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[2018] ZALMPPHC 45
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Van Zyl and ANother v Rudolph and Another (7657/2017) [2018] ZALMPPHC 45 (11 May 2018)
REPUBLIC OF SOUTH AFRICA
IN THE HIGH COURT OF SOUTH AFRICA
LIMPOPO DIVISION, POLOKWANE
CASE
No. 7657/2017
In
the matter between:
AMORI
VAN
ZYL
1
ST
APPLICANT
CHRISTIAAN
LODEWYK WENTZEL VAN ZYL
2
ND
APPLICANT
And
BRAAM
RUDOLPH
1
ST
RESPONDENT
AMY
RUDOLPH
2
ND
RESPONDENT
JUDGEMENT
SEMENYA
J:
1.
The first applicant is the cousin to the minor child (hereinafter
referred to as CR) who is the subject matter of an application
brought ex parte on an urgent basis on the 13 November 2017. She is
married to the second applicant and are blessed with two minor
daughters. The applicants are residing in Johannesburg.
2.
The first respondent is the biological father of CR. He was married
to CR’s mother who passed away when CR was a year old.
First
respondent became the primary and sole care-giver of CR until he
re-married shortly after the death of her mother, however,
the second
wife too died few years into the marriage. The second respondent is
the first respondent’s third wife. It is common
cause that she,
second respondent has been recently diagnosed with cancer.
3.
The respondents were staying together with CR at Lephalale until the
13 November 2017, when the applicants were granted an interim
order
to remove CR from the care and primary residence of the respondents
pending a report by the Family Advocate with regard to
her best
interests.
4.
In view of the different Provinces in which the parties reside, Ms
Moela, a family counselor from the Polokwane office of the
Family
Advocate, conducted an investigation and reported on the respondents.
Ms Meniers, also a family counselor from the Johannesburg
office,
conducted an investigation into the applicants and CR. This state of
affairs led to an extension of the return date from
the 6 February
2018 to 13 March 2018 and again to the 19 April 2018.
5.
The application was prompted by a cell phone call conversation, which
was made while the speaker was on and in the presence of
CR, in which
the first respondent was accusing the first applicant of giving
certain information to CR about the abuse that the
first respondent
allegedly meted out on CR’s late mother. The first applicant’s
denial of the allegations led to the
first respondent forcing CR to
apologize to the first applicant. The first applicant stated in her
founding affidavit that it was
evident that the first respondent was
heavily intoxicated as he was swearing in an aggressive manner.
6.
The applicants allege that their suspicion that the first respondent
was physically and emotionally abusing CR were later confirmed
by the
second respondent, who informed her that the first respondent was
indeed abusing her and CR. The allegations were further
confirmed by
Emma Lawrence who lived with the first respondent for several years
in her confirmatory affidavit.
7.
The following facts, which are either common cause or undisputed
appear from the two reports compiled by the family counselors:
i.
all parties are both capable and willing to provide
the physical
needs in the form of adequate shelter, food, clothing and education
for CR;
ii.
all parties have a close and loving relationship with CR and
CR
equally loves all parties in turn;
iii.
the applicants have been involved in the upbringing of CR ever since
the passing of her mother in that she would visit them during school
holidays and weekends;
iv.
the first respondent is an alcoholic who was once admitted in a rehab
and later relapsed;
v.
the first respondent has occasionally given CR a hiding, which
he
regards as moderate and necessary disciplinary measure whenever CR
obtained low grades at school or lied. The applicants on
the other
hand regard this as abuse;
vi.
the first respondent once attempted to commit suicide and was rescued
by his step children;
vii.
CR has been enrolled at a new school where she has made new friends
and
appears to have adapted well to her new environment. She has a
healthy relationship with the applicants’ two daughters.
viii.
the applicants went an extra mile to help CR by engaging an
educational psychologist
and a tutor to help her cope with her school
work;
ix.
CR has expressed her wish to return to the respondents who, according
to her miss them. She too misses them; and
x.
The applicants have prevented contact between CR and the first
respondent since her removal.
8.
This court is called upon to determine the issue as to where the best
interests of CR lie between the applicants and the respondents.
All
parties allege that they always acted in CR’s interests.
9.
In P v P
2007 (5) SA 94
(SCA) at 99 D it was stated that”
“
Determining
what custody arrangement will serve the best interests of the
children in a particular case involves the High Court
making a value
judgement, based on its findings of fact, in the exercise of its
inherent jurisdiction as the upper guardian of
minor children.”
10.
The notion of the best interests of the children is entrenched in
section 28 of the Constitution of the Republic of South Africa,
1996
which provides as follows:
“
Section 28 –
Bill of Child Rights
1.
Every child has the right –
a.
To name and a nationality from birth
b.
To family care or parental care, or to appropriate alternative care
when removed from their family environment
c.
To basic nutrition, shelter, basic health care services and social
services
d.
To be protected from malnutrition, neglect, abuse or degradation…
2.
A child’s best interests are of paramount importance in every
matter concerning the child.
11.
Section 7 of the Children’s Act 38 of 2005 (“the Act”),
to which reference was made in the report of the family
counselors,
has been enacted to give effect to the rights of the children as
provided for in section 28 of the Constitution.
12.
Section 7 of the Act provides as follows:
“
BEST
INTERESTS OF CHILD STANDARD:
(1) Whenever a
provision of this Act requires the best interests of the child
standard to be applied, the following factors must
be taken into
consideration where relevant, namely;
(a) the nature of
the personal relationship between
(i) the child and
the parents, or any specific parent; and
(ii) the child and
any other care-giver or person relevant in those
circumstances;
(b) the attitude of
the parents, or any specific parent, towards
(i) the child; and
(ii) the exercise
of parental responsibilities and rights in respect of the
child;
(c) the capacity of
the parents, or any specific parent, or of any other caregiver or
person, to provide for the needs of the child,
including emotional
and intellectual
needs;
(d) the likely
effect on the child of any change in the child’s circumstances,
including the
likely effect on the child of any separation from
(i) both or either
of the parents; or
(ii) any brother or
sister or other child, or any other care-giver or person, with whom
the child has been living;
(e) the practical
difficulty and expense of a child having contact with the
parents, or any
specific parent, and whether that difficulty or expense will
substantially
affect the child’s right to maintain personal relations and
direct contact with
the parents, or any specific parent, on a regular basis;
(f) the need for
the child
(i) to remain in
the care of his or her parent, family and extended family; and
(ii) to maintain a
connection with his or her family, extended family, culture or
tradition;
(g) the child’s
(i) age, maturity
and stage of development;
(ii) gender;
(iii) background;
and
(iv) any other
relevant characteristics of the child;
(h) the child’s
physical and emotional security and his or her intellectual,
emotional, social and cultural development;
(i) any disability
that a child may have;
(j) any chronic
illness from which a child may suffer;
(k) the need for a
child to be brought up within a stable family environment and, where
this is not possible, in an environment
resembling as closely as
possible a caring family environment;
(l) the need to
protect the child from any physical or psychological harm that may be
caused by
(i) subjecting the
child to maltreatment, abuse, neglect, exploitation or degradation or
exposing the child to violence or exploitation
or other harmful
behaviour; or
(ii) exposing the
child to maltreatment, abuse, degradation, ill-treatment, violence or
harmful behaviour towards another person;
(m) any family
violence involving the child or a family member of the child;
and
(n) which action or
decision would avoid or minimise further legal or administrative
proceedings in relation to the child.
(2) In this section
“parent” includes any person who has parental
responsibilities and rights in respect of a child.”
13.
This case involves the removal of a child from her father with whom
she has been living since birth after the passing of her
mother. It
appears from the facts that the first applicant considers herself as
somebody who would be able to provide the love
and care that the
biological mother would have provided this child with. In his
answering affidavit, the first respondent objected
to the manner in
which the applicants prevented him from seeing CR after she was
removed from him.
14.
It is evident that in arriving at a decision as to where the best
interests of CR would be best catered for, I will have to
have regard
to the respondents’ attitude towards CR and the exercise of
their parental responsibilities and rights in respect
of CR
(s7(1)(b)(i) and (ii), CR’s physical and emotional security
(s7(1)(h) and the need for CR to remain in in the care
of the
respondents (s7(1)(f)(i).
15.
I take note of the fact that the first respondent is not disputing
the allegations that he is aggressive and abusive both to
the second
respondent and CR whenever he is under the influence of alcohol. He
admits that he starts to drink alcohol from Thursdays
to Sundays. He
also admits that he has administered corporal punishment on CR
occasionally.
16.
It was contended on behalf of the respondents that the court should
not overemphasize the fact that the first respondent is
an alcoholic.
The submission made is that the court should take into consideration
the fact that the first respondent is willing,
with the support of
his employer, to seek help and to go for rehabilitation. It was
contended that the court should take into consideration
the fact that
the second respondent is the primary care-giver of CR who has been
taking care of her after school and in the absence
of the first
respondent.
17.
It is common cause that the second respondent is sickly and has just
recently undergone an operation. According to Ms Meniers
this
situation contributes to CR’s feelings of guilt and
inadequateness. It appears from this report that CR feels
that
she needs to protect the second respondent against the first
respondent. Ms Meniers concludes that nature of the relationship
between CR and the respondents is a factor that must be taken into
consideration as provided for in section 7(1) (a) (i) and (ii)
of the
Act. Ms Meniers opines that the relationship between the second
respondent and CR is not a healthy mother and child relationship.
Ms
Moela shares the same sentiment.
18.
With regard to the first respondent, Ms Moela further opines
that the bad things that happened in the first respondent’s
life might have turned him into what he is today and that that
impacts negatively on CR. CR may feel obligated to take care of
her.
The first respondent stated in his answering affidavit that the
cancer diagnoses, the operation and the removal of CR had
impacted
badly on him. I am however of the view that the removal of Cr was in
the best interests of both CR and first respondent
as it gave him the
opportunity to be there for his sickly wife. I agree with the
counselors that the first respondent has to deal
first with the
issues that turned him into the person he is today in the interests
of CR.
19.
According to Ms Moela, the first respondent informed her that the
reason why he attempted to commit suicide was because he could
not
cope with another sickly wife after he had lost the first wife. He
further stated that he was frustrated by the fact that he
was not
receiving any support from family. The first respondent stated in his
answering affidavit that he was devastated when his
current wife was
diagnosed with cancer and had to undergo an operation. I accept that
the respondents’ intentions of wanting
to retain CR may be
good; however it does not necessarily translate into being in the
best interest.
20.
Ms Miniers is of the opinion that the respondents neglected CR’s
emotional and intellectual needs, a factor which must
be taken into
consideration in terms of section 7 (1) (c) of the Act. According to
her, CR lacks self-confidence because of the
first respondent’s
erratic and aggressive behavior, more in particular when she does not
perform well at school. Unlike the
respondents, the applicants
perform well on this aspect in the form of encouragement rather than
punishment. Ms Moela concurs.
She however adds that the applicants
should assist the respondents and CR in rebuilding their relationship
by allowing them more
contact with CR. I agree. It is in any event
common cause that CR considers him to be a good father, but for the
abuse of alcohol.
21.
With regard to the factor referred to in section 7(1) (d), I have
noticed from the reports that CR is torn between the parties
in this
matter. The two family counselors were acting within the law, in line
with the decision in McCall v McCall 1994(1(3) SA
201 (CPD) at 207,
to engage CR as it appears that she has the necessary intellectual
and emotional maturity to can express her
preference towards her
relationship with the parties. However, it is the court, as the upper
guardian of all minors, which enjoined
to make a value judgement as
to what is best for her. Whilst she appreciate the fact that the
applicants are good to her, she still
feel the need to be with the
respondents and regards her relationship with them as constituting a
unit. I however have to take
into consideration the sentiments raised
by the applicants and the counselors that the relationship between
the second respondent
and CR is not a healthy relationship. I
am of the view that her desire to go back to the respondents is
indeed motivated
by guilt feeling more than anything else. I further
agree that it is natural for the child of CR’s age to feel this
guilty,
more so in that she has already suffered loss in the past.
22.
I have a duty to protect CR from any physical and psychological harm
as envisaged in section 7(1) (i) of the Act. It appears
that the
first respondent is unable to appreciate the fact CR may not be
intellectually gifted and to accept this fact. His smacking
is
damaging to her confidence. It appears that her poor academic
performance will always be a source of strife between them. She
needs
to be protected from the physical abuse meted out to her on the basis
of her.
23.
I find that the probabilities favour the removal of CR from the care
and primary residence of the respondents and that this
should be
awarded to the applicants. The two family counselors’ views are
endorsed by the Family Advocate. Having said that,
I take note of the
issue raised by the applicants for the first time on the return date,
being that the court should order the
first respondent to provide the
applicants with the medical aid card of CR so that they can be able
to provide for her medical
care. CR remains the first respondent’s
responsibility. He is by law obliged to maintain her irrespective of
where she lives.
24.
With regard to costs I am of the view that this is a case where the
respondents genuinely believed that they have the right
to retain
care and primary residence of CR. It cannot be disputed that the
first respondent was also a victim of his own circumstances,
having
lost two spouses within a short period of time. His erratic behaviour
is understandable, albeit harmful to CR. The apposite
order will be
the one where each party is ordered to his or her own costs.
25.
In the event I make the following order:
1.
Rule nisi dated 13 November is hereby confirmed.
2.
The applicants are awarded the care and primary residence of CR;
3.
The first respondent remains the holders of full parental
responsibilities and rights which shall include the
right:
3.1.
to care for CR;
3.2.
to maintain telephonic and physical contact with her, but only when
the first respondent
is sobre;
3.3.
to act as her guardian; and
3.4.
to contribute towards her maintenance.
4.
The first respondent is ordered to provide the applicants with CR’s
medical aid card.
5.
Each party is to pay own costs.
SEMENYA M.V
JUDGE
OF THE HIGH COURT
APPEARANCES
FOR
THE PLAINTIFF : ADV. MARISKA BOUWER
INSTRUCTED
BY :
VAN ZYL ATTORNEYS
FOR
THE DEFENDANT : MRS. M.C DE KLERK
INSTRUCTED
BY :
DDKK ATTORNEYS
DATE
OF HEARING : 19 APRIL 2018
DATE
OF JUDGEMENT : 11 MAY 2018