further contribution in that she has insufficient means of her
own, in contradistinction to the defendant who appears
to have
sufficient means at his disposal. The plaintiff is not entitled to
all her anticipated costs, but she is entitled to a
substantial
contribution towards them.
[7]
28.
In the light of the circumstances of the matter, the quoted
authorities and mindful of the fact that the plaintiff was not
entitled to the costs of interim applications but only to a
contribution towards the costs of the action,
[8]
I considered the amount of R200 00.00 awarded to be reasonable.
Plaintiff's
Claim and Defendant's Tender in his Counterclaim
29.
In terms of her un-amended pleadings, the plaintiff claims:
29.1. Lifelong
maintenance in respect of the plaintiff in the sum of R20 000.00 per
month;
29.2. Maintenance in
respect of the children in the amount of R10 000.00 per month per
child;
29.3. Payment of the
children's school fees and school related expenses including the
costs of extramural activities, school uniforms,
books, stationery,
school tours, clothing and equipment;
30.
In the counterclaim, the defendant tenders to pay:
30.1. Rehabilitative
maintenance in respect of the plaintiff in the amount of R5 000.00
per month for a period of 6 (six) months;
30.2. Maintenance on
behalf of the minor child in the amount of R1 500.00 per month until
he attains the age of 25 or becomes independent,
whichever occurs
first;
30.3. Payment of the
minor child's high school educational expenses including but not
limited to school fees, reading materials,
stationery and extra-mural
expenses;
30.4. A contribution
towards the major dependant child's maintenance until he attains the
age of 25 or independency, whichever event
occurs first.
31. Both parties seek an
order for costs of suit.
Background
32.
The parties were married to each other in community of property on 14
February 1996. They have thus been married for a period
of 20 years.
The parties have two children, a major dependant child who is
presently 19 years old and a minor child, who is presently
16 years
old. The major dependant child is not currently pursuing any form of
tertiary studies and is looking for employment, although
the
defendant is assisting him in the quest to secure some or other
position in the Republic of China next year. The minor child
attends
a private school. Although the 19 year old child is a major, he still
resides with the plaintiff and is currently still
dependent on the
parties for his financial support. Both children reside with the
plaintiff at […] A. Street, Constantia
Park, Pretoria (the
erstwhile matrimonial home). The parties have been living apart since
2 October 2015, being the date on which
date the defendant vacated
the common home.
33.
The parties experienced unresolved marital difficulties/conflict for
a number of years, caused
inter alia,
by pervading feelings of
mistrust that developed as a result of what can be termed as
'grounded suspicions' of infidelity on either
side, a lack of any
meaningful communication between the parties, with attendant failure
or inability to address their problems,
either meaningfully or at
all, the fall-out from indiscriminate physical altercations, and
stress occasioned by financial hardship
experienced during 2013 and
subsequent thereto.
34.
It is common cause between the parties that their marriage has
irretrievably broken down and that there is no reasonable prospect
of
restoring their marital relationship. The parties disagree on the
reasons for the breakdown of the relationship. The parties
are
ad
idem
that it is in the minor child's best interests that both
parties be granted parental responsibilities and rights pertaining to
the
minor child with regard to care, contact, maintenance and
guardianship.
Evidence
tendered at trial
35.
The plaintiff testified in support of her claim and called three
expert witnesses to testify on her behalf, namely, Ms. Karen
Havenga
(Counselling Psychologist), Mr. W. Wessels (Industrial Psychologist)
and Dr Birrell (Orthopaedic Surgeon). The qualifications
and
expertise of the respective experts within their specialized fields
of practice were not in dispute. Thereafter the defendant
testified.
He called no further witnesses before closing his case.
36.
I do not propose to summarize all the evidence of the witnesses in
the course of this judgment, the reason being that the evidence

appears on record. I have however considered all the evidence
presented by the parties. I will refer to salient aspects of the

evidence which I consider relevant and cogent in arriving at the
decision in this matter, bearing in mind the remarks of Nugent
J (as
he then was) in
S
v Van der Meyden.
[9]
For the
sake of convenience, I summarize the expert testimony first.
Evidence
of Clinical Psychologist
37.
Ms Havenga compiled a written report in regard to the plaintiff's
psychological and emotional state of mind and the impact thereof
on
her present level of functionality. She confirmed the contents of her
report and stated that it was compiled from what was subjectively

reported to her by the plaintiff, the outcome of clinical tests
conducted by her and her own clinical impressions, and evaluation
of
the plaintiff.
38.
Ms Havenga testified that the plaintiff suffers from depression which
was brought on by problems experienced in the marriage,
the resultant
breakdown of the marriage and the stress of the divorce. The
plaintiff reported to her that she tried to commit suicide
in January
2014, whereafter she suffered burn-out and stopped working. Ms
Havenga is of the opinion that the plaintiff may still
harbour
suicidal tendencies. The plaintiff was a vulnerable individual before
the divorce, having been molested by her father as
a young girl and
not having had a good family life whilst growing up. The plaintiff
was involved in a relationship with a married
man for ten years
before her marriage with the defendant. The plaintiff also has a son
from a previous relationship who is presently
a major, who works and
lives in Cape Town. When the plaintiff met the defendant, she had the
belief and expectation that the defendant
was going to provide
everything she ever dreamed of. When the marriage fell apart, so did
the plaintiff.
39.
Ms Havenga's clinical diagnosis is that the plaintiff is very
depressed and has elevated feelings of anxiety, 'which will make
it
more difficult for her to cope with the stressors in a work
environment'. These problems are ascribed to 'divorce related factors

and the plaintiff's physical problems'. The plaintiff reported
suffering from back and hip pain and relayed to Ms Havenga, the

emotional toll which the defendant's behaviour and the pending
divorce has had on her. In Ms Havenga's opinion, there is no 'quick

fix' for depression. She cannot say with certainty that the plaintiff
will not find employment, but opines that having regard to
her age,
the plaintiff's lack of education, the sequelae of her depression
such as fatigue, lack of drive, lack of motivation and
energy and
lack of concentration, she will likely find it difficult to maintain
employment.
40.
Ms Havenga is of the opinion that although the plaintiff's
functioning should improve with the aid of therapy and medication,

she could not say to what degree it would improve. She recommends
that the plaintiff undergoes 28 to 32 sessions of psychological

therapy at a cost of R1 025.00 per session.
Evidence
of Industrial Psychologist
41.
Mr. Wessels confirmed the contents of his written report. He was
requested to assess the plaintiff's employability taking into

consideration her current disposition with regard to the divorce and
her overall profile of employability. He explained his assessment

methodology whereby he considered the plaintiff's qualifications and
work experience, her subjective reports about her physical
and
psychological disposition, information obtained from collateral
sources such as a recruitment agency together with reports
of the
other two experts who testified at trial as well as his own
experience gained over the last 30 years.
42.
In his report, he set out the plaintiff's work history and
qualifications as reported to him by the plaintiff. The plaintiff
has
a Grade 12 (matric) formal qualification. Pre 1992, the plaintiff's
work experience was intermittent and of a temporary nature,
mostly in
administrative capacities. Post 1992, the plaintiff's work experience
became more gainful, stable and of a permanent
nature, whereby the
plaintiff performed general administrative and secretarial functions
and later on practiced call-centre occupations.
The plaintiff worked
at Garlicks in Cape Town performing administrative duties from 1992
until 1995. In 1996, after re-locating
to Pretoria, she commenced
employment at the Department of Finance (as it was then known) where
she steadily enhanced her employment
opportunities. She started off
as an administrative clerk and was promoted in later years to Senior
Administrative Clerk/Call Centre
Agent/Acting Call Centre Supervisor
until she attained the position of Assistant Director in the
department of National Treasury
- Pensions Administration, where she
remained for the period 1 July 2008 until 28 February 2014. She
resigned from her employment
on 28 February 2014. Her reason for
leaving was reported as 'a marital decision'.
43.
The plaintiff has been unemployed for over two years. She presented
Mr Wessels with 13 written applications for employment that,

according to his report, 'yielded either no response or indicated
that she is too old'. The plaintiff reported that she was earnestly

searching for employment and 'continues to approach employers but
remains unsuccessful to date'.
44.
In Mr. Wessels opinion, it is highly unlikely that the plaintiff will
find employment in the corporate sector of the market
due to her age
and circumstances. In his view, the plaintiff presents as visibly
depressed which he believes would not 'encourage/convince
employers
that she is a favourable prospect'. It is more likely for the
plaintiff to secure employment in the non-survey sector
of the
employment market, such as doctor's receptionist, shop assistant,
either on a permanent or temporary basis. Mr Wessels postulates
the
plaintiff's earning capacity on a full day basis (whether permanent
or temporary) at between R8 000.00 to R10 000.00 per month
and on a
half day basis at between R5 000.00 and R8 000.00 per month. Whilst
the plaintiff's chances of finding employment appear
poor, they are
not impossible.
45.
During cross-examination, it was put to Mr. Wessels that the
plaintiff had in fact been invited to two interviews pursuant to

sending out job applications, one for the position of receptionist
and the other for a secretarial position. Mr Wessels was not
informed
thereof by the plaintiff. He indicated that an interview itself does
not guarantee success but conceded that the plaintiff's
chances of
finding employment would thereby appear to be better. On a question
whether the plaintiff would be able to take up half
day employment in
order to pursue her passion for hairdressing in the afternoons, Mr.
Wessels indicated that this would be possible.
Evidence
of Orthopaedic Surgeon
46.
Dr. Birrell confirmed the contents of his written report. He
testified that the plaintiff was referred to him for purposes of

determining her suitability to work, with specific reference to her
health complaints. He confirmed that the plaintiff has scoliosis
of
the lumbar spine, which accounts for the pain experienced in the
lower back and hips. The plaintiff's x-rays indicate that her
spine
is permanently skew with deterioration above normal for someone of
the plaintiff's age. According to Dr. Birrell,it is a
fluctuating
condition that may take one or ten years to get worse. Dr Birrell is
of the view that surgical intervention is not
a viable option for the
plaintiff.
47.
The plaintiff reported that she was diagnosed with hypertension 19
years ago. Her general practitioner diagnosed her with depression
in
2012. She was diagnosed with osteoarthritis in October 2014. The
plaintiff experienced lower back pain since 2004. Dr. Birrell

confirmed that the plaintiff is presently depressed.
48.
The plaintiff reported to Dr. Birrell that she is seeking employment
and has sent out many CV's, which have thus far been unsuccessful.

She is unsure why.
49.
Prior to seeing the plaintiffs x-rays, Dr. Birrell assessed the
plaintiff's loss of work capacity to be. around 5 to 6% in a
clerical
type position. He recommended that the plaintiff undergo occupational
therapy ergonomic advice, should she return to the
workplace. After
perusing the x-rays, he increased the plaintiff's loss of work
capacity to 10%. During cross­ examination,
Dr Birrell explained
that 'for the rest of the 90%, the plaintiff would be functioning
with these problems'. During his evidence-in-
chief, Dr. Birrell
opined that the plaintiff could possibly do clerical type work
including the type of work previously performed
at the Government
Employee's Pensions Fund. However, in a written addendum dated 24
October 2016, Dr. Birrell had expressed the
belief that, taking the
plaintiff's as a whole, including her mental status, she 'is not at
all in any serious contention to find
suitable employment, i.e, for
practical purposes, she must be considered unemployable.'
50.
The plaintiff's x-rays were admitted into evidence as exhibit "A".
Evidence
of plaintiff
51.
The plaintiff confirmed that she is 55 years old, grew up in Cape
Town, completed grade 10 in 1979 and did Matric in 199S. At
the age
of 7, she was sexually molested by her father until the age of about
15 or 16. The plaintiff suffered flashbacks of the
molestation in
later years and received counselling therefore through a
wellness-programme offered at government departments in
2005.
52.
The parties were married on 14 February 1996 In Cape Town. Thereafter
the parties relocated to Pretoria.
Plaintiff
s employment
53.
The plaintiff took up employment at the Department of Finance, where
she continued working in different positions, as documented
in the
report of Mr. Wessels.
54.
The plaintiff started a short course in Human Resources at Unisa in
2014. She completed 3 modules and has yet to complete the
fourth
module, which she would like to do.
55.
Whilst employed, the plaintiff received a 13
th
cheque
annually and certain performance bonuses. At the time of her
resignation in February 2014, the plaintiff was earning about
R22
000.00 as documented in Dr. Birrell's report. The plaintiff resigned
from her employment on 28 February 2014 since which time
she has not
worked.
56.
The plaintiff testified that she wants to work and if offered
employment, she would gladly accept it. To this end, she has applied

for various positions but has been unsuccessful to date. She attended
two interviews. Her evidence was that she does not know why
they were
unsuccessful. Later during cross-examination she said that she
received negative feedback in respect of the one interview.
In a
sworn statement deposed by her in terms of Rule 43, the plaintiff
mentioned that she had been invited to attend two interviews
but she
could not attend these as she had no petrol or airtime. It is unclear
whether these were two unrelated interviews.
57.
Under cross-examination the plaintiff confirmed the contents of her
covering letters that accompanied her job applications.
In these
letters, she indicated that she was energetic, qualified, possessed
necessary skills, enjoyed mutual interests and would
be an asset to
the employer. The plaintiff applied for various positions at
Government departments which required diplomas, believing
that her
lack of diploma status would not be an impediment to a successful
application as her position at the Government Pension
Fund had also
required a tertiary qualification which she did not possess, yet she
had obtained a position based on prior experience.
It was put to her
that if she were to apply for positions within her realm of
qualifications, she would be successful.
Marital
problems
58.
The plaintiff was hospitalized for an attempted suicide in January
2014. The parties experienced marital problems over a number
of
years. The plaintiff suspected the defendant of having extra marital
affairs as early as 2003. In 2003, the plaintiff caught
her husband
caressing another woman's breasts at a party which he blamed on
having consumed too much alcohol. He apologized for
the incident but
did not pay much attention to the plaintiff thereafter. This led to
an incident in 2005 when the plaintiff was
caught stealing a box of
hair colour dye. She did this to get attention from her husband.
59.
In the years following, there was a decline in intimacy in the
marriage and sexual relations became strained. In 2015, the plaintiff

found condoms, penis enlargement pills and gels in the defendant's
gym bag. She also discovered hotel receipts and cellphone money

transfers from the defendant to a certain gentleman by the name of
'R...' 'H...'(RH). After perusing certain of the defendant's
bank
statements, the plaintiff discovered that the defendant had made
various purchases of clothing and personal items for RH.
The
plaintiff confronted the defendant about having an extra-marital
affair but he refused to provide answers and shut down towards
her,
either refusing to talk to her or dismissing her when she tried to
discuss it. This led to physical altercations after the
plaintiff had
a 'meltdown' which resulted in the defendant being hospitalised after
one such altercation. The defendant vacated
the matrimonial home in
October 2015. The plaintiff instituted divorce proceedings
thereafter.
Financial
problems
60.
The plaintiff testified that she took 'pills' in January 2014 due to
financial problems that the parties started experiencing
during 2013.
For the whole of 2013, the parties had no water and electricity in
their house as municipal bills were not paid. Notwithstanding
the
financial problems, that same year the defendant purchased a SLK
Mercedes motor vehicle for his personal use. The plaintiff
s voiced
concerns about the impracticality of purchasing a luxury car which
could not fit a family of four and which the parties
could ill
afford. The defendant nevertheless purchased the car, asserting that
it was 'his money'. At some stage thereafter, the
plaintiff purchased
an Audi motor vehicle for herself. During this time, the defendant
started demanding that the plaintiff contribute
more money towards
household expenses. She used her income over this period to purchase
groceries, children's clothing, sundry
gifts and to pay for the
children's extra mural activities.
61.
Towards the end of 2013, the plaintiff discussed resigning from her
employment with the defendant so that she could use her
pension money
to settle their debts. The defendant refused, stating that he would
not support her if she were to resign. According
to the plaintiff,
she resigned from her employment in February 2014 solely at the
insistence of the defendant.
Health
problems
62.
The plaintiff confirmed her health problems as testified by Dr.
Birrell. She testified that she previously underwent a back

infiltration procedure but that her back problems persist. She has
osteoarthritis, is depressed and suffers from anxiety. She has
been
taking medication for the past six months for depression and anxiety
and the back pain is treated by means of analgesics obtained
from the
Steve Biko and Tshwane district hospitals. She has also been
receiving counselling at these institutions.
63.
The plaintiff and the children were beneficiaries of the defendant's
medical aid until 2013 or 3104 when the defendant cancelled
the
medical aid, which he did not reinstate thereafter.
Monies
expended by plaintiff
64.
After her resignation, the plaintiff received a 'resignation benefit'
in the net amount of R1 193 656.96, which was paid out
to her in
April 2014. According to the plaintiff, she paid various expenses
from this money,
inter alia,
her motor vehicle, repairs to a
leaking roof in the matrimonial home, outstanding bills, groceries,
household and living expenses,
personal bank loans, architect's fees
for proposed renovations to the matrimonial home, educational and
other expenses for the
minor child and a piano, including R73 000.00
which she spent on new household appliances and equipment. In
addition, the plaintiff
used R 100 000.00 to contribute towards a
family trip to Germany, and loaned an amount of R180 000.00 to the
defendant with which
to pay his debts. All the money was spent and
there is nothing left of it.
65.
The plaintiff cashed in a retirement annuity and received the amount
of R76 621.00 on 7 June 2016. She used the money to pay
for household
necessities, water and electricity costs and clothes for the
children. As was demonstrated in cross-examination,
the plaintiff
spent approximately R73 000.00 within the space of two months and
there is nothing left of these monies.
Lifestyle
during marriage
66.
The plaintiff testified that the parties enjoyed a middle class
lifestyle. The defendant drove a Jeep motor vehicle before he

purchased a SLK Mercedes. In 2014, the defendant sold the SLK and
purchased a Mercedes A-class vehicle. In October 2014, he sold
the
A-class vehicle and purchased a Golf 7, all without the plaintiff's
consent. The plaintiff drives an Audi Al motor vehicle
which is paid
up and prior thereto, she drove a Mazda A2. The family went to Europe
during the marriage and Germany in 2015.
Lack
of financial support since separation
67.
After the defendant vacated the common home, he bought groceries for
the home on the odd occasion but did not pay maintenance.
The
plaintiff did hairdressing for friends on occasion to earn some
money. No amount was specified in this regard. The plaintiff
also
loaned money from friends and obtained assistance from family and
food parcels from the church. As indicated earlier in the
judgment,
the plaintiff obtained an order against the defendant in the
magistrate's court for payment of medical expenses in the
amount of
R750.00 per month, which was thereafter varied to the amount of R5
000.00 per month in respect of maintenance. The defendant
did not
comply with these orders and on 3 March 2016, the plaintiff obtained
an order in in terms of Rule 43 in this court for
payment by the
defendant of
inter alia,
interim maintenance in the amount of
R13 000.00 per month, payment of reasonable medical expenses and
payment of household expenses
directly to the service providers
concerned. In addition, the defendant was ordered to pay an amount of
R10 000.00 as a contribution
towards the plaintiff's legal costs. The
defendant failed to comply with the Rule 43 order.
68.
The plaintiff cause a writ of attachment to be issued pursuant to
which funds were attached from the defendant's Al Baraka Bank

account. Of the monies attached, R15 000.00 was paid to Deutsche
Schulle, the plaintiff received an amount of R17 000.00 and the
rest
remained with plaintiff's legal representatives for legal costs. It
was put to the plaintiff in cross­ examination that
at the time
that the writ was issued, she had an amount of R7 000.00 in her bank
account whilst claiming that there was no food
in the house. The
plaintiff's bank account showed various deposits into her account,
inter alia,
from SA Retail bonds in respect of an investment
and an amount of R40 000.00 from the defendant. The plaintiff
admitted that she
was receiving money from outside sources at the
time the writ was issued.
Maintenance
requirements in respect of plaintiff and children
69.
During her evidence, the plaintiff reduced her claim for maintenance
in respect of herself and the children to the total amount
of R9
866.50 per month, that is, R4 402.75 in respect of the plaintiff and
R5 463.75 in respect of the two children. The plaintiff's
reduced
claim does not include provision for medical or accommodation costs.
70.
During cross-examination, certain expenses were challenged to be
unreasonable and/or unnecessary and/or excessive. It was put
to the
plaintiff that reasonable amounts were respectively, R2 975.00 in
respect of the plaintiff and R2 375.00 in respect of the
minor child,
yielding a total expense of R5 350.00. The plaintiff conceded that an
amount of R1 500.00 would be sufficient in respect
of the minor child
per month but denied that the projected amount of R2 975.00 would be
sufficient in respect of the plaintiff.
71.
The plaintiff did not quantify her reasonable medical or future
accommodation costs in respect of either herself or the children.
Defendant's
new tender in respect of plaintiff and the minor child
72.
The defendant tendered to pay R1 500.00 per month in respect of the
minor child for a period of 6 (six) months and R5 000.00
per month to
the plaintiff for a period of 6 (six) months. The defendant tendered
to pay R2375 per month in respect of the minor
child upon the expiry
of the six month period.
Major
dependant child
73.
No tender was made by the defendant in respect of the major dependant
child on grounds that the defendant presently pays for
the major
dependant child's expenses by agreement with him, based on what is
needed and what the defendant can afford. It was put
to the plaintiff
that since the child is a major, the child can approach the
Maintenance Court in the future, should he feel the
need to do so.
The plaintiff testified that she does not know of the terms of the
arrangement between the defendant and the major
dependant child or
what exactly is paid for by the defendant. The plaintiff explained
that she continues to incur costs in respect
of the major dependant
child's lodging with her, particularly as regards the use of water,
electricity, the consumption of food,
petrol and the like. The major
dependant child also remains dependent on the parties for
accommodation, payment of medical expenses,
clothes and travelling
expenses.
Evidence
of defendant
Personal
circumstances
74.
The defendant testified that he is 51 years of age. He is employed as
a Director at the Department of Trade and Industry where
he has been
seconded to assist in a new branch dealing with foreign investment
for the country. In this position, he is required
to travel locally
and abroad. He has worked at the department since 1October 2013. He
resides at […] Estate, […]
O. Avenue,
Centurion,together with a tenant, RH.
75.
The defendant vehemently denied being involved in an extra-marital
affair with RH. He categorized his relationship with RH as
one of
mentorship. He assisted RH to establish his own company and arranged
language training and entrepreneurship for him. All
payments made to
RH or funds expended on his behalf have been reimbursed to the
defendant.
Children
76.
The defendant confirmed that the minor child and major dependant
child reside with the plaintiff in the erstwhile matrimonial
home,
which he vacated on 2 October 2015 and that the major dependant child
is still dependent on the parties for his support.
77.
According to the defendant, he consistently buys groceries for the
major dependant child, pays his cell phone contract and gives
him
money for entertainment and clothes when asked and if finances
permit. According to the defendant, the children understand
if he
cannot give them what they ask. He cannot predict that he will have
the finances if ordered to pay a set amount for the major
dependant
child each month. He is negotiating to send the major dependant child
to China next year to take up employment there.
78.
There is a pending case regarding the minor child in the Children's
Court where that court is yet to decide on the minor child's

residency. The court has called for a psychological evaluation and
report and there is an investigation into a possible placement
for
the minor child. Pending finalization of the matter in the Children's
Court, both parents will share rights and responsibilities
in regard
to the minor child, with primary residency to remain with the
plaintiff subject to the defendant having reasonable rights
of
contact to the minor child.
79.
The defendant confirmed his tenders in respect of the minor child as
made in the counterclaim and as put by his counsel to the
plaintiff
in cross­ examination.
Reasons
for breakdown of marriage
80.
The defendant testified that the marriage was 'never good from the
start'. Shortly after their marriage, he discovered that
the
plaintiff was having intimate relations with her ex-boyfriend. The
plaintiff continued to see her ex-boyfriend thereafter.
That caused
feelings of mistrust to linger even though he forgave the plaintiff
and 'tried to move on'. The plaintiff issued summons
for divorce in
the Western Cape High Court in 1996,which the defendant did not
contest. The action was withdrawn after the parties
decided to
re-locate to Pretoria. The parties never enjoyed healthy
communication. According to the defendant, he could never have
a
'decent conversation' with the plaintiff because the plaintiff would
'flare up' within seconds. The plaintiff attacked him violently
on
many occasions. The last physical altercation occurred in August 2015
as a result of which the defendant was hospitalized. That
was 'the
final straw' for him 'with the attacks'.
Financial
problems in the marriage
81.
For many years the defendant was the major contributor of all
household expenses and costs pertaining to the children.
82.
The defendant testified that he fell into financial difficulties as
from 2013 from which he has never recovered. The cause thereof
was
not stated.
83.
On 2 February 2015, the defendant received an amount of R502 644.59
from the proceeds of a second bond which the parties procured
over
the matrimonial property. According to the defendant, the bond was
obtained to enable the parties to do renovations at the
matrimonial
home however, the renovations were never effected. He used the money
to pay for household expenses and debts, including
arrear school
fees. He also gave the plaintiff an amount of R40 000.00 with which
to pay her debts, although the plaintiff testified
that the money was
given to her as a gift. There is nothing left of such funds.
84.
The defendant stated that he applied for a loan of R200 000.00 in
November 2015 to assist with the 'financial situation'. Under
cross­
examination the defendant testified that notwithstanding his
financial dilemma, he assisted a work colleague with a
loan of R24
000.00 over this period and purchased luxury items for himself, for
example, clothing to the value of R5 220.00, cosmetics
to the value
of R2 500.00 and expended the amount of R5 300.00 for the Gautrain.
Defendant's
contributions after the parties separated
85.
Documentary evidence indicated that the defendant paid R10 000.00 on
15 April 2016 and R2 144. 17 on 16 April 2016, prior to
the grant of
the Rule 43 order on 3 May 2016. On 7 May 2016, he paid a further
amount of R7 700.00. No further payments were made
pursuant to the
Rule 43 order aside from payments made directly to the children, the
amount of which remained unquantified.
Defendant's
financial means and capacity
86.
The defendant testified that he earns R42 030.00 per month as
evidenced by his pay-slip for June 2016. He receives annual
increases,
a subsistence allowance for local and international
travel, as well as medical and car allowances in addition to his
salary. He
is also entitled to a performance bonus provided he meets
the required performance criteria. According to the defendant, he has

not received a performance bonus in the last few years. The defendant
is not on any medical aid and thus receives the medical allowance
in
addition to his salary.
87.
According to the defendant, he incurred a debt of R203 260.00 to SARS
in respect of an outstanding tax liability. Differing
amounts are
deducted by his employer from his salary each month in liquidation of
the arrears owing to SARS. The defendant stated
that he does not know
why the deductions fluctuate from month to month. For example, the
defendant received a net amount of R32
641.55 in October2016 and
November 2016 respectively. Documentary evidence showed that the sum
of R1 776.92 was deducted from his
salary in March 2016. In the
months of April, May and June 2016, the sum of R1 500.00 was deducted
each month. During July to September
2016 no deductions were made. In
October and November 2016 the sum of R12 543.49 was deducted each
month. No evidence was tendered
as any payment arrangement with SARS
or for how long a period such deductions will be made.
88.
In addition to his salary, the defendant receives an amount of R4
100.00 per month from RH in respect of rent and municipal
services.
The defendant conceded under cross-examination that the cash
component pertaining to his car allowance is R9 400.00 per
month
whereas his actual monthly expense in respect of his car is R6 057.00
leaving a difference of approximately R3 000.00 at
his disposal.
Under cross-examination the defendant stated that he earns extra
income from selling perfumes and clothing on the
side. The amount
thereof was not stipulated. He later stated that the amount earned
therefrom is 'negligible'. Thereafter the defendant
stated that he
only earns R20.00 extra per month from such endeavours. As
established in cross-examination, the value of this additional
income
stream could not be verified by reference to bank statements as these
were not discovered by the defendant. According to
the defendant, he
could not discover his bank statements as his accounts, save for the
account held at FNB, have been frozen.
89.
The present net value of the defendant's pension benefit is R1 782
359.41. The defendant testified that he uses public facilities
and
therefore has not taken out a medical aid.
90.
The defendant confirmed his list of expenses as set out in his
opposing affidavit filed in the Rule 43 proceedings. Certain
of these
expenses are not presently being incurred. The defendant testified
that he cannot afford to pay the bond instalment in
respect of the
matrimonial property, or related property expenses. These expenses
will fall away entirely once the matrimonial
property is sold and
outstanding debts liquidated.
91.
The defendant's current living expenses amount to R21 957.00 per
month, which includes costs incurred in respect of school fees,

clothes for the children, extramural activities, maintenance for the
minor child and amounts paid for the major dependant child.
The
amount of R21 957.00 excludes his maintenance liability towards the
plaintiff or any contribution towards the medical expenses
incurred
by the plaintiff personally or on behalf of the children.
92.
An amount of approximately R36 000.00 is outstanding in respect of
school fees, which amount the defendant is liquidating by
arrangement
with the school.
93.
The matrimonial property is valued at approximately R 1.2 million.
There is an outstanding bond liability of R886 000.22.
94.
The parties were placed under debt review in June 2016. According to
the defendant, the joint estate liability in respect of
accumulated
debts is Rl.3 million. The defendant is supposed to pay an amount of
R7 300.00 per month in terms of a debt review
restructuring agreement
but stated that he cannot afford to pay such amount.
95.
The defendant testified that he lacks the financial ability to pay
the cost orders that were obtained against him by the plaintiff
in
the preceding litigation between the parties.
[10]
Relevant
legal principles
96.
Spousal maintenance post-divorce is dealt with in section 7 of the
Divorce Act 70 of 1979 (the Act).
97.
In the absence of a written agreement (settlement agreement) and in
terms of section 7(2) of the Act, the court may make an
order which
it finds just in respect of the payment of maintenance by the one
spouse to the other, by taking various factors into
account. The
court is required to consider the factors referred to in section 7(2)
in order to decide, firstly whether maintenance
is to be paid at all
and, if so, the amount to be paid and the period for which
maintenance is to be paid. The factors referred
to in section 7(2)
are the existing or prospective means of each party, their respective
earning capacities, financial needs and
obligations, the age of the
parties, the duration of the marriage, the standard of living of the
parties prior to the divorce,
their conduct insofar as it may be
relevant to the break-down of the marriage and any other factor which
in the opinion of the
court should be taken into account.
98.
'When the court makes an award for maintenance in terms of section
7(2) of the Act it must make an order which is
'just".
This
implies that the court should be fair to both parties bearing in mind
those factors enumerated in the section'.
[11]
'The issue of support must be based on a contextualisation and
balancing of all those factors considered to be relevant in such
a
manner as to do justice to both parties'.
[12]
The enquiry is necessarily directed towards the interest of both
spouses and the impact which the order will have on each.
[13]
99.
In
Grasso v Grasso
1987(1) SA 48 (C), Berman J said the
following at p 52 of his judgment:
"In
setting forth, in
s 7(2)
of the
Divorce Act of 1979
the various
factors to which the court is to have regard when considering the
payment of maintenance upon divorce,
no particular stress was laid
on any one or more of these factors
. and they are not listed in
any particular order of importance or of greater or lesser relevance.
The proper approach, it seems to me, is to consider each case on
its own merits in the light of the facts and circumstances peculiar

to it
and with regard to those factors set out in this particular
section of the
Divorce Act
- which list of factors is clearly not
exhaustive of what the court is to have regard to in deciding what
maintenance,
if any
, is to be paid upon divorce by one spouse
to the other, for the court is free to have regard to any other
factor which, in its
opinion, ought to be taken into account in
coming to a fair and just decision."(own emphasis)
100.
In
Swart v Swart
1980(4) SA 364 (O) Flemming J made the
observation that as far as marriage is concerned an overall picture
must be formed, the court
must try to identify that conduct which has
really caused the breakdown and thereafter considerations of justice
must prevail in
the determination of maintenance.
101.
In terms of section 6(1)(a) of the Act, a decree of divorce shall not
be granted until the court is satisfied that the provisions
made or
contemplated with regard to the welfare of any minor or dependent
child of the marriage are satisfactory or are the best
that can be
effected in the circumstances.
102.
It is trite that a child is entitled to reasonable maintenance for
housing, clothing, medical, dental and health care, education
and
recreation. What is reasonable depends on circumstances such as
inter
alia,
the
position of the family, the child's health, the child's aptitude
towards his or her studies, parties' standard of living, the
child's
needs and a parent's ability to pay.
[14]
In all matters concerning the care, protection and well- being of a
child, the standard that the child's best interest is of paramount

importance, must be applied.
Evaluation
of evidence
Impressions
103.
The plaintiff portrayed herself as a hopeless victim of circumstances
for which the defendant was solely to blame. The defendant
on the
other hand, portrayed himself as a benevolent philanthropist who
helps others and always tries to do the best that he can.
In another
sense, he portrayed himself as a victim of abuse at the hand of the
plaintiff, and a hapless victim of irrepressible
financial adversity.
The portrayals are not exactly realistic or convincing, for a
consideration of the totality of the evidence
points to the
conclusion that each party made life choices for which they are
individually responsible and accountable.
No-fault
principle and divorce
104.
That both parties endured emotional hardship during their marriage is
manifest from their testimony. Both parties however demonstrated
an
alarming inability to manage large sums of money or to measure any
form of restraint in financial expenditure during times when
they had
access to funds. It is incomprehensible how the parties managed to
sink into financial privation to the extent testified,
when between
them, they derived a joint income of approximately R38 000.00 (in
2013). By the time that the plaintiff resigned in
February 2014, she
was earning about R22 000.00 per month, whilst the defendant was
earning just over R28 000.00 per month, yielding
a combined income of
approximately R50 000.00 per month. No evidence was presented in
respect of the quantum of the household expenses
of the parties
during those years. The evidence revealed that the plaintiff expended
a sum in excess of Rl.2 million within the
space of a year, and the
defendant expended a sum close to R2 million in two years over and
above his salary. As indicated earlier
in this judgment, vast sums of
money were spent on 'household expenses' and settling debts, yet
today the parties still find themselves
deeply indebted to the extent
that they are currently under debt review.
105.
In my view, both parties were equal participants in the demise of
their marital relationship. Both parties have demonstrated
extreme
financial imprudence. In the words of Satchwell J in
Botha
v Botha
[15]
with
which I align myself, 'Fault plays no part in the breakdown of this
marriage. There is no evidence from either party that the
conduct of
either is so heartless or cruel or blameworthy that any penalty
consideration should apply to the consideration of maintenance.'
106.
I am satisfied from the evidence of the parties that their marriage
has irretrievably broken down and that there exists no
prospect of
the restoration thereof. The marriage is to be dissolved by decree of
divorce.
Accommodation expenses
107.
'In
Zwiegelaar
v Zwiegelaar
2001
(1) SA 1208
(SCA) the court commented that it would be just, in
appropriate cases, to recognize accommodation requirements as part of
maintenance
needs, while
Buttner
v Buttner
2006
(3) SA 23
(SCA) stated that the court is enjoined to "effect
justice as between the parties" [para 24)'.
[16]
108.
The difficulty for the plaintiff in this matter is that no evidence
was led in regard to the plaintiff's future accommodation
needs or
expenses, which were also not quantified, with the result that the
content of the expenditure and assessment thereof,
including the
averred needs of the plaintiff and the children cannot be determined
or decided. A court is not called upon to speculate
upon or
divine
[17]
(with or without
the assistance of the parties), the ultimate outcome of disputed
issues in the absence of supporting evidence.
109.
The plaintiff has had the benefit of continued accommodation in the
matrimonial home since the parties separated in October
2015, whilst
the defendant has paid for separate rented accommodation without
assistance from the plaintiff. The evidence of each
party revealed
that for the greater part of the marriage, the defendant financed the
mortgage bond liability and paid for the majority
of the expenses
associated with the home and children, although the plaintiff
contributed thereto. After the financial debacle
in 2013 to date,
both parties paid for such expenses from funds placed at their
disposal. In these circumstances, it would be just
for the future
accommodation needs of the plaintiff to be financed from funds that
will be paid to her upon division of the joint
estate.
Plaintiff's claim for
maintenance
110.
It is common cause or at least not seriously refuted that the
plaintiff is presently in need of maintenance. The totality of
the
evidence supports such a finding and all that remains to be said is
that the plaintiff has founded a claim for maintenance.
The central
issue in dispute is in respect of the duration and quantum of the
maintenance payable.
Duration of
maintenance
111.
The plaintiff was employed prior to her marriage to the defendant and
worked for a continuous period of 18 years whilst married.
The
plaintiff proffered various versions for resigning from gainful
employment in 2014. She told Mr Wessels that her resignation
was
based on a 'marital decision'. In her Rule 43 affidavit, she informed
the court that she was hospitalized for burn-out whereafter
the
defendant proposed that she should resign, stay at home and be more
involved with the children. She testified in these proceedings
that
she resigned at the
insistence
of the defendant, in
circumstances where the defendant had unequivocally told her two
months earlier
not
to resign and that if she did, he would not
support her. On the defendant's version, he told the plaintiff not to
resign because
the parties could not afford to live on a single
income.
112.
When regard is had to the economic hardship that the parties endured
during 2013, when municipal services were cut due to non-
payment of
bills, it is highly improbable that the defendant would have demanded
the plaintiff's resignation as contended by her.
It is more probable
that the plaintiff herself voluntarily exercised the choice to resign
when she did. This conclusion is supported
by the evidence which
unequivocally showed that the plaintiff acted as an economically
independent adult both prior to and throughout
the marriage until her
resignation in February 2014.
113.
The evidence revealed that the plaintiff suffered back pain and
depression for many years in the marriage, yet managed to cope
with
her duties and maintain her employment. The totality of the evidence
reveals that she did not resign because of her
then
existing
physical or emotional dispositions. Even after the parties separated,
the plaintiff pursued hairdressing in order to derive
some income.
With all her health and marital problems, the plaintiff remained
motivated to work and did work. Her pain and depression
did not
impede her ability to work prior to her resignation in February 2014.
The experts seem to suggest that the plaintiff would
now not be able
to cope or maintain employment because of her physical and emotional
dispositions. The opinions of the experts
ignore the reality of the
evidence that the plaintiff was capable of working and did work, in
spite of these dispositions. The
plaintiff herself testified that she
wants to work and would love to pursue her passion for hairdressing.
I cannot therefore find
that the plaintiff has established an
inability to work such as to entitle her to maintenance in
perpetuity.
114.
The order which the plaintiff seeks will result in the defendant
effectively having to work for the rest of his life to support
her
whilst she remains unproductive , inactive and financially dependent.
This will not be fair or appropriate in the circumstances
of this
case, for I am persuaded that for as long as the plaintiff does not
work, she will remain beholden to a man who has demonstrated
that he
will not be held. In the circumstances of this case, it would be
appropriate to apply the 'clean break' principle
[18]
whereby each party can become economically independent of the other.
115.
The evidence suggests that the plaintiff s future employment is less
secure by reason of her age. The evidence also suggests,
however,
that the plaintiff is able to continue working in the same field and
capacity in which she worked prior to her resignation.
The plaintiff
is obtaining treatment for her pain and depression. She herself
testified that she is 'coping better'. Based on the
testimony of Ms
Havenga, the plaintiffs functioning should continue to improve with
therapy and medication. I propose making an
order that will provide a
window of opportunity for the plaintiff to continue with therapy and
to secure employment, thereby incentivizing
her to achieve financial
autonomy and become self-supporting.
Amount of maintenance
116.
The plaintiff's reduced claim in respect of her own maintenance
requirements is the sum of R4 402.75 per month. I am not persuaded

that such amount is either unreasonable or exaggerated. This figure
excludes the plaintiff's reasonable medical requirements. I
am
satisfied that the plaintiff is in need of therapy as recommended by
Ms. Havenga. Provision should therefore be made for the
plaintiff's
medical expenses in this regard. Having regard to the uncontroverted
evidence of Ms. Havenga, the plaintiff will benefit
from therapy at a
cost of R1 025.00 per session. I am of the view 24 such sessions at
intervals of one session per month is reasonably
required.
117.
During her evidence-in-chief, the plaintiff testified that the
expenses incurred by her in the home in respect of the children

amount to R5 463.75. The plaintiff conceded under cross-examination
that an amount of R1 500.00 per month in respect of the minor
child
would be sufficient for the minor child's support at this juncture.
That concession carried with it the necessary implication
that the
expenses listed in the plaintiff's schedule of expenses were somewhat
inflated in respect of the children. The amount
of R1 500.00 excludes
the minor child's reasonable medical and accommodation costs. The
defendant is obliged to contribute towards
such costs. As the
accommodation costs have not been quantified, this court is not in a
position to speculate about what is reasonably
required. I am mindful
of the fact that the defendant receives a medical allowance in
addition to his salary and that he makes
use of public facilities for
his medical requirements.
118.
It was held in
Bursey v Bursey and Another
1999 (3) SA 33
(SCA) at 36 C-H that:
"According
to our common law both divorced parents have a duty to maintain a
child of the dissolved marriage. The incidence
of this duty in
respect of each parent depends upon their relative means and
circumstances and the needs of the child from time
to time. The duty
does not terminate when the child reaches a particular age but
continues after majority...That the duty to maintain
extends beyond
majority is recognized by
s6
of the
Divorce Act 70 of 1979
.
Section
6(1)(a)
provides that a decree of divorce shall not be granted until
the Court is satisfied that the provisions made or contemplated with

regard to the welfare of any minor
or dependent child of the
marriage are satisfactory or are the best that can be effected in the
circumstances
.
Section 6(3)
provides that a Court granting a
decree of divorce may make any order which it deems fit in regard to
the maintenance of a dependent
child of the marriage... A maintenance
order does not replace or alter a divorced parent's common law duty
to maintain a child.
In
Kemp v Kemp
1958 (3) SA 736
(D) Jansen
J stated at 738A-B that as a matter of expediency the Court, as the
upper guardian of the child, usually regulates the
incidence of this
duty as between the parents when it grants the divorce and that its
order for maintenance is ancillary to the
common law duty to
support." (own emphasis).
119.
As regards the major dependant child's support, the evidence of the
defendant to the effect that he pays for what the major
dependant
child needs and asks of him, finances permitted, stands unrefuted. On
the defendant's own version, he paid for the major
dependant child's
costs to travel to Germany, this while
Rule 43
proceedings were
either pending or concluded. By his own admission, the defendant did
not comply with the
Rule 43
court order for maintenance claimed in
respect of the plaintiff, the major dependant child and the minor
child, yet he testified
that he expended monies on overseas trips to
Poland and Germany for the children respectively during this period.
The defendant's
version that he
may not
be in a position to
comply with any court order in respect of the major dependant child's
ongoing support is in the circumstances,
not credible.
120.
The difficulty which I have in the present matter is that the
expenses paid for by the defendant in respect of the major dependant

child's monthly requirements were not quantified in evidence. On the
unrefuted evidence of the defendant, certain of the major
dependant
child's living expenses are being paid for by the defendant. The
defendant has undertaken, by way of tender, to continue
making such
payments. I am not satisfied that it is in the major dependant
child's best interests that payment of these expenses
is to be left
solely to the discretion of the defendant. The major dependant child
is presently seeking employment and once gainfully
employed, any
pro
rata
contribution towards his support as is payable by the
parties will naturally require re-assessment. As he is a major, he
will be
entitled to approach the maintenance court directly in
future, should the defendant's present payments prove to be
insufficient
for his needs.
121.
Having regard to the plaintiff's schedule of expenses insofar as they
pertain to the major dependant child, the plaintiff incurs,
at the
very least, ongoing costs in respect of his food and groceries and
consumption of services and provisions in the home. The
order which I
envisage making in respect of the major dependant child is one which
will cater for his requirements in this regard.
122.
I also intend to make an order that will ensure that the children's
reasonable medical costs are catered for. Once the children's

accommodation costs are properly quantified, the plaintiff will be
entitled to apply for a variation in maintenance to take account
of
these costs.
Defendant's financial
means and capacity
123.
As indicated earlier in this judgment, the defendant's salary is
currently R42 030.00. The defendant provided no supporting

documentation in regard to any payment arrangement with SARS or the
period over which payments are to be made. In the absence of
any
evidence in that regard, I am unable to conclude that the liability
to SARS ought to take precedence over the defendant's maintenance

obligations.
124.
It is impossible to rely on the credibility of the defendant for his
expenditure or income. The defendant has not provided
a true or
accurate disclosure of his financial affairs. He failed to make
proper or adequate discovery of his financial position,
particularly
as regards his bonuses, allowances and other benefits of employment,
which were only revealed under cross-examination.
125.
As demonstrated through the able and thoroughly prepared cross­
examination of Mr. Olivier who appeared for the plaintiff,
the
defendant also has additional income streams with which he
supplements his salary. It was clearly demonstrated that even when

the defendant suffered financial difficulties, he spent money on
luxuries for himself, made payments on behalf of colleagues (whom
he
had no duty to support), all in abject disregard of his maintenance
obligations. By way of example, during the period from 11February

2015 to 25 July 2015, the defendant made airtime purchases and cash
transfers to RH in the aggregate total amount of R9 098.00.
In 2016,
the defendant continued to expend money on RH,
inter alia,
in
respect of luxury clothing items. The defendant's version, namely
that he was reimbursed for such expenditure (whether by the
Peoples
Republic of China or the Department of Finance in South Africa) is
highly improbable. No evidence whatsoever was tendered
to support the
allegation that the defendant's employer, the Department of Finance,
reimbursed the defendant for any of these expenses.
It is in any
event inherently improbable that the Department of Finance would
contract with its employees to maintain third parties
as part of an
alleged entrepreneurship programme with the Republic of China.
126.
On the totality of the evidence, I find that the defendant is well
able to afford payment of maintenance in the amounts that
I envisage
ordering.
Order
sought by plaintiff in written heads of argument
127.
In written heads of argument presented on behalf of the plaintiff,
she seeks an order 'that the Government Employees Pension
Fund of the
Defendant with pension fund number […]7 be ordered to pay an
amount of R1227 820.71 (one million two hundred
and twenty seven
thousand eight hundred and twenty rand and seventy one cents),
directly to the plaintiff into a bank account,
alternatively, a
pension fund/annuity as indicated by the plaintiff within 60 days
from date of this order'.
128.
The order sought is in respect of cost orders previously granted
against the defendant in prior proceedings involving an urgent

application, application to compel and the
Rule 43(6)
application.
129.
In the pleadings filed of record, both parties sought an order
declaring that the defendant's interest in the Government Employees

Pension Fund, for purposes of the joint estate, be regarded as an
asset of the joint estate.
130.
It is not appropriate for me to make the order sought, firstly
because neither the manner in which the division of the joint
estate
is to occur, nor the parties' respective rights in regard to the
proportion of distribution of assets were triable issues
in these
proceedings and secondly because the plaintiff has at her disposal,
inter alia,
the mechanism of contempt of court procedures to
enforce her rights in regard to the unpaid cost orders.
131.
I was also requested to make an order against the defendant for
payment of the minor child's
tertiary
education costs. It is
equally inappropriate for me to make such order where these costs
were not sought by the plaintiff in the
pleadings (being the
un-amended pleadings upon which I was to determine the matter) and in
respect of which no evidence was tendered.
I therefore decline to
make the orders sought.
Costs
132.
Both parties have succeeded to some extent in their individual
claims. However, the defendant's conduct during the litigation

requires special mention. The evidence showed that the defendant
provided financial support for himself and third parties whilst

reneging on his responsibilities towards his family. The defendant
ignored court orders.
[19]
The
defendant made inadequate disclosure of his financial circumstances.
I gained the impression that the defendant litigated on
a 'catch me
if you can' basis,
[20]
and
that the defendant was trying to undermine the payment of maintenance
to the plaintiff. A cautionary warning is sounded to
the defendant:
Court orders are to be obeyed until set aside.
[21]
In the circumstances, it is just that the defendant be ordered to pay
the plaintiff's costs in the action.
133.
In the result, I grant the following order:
Order
1. A decree of divorce;
2. Division of the joint
estate;
3. It is declared that
the defendant's interest in the Government Employees Pension Fund,
number […]7 is, for purposes of
the joint estate, to be
regarded as an asset of the joint estate;
4. Both parties are to
retain parental responsibilities and rights pertaining to the minor
child with regard to his care, contact,
maintenance and guardianship;
5. Primary residence in
respect of the minor child is granted to the plaintiff pending the
finalization of proceedings instituted
in the Children's Court,
subject to the defendant being entitled to reasonable rights of
contact to the minor child by arrangement
between the parties;
6. The defendant is
ordered to pay maintenance in respect of the minor child as follows:
6.1. The amount of R 1
500.00 per month directly to the plaintiff into a bank account
nominated by her, commencing on 1January 2017
and thereafter payable
on or before the 1
st
of each and every succeeding month,
until he reaches the age of 25 or becomes self-supporting, whichever
occurs earlier;
6.2. The minor child's
high school educational costs, including but not limited to school
fees, books, uniforms, stationery, tours,
clothing and equipment;
7. The defendant is
ordered to pay maintenance in respect of the major dependant child as
follows:
7.1 The amount of R1
500.00 per month directly to the plaintiff into a bank account
nominated by her, commencing on 1January 2017
and thereafter payable
on or before the 1
st
of each and every succeeding month,
until he reaches the age of 25 or becomes self-supporting, whichever
occurs earlier;
7.2 The reasonable costs
of the major dependant child's cell phone, entertainment, pocket
money and clothing until he reaches the
age of 25 or becomes
self-supporting, whichever occurs earlier;
8. The amounts referred
to in paragraphs 6.1 and 7.1 are to escalate annually in accordance
with the Consumer Price Index as published
from time to time;
9. In respect of the
plaintiff, the defendant is ordered to pay:
9.1
Rehabilitative maintenance in the amount of R4 403.00 per month for a
period of 3 (three) years, commencing on the 1
st
January
2017 and thereafter payable on or before the 1
st
of each
and every succeeding month, which amount is to be paid into a bank
account nominated by the plaintiff for this purpose
and which amount
is to escalate annually in accordance with the Consumer Price Index
as published from time to time;
9.2
The amount of R1 025.00 per month for a period of 24 months (24
sessions] in respect of therapy, which amount is to be paid
directly
to the service provider concerned;
10. The defendant is
ordered to pay the reasonable medical costs of the minor child and
the major dependant child directly to the
service provider/s
concerned;
11. Mr. F, the defendant
in the main action and plaintiff in reconvention, is ordered to pay
the party-party costs of Mrs. F, the
plaintiff in the main action and
defendant in reconvention.
____________________________
MAIER-FRAWLEY
AJ
ACTING
JUDGE OF THE HIGH COURT
Date
of hearing:

5-8 December 2016
Date
of judgment:

21 December 2016
Judgment
delivered

22 December2016
Counsel
for the Plaintiff:
Adv T. Engelbrecht
082 253 5194
Attorneys
for the Plaintiff:
Adams & Adams (Mr
Z. Olivier) (012) 432 6000
Counsel
for the Defendant:

Adv. Botes
Attorneys
for the Defendant:         L
Baartman Attorneys (Mr S Hefferman)
(012)
653 1048
[1]
See:
Van
Rippen v Van Rippen
1949
(4) SA 634
(C) at 639.
[2]
See:
Nicholson
v Nicholson
1998
(1) SA 48
(W) at 50 C-G.
[3]
See:
Muhlman
v Muhlman
1984
(1) SA 413
(W) at 418G.
[4]
See:
Senior
v Senior
1999
(4) SA 955
(W) at 962.
[5]
See:
Bates
v Bates
1969
(3) SA 168
( R).
[6]
1999 (3) SA 615
(C) at 621.
[7]
See:
Nicholson
supra
at
511;
Dodo
v Dodo
1990
(2) SA 77(W)
at 98F.
[8]
See:
Service
v Service
1968
(3) SA 526
D at 528F;
Micklem
v Micklem
1998
(3) SA 259
(C) at 263B;
Maas
v Maas
1993
(3) SA 885
(0) at 888J-889B.
[9]
1999 (1) SACR 447
(W) at 449j-450b - where a caution was sounded to
have regard to the totality of the evidence presented. Albeit that
the remarks
were made within a criminal context, they are equally
apposite within a civil context.
[10]
Whether such inability was caused by fault on the part of the
defendant was not one of the triable issues in this case but merely

a factor that could be considered in determining the plaintiff's
claim for maintenance.
[11]
See:
LW
v
LW
(52148/2007) (2013] ZAGPPHC 268 (22 June 2013) at para 36.
[12]
See:
Botha
v Botha
(2005/25726)
(2008] ZAGPHC 169 (9 June 2008) at para 115.
[13]
Ibid
Botho
para
43.
[14]
See
Smit
v Smit
1980
(4) ALL SA 52 (O).
[15]
(2005/25726)
[2008] ZAGPHC 169
(9 June 2008).
[16]
Ibid
Botha
at
para 44
[17]
See:
Legal-Aid
South Africa v Mzoxolo Mogidiwana
(1055/13)
[2014] ZASCA 141
(26 September 2014) at para [18].
[18]
See: De Jong 'New Trends Regarding the Maintenance of Spouses Upon
Divorce',
1999 (62)
THRHR
15
and
the discussion of the authorities cited therein.
[19]
Whether the defendant's conduct amounts to contempt of court, is for
another court to determine within the framework of established

judicial precedent regarding proof of the legal requirements
pertaining to the crime of contempt.
[20]
See:
B
v B
(700/2013)
[2014) ZASCA 137 (25 September 2014).
[21]
See:
Gauteng
Province Driving School Association
&
others
v Amaryllis Investments (Pty) Ltd
&
another
(006/11) [2011) ZASCA 237 (1December 2011) at para 19.