the electronic file of this matter on CaseLines. The date of the
judgment is deemed to be 05 February 2024
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JUDGMENT
MARUMOAGAE AJ
A INTRODUCTION
[1] Parents are expected to honour their duty to financially maintain their children
when they have the means to do so. However, there are times when this duty
is either not honoured or one of the parents fails to fully honour it despite being
able to do so. When child-related maintenance disputes arise during divorce
proceedings, parents vested with the residency and care of the children can
approach courts in terms of Rule 43 of the Uniform Rules of Court for the other
parents to be ordered to financially support the children.
[2] These applications are interlocutory in nature and orders sought are
provisional. In these applications , courts are confronted with relatively easy
disputes that are constantly rendered unnecessarily complex by deliberate
misstatements of financial positions, dishonest and inadequate disclosures,
and submission of voluminous documentation that seldom assist in determining
the true financial position of both parents and the ability of parents from whom
maintenance is sought to provide the requested maintenance.
[3] It is becoming a norm for one or both parties to understate their income,
overstate their expenditure, and hide assets in divorce litigation making it
difficult to adequately determine the question of maintenance . This leads to
protracted divorce litigation with multiple costly interlocutory applications .
Parties often choose to litigate disputes that arise pending their divorce at great
costs rather than attempting in good faith to seek well -structured collaborative
or mediated solutions to those disputes. It appears that some of the lawyers
who are approached to assist the parties in dissolving their marriages are not
doing enough to encourage their clients to negotiate meaningfully and fairly to
resolve their disputes. In my view, this conduct must be discouraged.
[4] This is yet another unnecessary litigation that the parties could have easily
avoided had they attempted in good faith to meaningfully negotiate their
dispute. This is an applica tion for interim maintenance of the parties' three
children pending the dissolution of the ir marriage. The main issue the court is
called to determine is whether the respondent should be ordered to make a
cash contribution towards the maintenance of the se children. If so, to further
determine the reasonable amount that the respondent should pay to the
applicant.
[5] This application is opposed. The respondent requested condonation for the late
service and filing of his answering affidavit. There appears to be no objection
to condonation being granted. As is often the case in applications of this nature,
the parties made accusations and counteraccusations for overstating their
expenses and understating their respective incomes. This calls for a delicate
assessment of the parties' actual incomes and expenses to determine whether
it is justifiable for the respondent , in addition to the payments that he already
makes, to also make a cash contribution towards the children’s maintenance.
B FACTS AND CONTENTIONS
[6] The parties are married to each other out of community of property without the
application of the accrual system. Th ere are three children born of the parties’
marriage, all of whom are still minors. The parties are in the process of divorcing
each other and reside in two different places. The applicant is currently residing
with the children. The respondent exercises reasonable contact rights with the
children.
[7] Both parties receive appreciable financial assistance from their parents. The
respondent’s mother used to reside with the parties in their matrimonial home
and she contributed towards the household expenses, including cooking for the
parties and their children. The applicant’s father provided the applicant with
money that was used to cover some of the parties' expenses when they resided
together. It appears that the respondent’s mother and the applicant’s father also
contributed to the payment of the parties’ respective legal fees.
[8] Upon realising that the marriage was over, the applicant decided to relocate
with the children to Mossel Bay in the Western Cape province. The respondent
did not consent to this relocation. According to the respondent, the applicant
with the assistance of her father abducted the children. This left him with no
choice but to approach th is court on an urgent basis to have the children
returned to the Gauteng province . The applicant was ordered to return the
children.
[9] At the time the urgent applicant was lodged, the respondent was residing with
his mother at th e matrimonial home . Among others, the court granted the
respondent the care and residency of the children pending the investigation and
assessment by an expert appointed by the parties relating to who between them
should be granted the care and residency of the children.
[10] The applicant did not return to the matrimonial home because the respondent
and his mother refused to vacate therefrom. The applicant found a place to rent
close to the children’s schools where she claims to be paying the rental amount
of R 19 500.00 per mont h. The respondent disputes this amount and alleges
that the applicant, with the assistance of her father, is paying the rental amount
of R 28 000.00 per month. The respondent alleges that the applicant’s rental is
too high and suggested that she should find relatively cheaper accommodation
of about R 9 000.00.
[11] The parties reached an agreement to sell their matrimonial h ome. The
respondent’s mother successfully lodged a claim against the proceeds of the
sale of the house which significantly reduced the amount of money the applicant
received therefrom. This claim was due to the improvements the respondent’s
mother made to the house as well as the instalment of a solar system thereto .
After the sale of the matrimonial house, the respondent and his mother moved
into a three-bedroom townhouse with a flatlet wh ere the respondent claims to
be paying a rental amount of R 20 999.00 per month. The applicant alleges that
the respondent previously indicated that his rent is R 11 000.00.
[12] The parties had a meeting and agreed that they would share the joint residence
of the children. The y agreed that the respondent would pay 70% and the
applicant 30% of all the children’s expenses such as the cost of all the
stationery, school uniforms, and required school equipment. The respondent
also agreed to pay school fees in full which amounts to R 7 400.00 directly to
the school, plus R 900.00 for squash. Further, they would both contribute to the
children’s everyday expenses for food and lodging. The respondent claims that
he cannot afford to make any cash contribution towards the children’s
maintenance.
[13] The parties appointed an expert to investigate and recommend how they should
exercise their parental responsibilities and rights. This expert recommended
that the applicant should exercise primary care and residency subject to the
respondent exercising reasonable contact with the children. It is for this reason
that the applicant requires the respondent to make a cash contribution towards
the maintenance of the children. The applicant earns an amount of R 24 348.54
per month. The applicant contends that she needs the cash contribution from
the respondent because her salary is not enough to cover the children’s
expenses. She claims that her total expenditure is R 65 123.75, of which R 31
878.45 is spent on the children per month. The responde nt denies that the
applicant spends over R 30 000.00 on the children per month.
[14] The applicant alleges further that she was able to make some means because
her father assisted her by paying into her bank account an amount of R 25
000.00 per month. However, the applicant alleges that her father will be retiring
in 2024 and indicated that he will no longer be able to financially assist her. The
applicant claims that if the respondent does not make a cash contribution she
will be forced to relocate to her parents' house in the Western Cape where she
will receive accommodation, food, and electricity for free and save an amount
of R 30 000.00 per month.
[15] The respondent earns a salary of R 53 895.20 per month. The applicant is of
the view that the respondent can afford to make a cash contribution because
he earns an amount of R 29 546.66 more than she does, and he also receives
financial assistance from his mother. According to the respondent’s financial
disclosure form commissioned on 20 June 2023 which the applicant attached
to her founding affidavit, the respondent’s total monthly expenditure is R 53
738.05, and R 14 599.70 of which is spent on the children. This document was
commissioned at the police station.
[16] There is another respondent’s financial disclosure form uploaded on Caselines
15. It is not clear from the document as to when it was commissioned. It was
commissioned by an attorney who failed to provide a date on which it was
commissioned. It is not clear which of these two financial disclosure forms is
the main document and which is a supplementary document. What is clear ,
however, is that certain contents of these documents differ in material respects.
For instance, in the undated financia l disclosure form, the respondent stated
under oath that his monthly expenditure is R 54 022.66, R 8 300 of which was
spent on the children.
[17] The respondent alleges that his liabilities amount to just over one million rand.
He alleges that the debt on his credit card is R 307 829.93. He also claims that
the outstanding amount on his vehicle finance is R 429 903.93. Further, he
owes his mother an amount of R 3 44 669.75. According to the respondent, the
applicant is in a better financial position because her stated liabilities amount to
R 323 841.12.
[18] According to the applicant, the respondent overstated h is expenses in his
financial disclosure forms. The amount of expenses reflected in the financial
disclosure forms are different from those disclosed to the car dealership when
the respondent purchased his vehicle. The applicant contends that the
respondent indicated to the dealership that his monthly expenses amount to R
23 950.00 and that he pays R 11 000 rent. The respondent alleges that an
official at the car dealership made an error when recording his rental amount
which was recorded as R 11 000.00 as opposed to R 20 999.00.
[19] The applicant contends further that the respondent paid for all the children’s
expenses when they lived together. Further, the respondent was able to pay for
the children’s school fees, provide for their maintenance needs with his current
salary, and cover medical aid for her and the children. The applicant contends
that she was responsible for groceries and the payment of the domestic worker.
The respondent denies that he solely supported the children when the parties
were staying together. He contends that both parties contributed towards the
children’s maintenance during this time.
[20] The applicant believes that the respondent can afford to pay the requested cash
contribution because, among others, he transfers between R 10 000.00 and R
20 000.00 to his credit card per month. Further, if the respondent is expected
to transfer only R 5 500.00 per month , he would have between R 10 000.00
and R 15 000.00 to make a cash contribution. The respondent alleges that the
limit on the bank requires that he should have R 15 000.00 transferred before
deducting his monthly payment of R 5 000.00 interest on the capital balance.
He contends that he transfers R 10 000.00 back into his cheque account.
[21] The respondent believes that the applicant is requesting a cash contribution to
fund her lifestyle. The respondent is of the view that the applicant is not honest
about the extent to which her father is supporting her. The respondent contends
that he should not be overburdened to pay unreasonable maintenance through
the required cash contribution. According to the respondent, the applicant
received a combined amount of R 119 179 from her father and R 253 179 from
the sale of the house which has significantly strengthened her financial position.
[22] The respondent further alleges that the applicant received about R 415 984.00
in her bank account between December 2022 and March 2023 and spent about
R 401 114.00 of this money during this period. The respondent contends further
that the applicant’s father offered to purchase property for her if she relocated
to Mossel Bay. As such, there is no reason why her father cannot assist her in
buying a property in Pretoria. Further, the applicant's father always paid for her
expenses and will continue to do so. The applicant alleges that her father will
not continue to provide her with financial assistance due to his imminent
retirement.
[23] The applicant initially requested a cash contribution of R 7 000.00 per child per
month. However, during the oral argument, it was argued that the respondent
may not be able to afford this amount but can afford amount of R 3,500 per
child per month. The respondent contends that he cannot afford to pay this
reduced amount. According to the respondent, he was forced to borrow money
from his mother to pay the fees of the expert that the parties hired to assess
and investigate the best interests of the children. The respondent alleges that
his mother currently resides in an adjourning flatlet at his new residence which
is one of the ways of paying her back for assisting him with the legal fees.
C POINTS IN LIMINE
[24] The respondent started with a condonation application and an account of why
his affidavit was submitted late. The applicant appears not to have any difficulty
with condonation being granted. The respondent then raised three points in
limine. First, the respondent claims that the applicant failed to comply with Rule
41A of the Uniform Rules of Court . The respondent is of the view that the
applicant should have taken a conciliatory approach or mediation before
launching this application. In my view, there is no merit to this point.
[25] Rule 41A of the Uniform Rules of Court clearly refers to new actions and
applications and not interlocutory applications as is the case in this matter. The
party that instituted the divorce action was duty-bound, at the time the summons
was issued, to comply with this rule. 1 The party that was served with the
1 Rule41A(2)(a) of the Uniform Rules of Court states that ‘[i]n every new action or application
proceeding, the plaintiff or applicant shall, together with the summons or combined summons or notice
of motion, serve on each defendant or respondent a notice indicating whether such plaintiff or applicant
agrees to or opposes referral of the dispute to mediation’.
summons would then indicate when delivering the notice of intention to defend
whether s/he agrees that the matter should be referred to mediation.2
[26] The purpose of this rule is to ensure that parties explore alternative dispute
resolution methods at the commencement of their matters in court to avoid
protracted litigation. Even if parties do not agree to mediate their dispute
immediately after the summons has been served, they are not precluded from
considering mediation anytime thereafter. This, however, does not mean that
whenever an interlocutory application to their main action is brought by any
party, such a party should always comply with the provisions of Rule 41A of the
Uniform Rules of Court. It would be ideal for lawyers to advise their clients not
to rush to lodge court papers before alternative dispute resolution measures
have been adequately explored. Alternatively, to do so immediately after papers
have been issued.
[27] Secondly, the respondent claims that the relevant practice directive required
the parties to exchange their respective financial disclosure forms with
supporting documentation no later than five days after the respondent delivered
his replying affidavit to the applicant’s application. According to the respondent,
the applicant served her financial disclosure form prematurely and failed to
attach all her supporting documentation. For this reason, the respond ent is of
the view that this application must be postponed with punitive costs. This might
well be the case, but I doubt this is a technical point that would justify the court
dismissing the matter or postponing and unnecessarily delaying the finalisation
thereof and, in the process, escalating the parties’ legal costs. This will not be
in the interest of justice. I am of the view that this matter should finalised.
[28] Thirdly, the respondent submitted that the applicant failed to deliver the affidavit
attached to her application in the form of a declaration together with the notice
to the respondent in a prescribed form. Rule 43(2)(a) of the Uniform Rules of
2 Rule41A(2)(b) of the Uniform Rules of Court states that ‘[a] defendant or respondent shall, when
delivering a notice of intention to defend or a notice of intention to oppose, or at any time thereafter, but
not later than the delivery of a plea or answering affidavit, serve on each plaintiff or applicant or the
plaintiff’s or applicant’s attorneys, a notice indicating whether such defendant or respondent agrees to
or opposes referral of the dispute to mediation.
Court provides that the initiating affidavit must be drafted in the form of a
declaration.3 In my view, there are practical reasons for this. Among others, the
prescribed format is intended to force those who draft these affidavits to be
pointed and concise and only raise relevant facts. By following the approach of
the declaration, these affidavits are meant not to be unnecessarily long.
[29] However, in practice, even when this format is followed, some of the drafters of
these affidavits still find a way to include collateral issues that render these
affidavits extremely long. At times, they also attach many annexures, some of
which are often found unnecessary in the determination of the issues before
the court.
[30] It is worth noting, however, that the Uniform Rules of Court are not immutable
and should not be rendere d inflexible. While these rules play an extremely
important role in ensuring efficiency in the adjudication of matters, the High
Court retains its inherent jurisdiction to regulate its own process. As such, when
it is justifiable and in the interest of justice to do so, the High Court is well within
its right to deviate from its own rules.4
[31] In any event, ‘… the rules are meant for the court, not the court for the rules ’.5
In the context of this application, I am not convinced that much weight should
be attached to the fact that the applicant failed to follow the format of the
declaration when drafting her founding affidavit. I believe that this requirement
should be relaxed in this matter so that the parties can move towards finalizing
their divorce. However, some circumstances may justify another court reaching
a different conclusion.
3 See E v E and related matters [2019] 3 All SA 519 (GJ) para 23, where it is held that ‘Rule 43
applications as pre sently structured, are a deviation from normal motion proceedings in that the rule
does not make provision for a third set of affidavits. The applicant is confined to what is set out in the
founding affidavit, which must be in the nature of a declaration, setting out the relief claimed and on
what grounds. On receipt, the respondent is required to file an answering affidavit in the nature of a
plea’.
4 See PFE International Inc (BVI) and others v Industrial Development Corporation of South Africa Ltd
2013 (1) SA 1 (CC) para 30.
5 Collatz v Alexander Forbes Financial Services (Pty) Ltd (A 5067 of 2020) [2022] ZAGPJHC 75 (31
January 2022) para 23.
D APPLICABLE LEGAL PRINCIPLES AND ANALYSIS
[32] The procedure provided for in Rule 43 of the Uniform Rule of Court allows
financially weaker spouses and children who need maintenance to access the
necessary financial support pending the finalisation of the main matrimonial
disputes before the court, usu ally divorces.6 Both parents have the common
law duty to financially maintain their children proportionally in accordance with
their respective means and circumstances as well as the needs of their
children.7 In Bestuursliggaam van Gene Louw Laerskool v Roodtman, it was
held that:
‘[t]he scale upon which parents must provide support for their child is determined by
the reasonable needs of the child, viewed against the background of the standard of
living of the parents and their economic and social circumstances’.8
[33] It was correctly emphasised in NVH v SAVH, that:
‘t]he court has a duty to grant a maintenance order which it finds just after having due
regard to the prospective means of the parties and their respective needs and earning
capacities’.9
[34] It is worth noting that there is no general principle upon which an application for
interim maintenance under Rule 43 should be based because each case must
be decided based on its own facts.10 It has been persuasively held that:
‘[a] claim supported by reasonable and moderate details carries more weight than one
which includes extravagant or extortionate demands - similarly more weight will be
attached to the affidavit of a respondent who evinces a willingness to implement his
lawful obligations than to one who is obviously, albeit on paper, seeking to evade
them’.11
6 AEP v HASP [2012] JOL 29209 (GNP) para 11.
7 See B v B and another [1999] 2 All SA 289 (A) 291.
8 [2003] 2 All SA 87 (C) 94.
9 [2020] JOL 52376 (GJ) para 17.
10 Taute v Taute 1974 (2) SA 675 (E) 678.
11 Ibid 676.
[35] In applications of this nature, the parties must act with utmost good faith and
disclose all the material information that will assist the court in understanding
their respective financial positions. False disclosures or material non -
disclosures will make it difficult , if not impossible , for any presiding officer to
make a balanced and informed judgment on the need for maintenance and the
ability to pay the amount requested.12
E ANALYSIS
[36] I found most of the documentation provided in this matter particularly unhelpful.
From the evidence provided, two things are clear. First, the parties are both
duly employed, with the respondent earning a much higher salary than the
applicant. Secondly, th e applicant’s father regularly provides her with money
and the respondent’s mother also financially assists him. Both parties received
generous assistance with the payment of their legal fees from their parents.
[37] The financial assistance that the part ies continuously receive from their
respective parents has somewhat clouded the issue that needs to be decided
in this matter. The court is not concerned with the interim maintenance of one
of the parties, but that of the children born of their marriage. B oth parties have
the responsibility to provide for their children proportionally in accordance with
their respective means. This is not a duty that must be executed by the
children’s grandparents, even though they may be willing to assist. The position
would be different if the parties, as the children’s parents, were unable to
financially maintain their children.
[38] In an attempt to illustrate that he is not able to pay the cash contribution that
the applicant is requesting, the respondent attempted to demonstrate that the
applicant lives a luxurious life and that he should not be forced to fund her
lifestyle. The issue before the court is not the applicant’s lifestyle, even though
this may be a factor that can be considered together with other relevant factors.
The court must determine the needs of the children and the ability of both
parents to provide for such needs. The applicant receives a significantly lower
salary than the respondent and is burdened with the children’s daily financial
12 See NPS v SKYS [2021] JOL 53290 (FB) para 13.
needs. The ap plicant can determine the daily maintenance needs of the
children and assess whether her income sufficiently caters for their needs. The
fact that the applicant’s father provides some assistance, does not absolve the
respondent from his responsibility to financially support his children.
[39] The respondent cannot hide behind the financial support that the applicant’s
father is currently providing to the applicant. I accept the applicant’s explanation
that being forced to remain in Gauteng is an expensive exercise for her and
that life would be more affordable for her, and her children had she been
allowed to relocate to the Western Cape province . This is because she would
be living in her parents’ house and not forced to pay for accommodation and
food. I am of the view that while the applicant’s father assists her with her rent,
the respondent should assist her with the cash contribution toward s the
children’s daily expenses.
[40] The respondent claims that he cannot pay the required amount of ca sh
contribution because he has a debt of just over one million rand. This debt
constitutes the repayment of the loan on his car, credit card, and the money he
allegedly owes her mother. Notwithstanding, the confirmatory affidavit deposed
by the respondent’s mother, I am not convinced that the respondent owes her
mother any money, or if he does, he is pressured to repay this money as a debt.
From his R 53 895.20 salary, the respondent seems to be coping very well with
the repayment of his vehicle loan and servicing of his credit card account.
[41] The respondent repays just over R 4 000.00 to the bank for his car and R 5
000.00 into his credit card per month. The respondent claims that his expenses
amount to R 54 022.66 per month. However, this amount is different from what
he recorded when he purchased his vehicle, which is R 23 950.00. This
suggests that the respondent overstated his expenses in this applicatio n.
Further, some of the activities that the respondent listed as contributing to his
expenses make it difficult not to conclude that his expenses are overstated.
[42] For instance, the respondent claims that it is cheaper for him to eat takeaways
daily than to cook. The court is expected to believe that the respondent survives
on takeaways even though he resides with his mother who used to cook for his
family when he was residing with the applicant and their children. In that the
respondent’s mother was mo re than happy to cook for six people including
herself but is not interested in cooking for only two people. I find it hard to
believe this. This is another example that demonstrates that the respondent’s
expenses are exaggerated.
[43] It is important not to create an impression that the respondent is not willing to
financially support his children. He is currently paying about 70% of the
children’s expenses and their school fees as indicated above. Even though the
applicant is responsible for the payment of 30% of these expenses, she resides
with the children and does cover all the daily expenses as and when they arise.
It is for this reason that the applicant realised that she needs the respondent’s
financial assistance because she cannot adequately provide for the children
with her salary of R 24 348.54, which is much less than what the respondent
earns.
[44] Both parties criticized each other about their respective habits of eating with the
children at restaurants or taking holidays with the children. I did not find the
facts upon which these criticisms were based particularly useful regarding the
needs of the children and the parties' ability to financially provide for their
children. It is important however, for courts not to be sidetracked by such
allegations and make orders that would contribute towards one of the parents
becoming a fun parent who is allowed to have fun with the children while the
other is seen as a boring and inflexible parent who is not fun to be around. Both
parties are entitled to entertain their children within their means.
[45] I am of the view that the way parties wish to entertain their children when in
their presence should be left to them. I am not convinced that this is an issue
that courts should regulate. However, courts should not allow cases of blatant
abuse where one parent wishes to force another to make a cash contribution
that will be used to maintain his or her luxurious lifestyle and not for the benefit
of children. I doubt t hat the applicant is requesting a cash contribution to
advance or maintain her own lifestyle.
[46] Initially, the applicant sought a cash contribution of R 7 000 .00 per child on
which she reflected and correctly concluded that the respondent may not be
able to afford it. She sensibly reduced this amount to R 3 500.00 per child per
month. The central question is whether the respondent can afford to make this
cash contribution, not what the applicant’s father or the respondent’s mother
financially contributed to the parties. The respondent already pays 70% of the
children’s monthly expenses, plus R 900.00 squash. He also pays R 7 400.00
in school fees per month. The respondent also has an uncontested expense of
R 9 000.00 toward the repayment of his car loan and credit card.
[47] In addition, the respondent claims to be paying R 20 999 .00 rent. There is,
however, a contrary version regarding the rent. When the respondent
purchased his vehicle, he stated that his rent was R 11 000.00. The respondent
wishes to distance himself from this averment by merely saying that this was
an error made by the official at the dealership. However, the respondent does
not indicate what efforts, if any, he took to correct this. This creates an
impression that the respo ndent is prone to creating versions that suit the
occasion. It is thus, not clear to the court as to what amount he pays for rent.
[48] In his answering affidavit, the respondent merely stated that the correct rental
amount is R 20 999.00 without providing the lease agreement or confirmatory
affidavit from the landlord.13 The respondent does not dispute that the recorded
amount of rent in his application form for car finance is R 11 000. There is
nothing that suggests that this amount was recorded i n error, otherwise the
respondent would have corrected it. This figure was central to the applicant
receiving a loan from the bank to purchase his car and was taken as correct by
the bank. Absent a lease agreement stating the contrary, there is no reason
why the court should not accept that the applicant’s rental is R 11 000.00.
[49] Concerning the respondent’s monthly expenses for the children, there are two
contradictory amounts placed before the court. On the one financial disclosure
form, the responden t quotes these expenses at R 14 599.70 . On the other
financial disclosure form, these expenses are quoted as R 8 300 ,00. It is not
clear which of these amounts reflects the actual money that the respondent
spends on his children per month. The respondent appears not to be truthful
about the actual money he spends on the children per month. I must note that
13 This averment is contained in paragraph 46.1 of the respondent’s answering affidavit which seeks to
respond to paragraphs 6.9 to 6.10 of the applicant’s founding affidavit.
I find the applicant’s claim that she spends over R 30 000.00 per month on the
children also exaggerated.
[50] It seems to me that it is reasonable to accept that the respondent’s major
monthly expenses are R 7 400.00, R 900.00, R 11 000.00, and R 9 000.00. To
the extent to which the respondent spends R 14 599.70 per month on the
children, which I doubt he does, half of this money can easily be paid to the
applicant as a cash contribution. When considering all these amounts , it
appears to me that the respondent can make a cash contribution to the
applicant for the maintenance of the parties’ children.
[51] If R 14 599.70 is added to the uncontested amounts that form part of the
respondent's expenses, the rough estimate of t he respondent’s expenses
would be R 42 899.70. It seems to me that the amount of R 14 599.70 was
inserted to overstate the respondent’s expenses to create an impression that
he cannot afford to pay the requested cash contribution.
[52] If an amount of R 8 300.00 is considered, which in my view is more likely, then
the respondent’s likely expenses would amount to R 36 699.00 per month. I am
mindful of the fact that courts should not lazily reflect on the parties' finances
and burden them with maintenance obligations with which they will struggle to
comply. It appears to me that even on this calculation, it may be difficult for the
applicant to comply with the required amount of case contribution having regard
to his other financial commitments that were not considered in this calculation.
[53] If the court accepts this version, this means that the applicant will be left with
about R 17 300.00 from which he would be expected to make the requested
cash contribution. In other words, he would be expected to pay R 10 500.00 per
month from this amount. In my view, given the respondent’s other financial
commitments, it would be unreasonable to expect him to make a cash
contribution of R 10 500.00 per month. It seems to me that it may be reasonable
under the circumstances for the respondent, at the very least, to make a cash
contribution of R 2 000.00 per child per month. Should this be burdensome, the
respondent can always approach the maintenance court to place true facts that
demonstrate his inability to pay child maintenance.
E CONCLUSION
[54] The documentation before the court paints a picture of parents who, despite
their feelings towards each other, are committed to providing the best for their
children. The respondent is certainly not evading his maintenance obligation s
and he is interested in playing a pivotal role in his children’s lives. Otherwise,
he would not have instituted an urgent applicant to force the applicant to bring
back the child ren to Gauteng. Equally so, the applicant's relocation to the
Western Cape appears to have been an act of love . The applicant and the
children were going to benefit from the support that the applicant’s parents were
prepared to provide.
[55] The parties’ current circumstances appear to be an act of compromise and one
hopes that they will cease their litigious behaviour and meaningfully engage
each other to amicably finalise their divorce so that their financial resources can
be directed to their children and not legal costs. In my view, there is no winner
or loser in this application and there is no need to burden any party with the
costs thereof.
ORDER
[56] In the results, I make the following order:
1. The late filing of the respondent’s answering affidavit is condoned.
2. The applicant is awarded the primary residency and care of the three
children born of the parties’ marriage.
3. The respondent is awarded reasonable contact with the children which
should be exercised as follows:
3.1 The respondent shall have the children every alternate weekend
by collecting them from school on Friday afternoon and returning
them to school on Monday morning.
GAUTENG DIVISION
PRETORIA
Counsel for the applicant: Adv S Strauss
Instructed by: Grove & Dormehl
Counsel for the respondent: Adv L Keiser
Instructed by: Pistorius Scheepers
Date of the hearing: 20 October 2023
Date of judgment: 05 February 2024