Van Der Westhuizen v Van Der Westhuizen (55831/08) [2011] ZAGPPHC 30 (28 March 2011)

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Brief Summary

Divorce — Maintenance — Claim for maintenance post-divorce — Plaintiff and defendant agreed on irretrievable breakdown of marriage — Defendant claimed maintenance and resettlement allowance — Court to consider factors under section 7(2) of the Divorce Act 70 of 1979 — Discretion of court to determine maintenance based on parties' means, needs, and standard of living — Court awarded maintenance of R44 502 per month and R500 000 for household necessities, reflecting the need for the defendant to establish a new home.

Comprehensive Summary

Summary of Judgment


1. Introduction


This matter was a divorce action in the North Gauteng High Court, Pretoria, in which the plaintiff (JFH van der Westhuizen) sought a decree of divorce and ancillary relief, and the defendant (AJ van der Westhuizen) counterclaimed for a decree of divorce and maintenance.


The parties were in agreement that the marriage had irretrievably broken down and that a divorce order should be granted. The dispute that remained for determination concerned only post-divorce maintenance: whether the plaintiff should be ordered to maintain the defendant, and if so, the quantum and form of the maintenance (including whether a lump sum should be ordered to assist the defendant to establish a new home).


Procedurally, the action was instituted on 27 November 2008. The defendant delivered a plea and counterclaim on 27 February 2009. The trial commenced in May 2010, was postponed sine die, and resumed in February and March 2011. A prior interlocutory dispute regarding a contribution to costs was resolved at a pre-trial conference on 6 May 2010, with the defendant withdrawing that application and the plaintiff paying R300 000 in accordance with the parties’ settlement.


The general subject-matter of the dispute was the proper application of section 7(2) of the Divorce Act 70 of 1979 to a long marriage concluded out of community of property with an ante-nuptial contract excluding accrual, where the plaintiff was extremely wealthy and the defendant had assets and income but claimed maintenance enabling her, as far as possible, to continue at the marital standard of living.


2. Material Facts


The parties married on 12 October 1991 out of community of property in terms of an ante-nuptial contract that excluded the accrual system and contained a clause providing that in the event of divorce the plaintiff would pay the defendant R10 000 per month for one year, provide an average sedan not older than one year, and provide accommodation for at least two months after divorce. Shortly before trial, and in settlement of the defendant’s costs-contribution application, the plaintiff paid the defendant R300 000 (a settlement amount linked to those ante-nuptial contract obligations) and the defendant agreed to vacate the common home by 31 July 2010.


It was undisputed that the plaintiff was a builder and property developer, that he had become extremely wealthy, and that he could afford the amounts originally claimed by the defendant (including R68 794 per month and a R3 million resettlement allowance). The plaintiff did not disclose full details of his financial affairs, but the court accepted on the evidence and admissions that he owned or controlled substantial assets (including large numbers of units in retirement villages and valuable properties) and derived significant income directly or indirectly from those assets.


It was also not materially disputed that the defendant, aged 56 at trial, was educated and experienced (including as a town planner and later in retirement-village management), and that she held substantial assets (valued at approximately R5.5 million excluding a life annuity capital value) and had multiple income streams. Those included a pension from her first marriage, an annuity, rental-related net income from three townhouses, dividends/interest, and remuneration and benefits derived from her involvement in Phambele Property and Management Services CC (a business engaged in management and sales activities relating to retirement villages). However, a central factual feature for the court was the precariousness of her continued income from Phambele because that business depended materially on contracts and commissions connected to retirement villages owned or controlled by the plaintiff.


The marital standard of living was a significant common-cause feature. The parties lived for many years in very large, luxurious homes in Waterkloof, Pretoria, with multiple domestic employees; they drove expensive vehicles; they travelled overseas annually (flying business class) and took regular holidays; they entertained and dined out frequently; and they “materially lacked for nothing”.


As to the breakdown of the marriage, the court relied on a series of events on 15 November 2008 and their aftermath. After a staff Christmas outing and a gathering at an employee’s home, the parties returned to their home where an argument ensued related to the defendant’s questions about Mrs De Beer. The plaintiff packed a bag and left, returned to the gathering, and later left with Mrs De Beer to a guesthouse where they spent the night together. The plaintiff did not return to the common home thereafter. The defendant attempted for about three months to repair the marriage, unsuccessfully. The court accepted that the plaintiff’s relationship with Mrs De Beer ended the marriage and treated the plaintiff’s conduct as relevant to the breakdown.


A further factual aspect was that in August 2009, at the AGM of Centurion retirement village, a decision was taken to end Phambele’s management contract as too expensive; the plaintiff, holding a majority vote, voted in favour and could have prevented the outcome. This resulted in Phambele losing a management fee of approximately R40 000 per month, reinforcing the court’s concern that the defendant’s income prospects were vulnerable to the plaintiff’s decisions.


The plaintiff did not testify, purportedly for health reasons, but no medical evidence was tendered to support the inability to testify. The court treated this failure as relevant when assessing disputed inferences regarding the plaintiff’s relationship with Mrs De Beer and the events surrounding the separation.


3. Legal Issues


The central legal questions were whether, in the absence of a section 7(1) agreement or order, the court should exercise its discretion under section 7(2) of the Divorce Act 70 of 1979 to order the plaintiff to pay maintenance to the defendant, and if so, what maintenance order would be just, having regard to the statutory factors.


The dispute concerned a mixture of the application of law to fact and an evaluative value judgment inherent in the section 7(2) discretion. While many baseline facts were undisputed (including the plaintiff’s wealth and the marital standard of living), the contested questions included the proper weight to be given to the defendant’s own means and earning capacity, whether she should be required to reconfigure her estate to generate more income, and how to quantify both (i) an initial amount for household necessities to establish a new home and (ii) ongoing monthly maintenance.


4. Court’s Reasoning


The court approached the matter through the framework of section 7(2), emphasising that it confers a wide discretion on the trial court and requires a maintenance order to be just in light of all relevant factors, including those listed in the statute and any additional factors the court considers pertinent. In addition, the court accepted that maintenance is not confined to equal monthly payments; it may include an initial amount to enable a spouse to acquire household necessaries to establish a new home.


In addressing the parties’ competing positions, the court identified their “diametrically opposed” points of departure. The defendant contended she was entitled, as far as possible, to the same standard of living enjoyed during the marriage and should not be required to rearrange her affairs to reduce or eliminate a maintenance claim. The plaintiff contended the defendant could maintain herself at that standard by reconfiguring her estate to generate increased income.


When analysing the statutory factors, the court placed substantial weight on the plaintiff’s means and the undisputed fact that money was effectively “no object” for him, in circumstances where he did not disclose full details of his estate but had admitted ability to pay very substantial maintenance. In contrast, while recognising that the defendant had assets and income, the court treated her future earning prospects as materially constrained by the nature of her business activities and, in particular, by their dependence on the plaintiff’s assets and influence.


A decisive element in the court’s evaluation of the defendant’s earning capacity was the risk that her income from Phambele could be undermined by the plaintiff. The court regarded it as significant that the plaintiff had already voted in a manner that caused Phambele to lose a major contract and that there was no guarantee he would not do the same in relation to remaining income sources. The court was unpersuaded by an “eleventh hour” tender intended to protect the defendant’s business interests, reasoning that if the plaintiff’s case truly depended on the defendant’s ability to sustain herself through those income streams, he should have addressed the risk earlier and in a concrete manner.


The court also considered the duration of the marriage (approximately 19 years), the parties’ ages, and the defendant’s contributions to family life and to the plaintiff’s business environment. It treated the defendant as having given the plaintiff many years of support in running the home, raising children (including effectively mothering the plaintiff’s sons), and contributing to various aspects of the plaintiff’s projects, including retirement-village management and the design and furnishing of the parties’ homes.


Regarding conduct relevant to the breakdown, the court rejected the plaintiff’s untested allegations against the defendant (which she denied in evidence). It accepted that the defendant regarded the marriage as stable and that there were no prior indications of impending divorce. The court drew an inference, on the probabilities, that the plaintiff was involved in a relationship with Mrs De Beer and that this relationship brought the marriage to an end. It reinforced this conclusion by relying on the plaintiff’s failure to testify, and in the absence of medical evidence justifying that failure, it drew the inference that he could not provide a credible innocent explanation for his conduct on 15 November 2008. The court characterised the plaintiff’s conduct in ending the relationship in that manner as “callous and cruel”, and treated this as part of the overall context for what was just under section 7(2).


On the effect of the ante-nuptial contract clause providing limited divorce-related benefits, the court declined to treat it as an important limiting consideration. The court reasoned that there was no explanation for the clause’s inclusion and it was not advanced as a complete defence; it did not consider that the clause was intended to define exhaustively the defendant’s maintenance entitlement.


Having determined that it was just to order maintenance enabling the defendant, as far as possible, to continue at the prior standard of living, the court turned to quantification in two parts.


First, it assessed the claim for a lump sum to purchase household necessaries for establishing a new home. The defendant reduced her claim after a tender that permitted her to remove identified items as her property. The court accepted that the remaining items were necessary and that the prices were reasonable for the quality to which the defendant was entitled, particularly in circumstances where the cross-examination on pricing was not supported by countervailing quotations. The court therefore allowed the reduced amount claimed.


Second, the court addressed monthly maintenance. It treated the defendant’s schedule of income and expenditure as a guideline and then adjusted the claimed expenses by excluding or reducing items it considered not justified for a single person or not properly claimable in the manner advanced. It reduced the accommodation figure to a reasonable monthly rental estimate; removed the cost of a handyman while retaining domestic and gardening assistance; reduced groceries; excluded PPS life insurance (while recognising disability cover was necessary) because life cover was not required as a precondition; excluded motor vehicle costs because those were already accounted for as a Phambele benefit; and reduced “unforeseen expenses”. It also corrected the income side by including income items omitted in the expert’s computation and by allowing for tax. On that basis, the court calculated a monthly shortfall and then, considering the uncertainties around the defendant’s continued income from Phambele and the parties’ standard of living, exercised its discretion to fix monthly maintenance at a round figure higher than the computed shortfall.


Finally, on costs, the court considered that the defendant had achieved substantial success, particularly against a plaintiff who maintained he should not pay maintenance while withholding testimony and full financial disclosure. It concluded that a costs order against the plaintiff, including the costs of senior counsel, was just.


5. Outcome and Relief


The court granted a decree of divorce.


The plaintiff was ordered to pay maintenance to the defendant comprising a once-off payment of R275 601 within 10 days to enable the defendant to purchase household necessaries for her new home, and ongoing maintenance of R35 000 per month payable from 1 May 2011, escalating annually on 1 May in accordance with the consumer price index as published in the Government Gazette (with the first escalation to be calculated on 1 May 2012, as stated in the order).


The plaintiff was ordered to pay the defendant’s costs of suit, including the costs of senior counsel, taking into account any amounts paid under any Rule 43 order.


Cases Cited


Beaumont v Beaumont 1987 (1) SA 967 (A)


Katz v Katz 1989 (3) SA 1 (A)


Swiegelaar v Swiegelaar 2001 (1) SA 1208 (SCA)


Buttner v Buttner 2006 (3) SA 23 (SCA)


Nilsson v Nilsson 1984 (2) SA 294 (C)


Rousalis v Rousalis 1980 (3) SA 446 (C)


Grasso v Grasso 1987 (1) SA 48 (C)


Pommerel v Pommerel 1990 (1) SA 998 (E)


Skilya Property Investments (Pty) Ltd v Lloyds of London 2002 (3) SA 765 (T)


Galante v Dickinson 1950 (2) SA 460 (A)


Legislation Cited


Divorce Act 70 of 1979, section 7(2)


Rules of Court Cited


Uniform Rule 43


Held


The court held that, applying section 7(2) of the Divorce Act 70 of 1979 and exercising the wide discretion it confers, it was just to order the plaintiff to pay maintenance to the defendant notwithstanding her assets and income, given the parties’ long marriage, the very high marital standard of living, the plaintiff’s substantial means, the defendant’s contributions during the marriage, and the precariousness of the defendant’s ongoing income stream due to its dependence on assets and decisions within the plaintiff’s control.


The court further held that the maintenance award could properly include a lump sum to enable the defendant to purchase household necessaries to establish a new home, and it accepted the defendant’s reduced claim for that amount as reasonable on the evidence presented.


In quantifying ongoing maintenance, the court held that certain claimed expenses should be reduced or excluded (including a handyman, inflated groceries for a single person, life insurance not shown to be necessary, and motor vehicle costs already covered as an employment benefit), and after evaluating income and tax implications and considering uncertainties regarding future income, the court fixed monthly maintenance at R35 000, with annual escalation linked to the consumer price index.


LEGAL PRINCIPLES


Section 7(2) of the Divorce Act 70 of 1979 confers a wide discretion on the trial court to make a maintenance order that is just, having regard to the listed factors (means, earning capacities, needs, obligations, age, duration of marriage, standard of living, relevant conduct, and any other relevant factor) and without any prescribed hierarchy or weighting among those factors.


A maintenance award under section 7(2) is not confined to periodic payments; the court may, where just, order an initial lump sum to enable a spouse to acquire household necessaries and establish a new home, in addition to or alongside monthly maintenance.


A spouse’s ability to maintain herself does not, in itself, preclude a maintenance award; the enquiry remains whether an award is just in all the circumstances, which may include maintaining, as far as possible, the standard of living enjoyed during the marriage.


Where a party fails to testify without adequate substantiation (such as medical evidence justifying non-attendance), the court may draw an adverse inference in appropriate circumstances when assessing probabilities on disputed issues of fact, particularly where that party was positioned to provide a credible explanation for material events.

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Van Der Westhuizen v Van Der Westhuizen (55831/08) [2011] ZAGPPHC 30 (28 March 2011)

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IN THE HIGH COURT OF SOUTH
AFRICA
(NORTH
GAUTENG
HIGH COURT, PRETORIA)
REPORTABLE
Date: 2011-03-28
Case Number:
55831/08
In the matter between:
JFH VAN DER
WESTHUIZEN
...............................................................
Plaintiff
and
AJ VAN DER
WESTHUIZEN
.............................................................
Defendant
JUDGMENT
SOUTHWOOD J
[1]
This
is a divorce action in which the plaintiff sues the defendant for
divorce and ancillary relief and the defendant counterclaims
for
divorce and maintenance. The parties are agreed that the marriage
has irretrievably broken down and that a divorce order should
be
granted. The only issues to be decided are whether the plaintiff is
obliged to pay maintenance to the defendant and, if so,
the quantum
of such maintenance.
[2] In her
counterclaim the defendant originally claimed as maintenance –
(1) t
he
sum of R68 794 per month;
(2) an order t
hat
such maintenance escalate annually at the rate of 10 per cent per
annum;
(3) h
er
reasonable medical expenses;
(4) a
resettlement allowance of R3 million alternatively an order directing
the plaintiff to contribute to the cost of the defendant’s

accommodation in the sum of R25 000 per month, escalating at 10 % per
annum, plus an order that the plaintiff pay to the defendant
the sum
of R500 000 to enable the defendant to purchase the necessary
furniture and household appliances for the defendant’s
new
accommodation.
At the
commencement of the hearing the defendant’s counsel informed
the court that the defendant seeks only an order that
the plaintiff
pay maintenance to the defendant in the sum of R44 502,
alternatively, R42 102 per month and the sum of R500 000
to enable
the defendant to purchase the necessary furniture and household
appliances for her new home. The calculation of the
monthly
maintenance appears from the schedule of the defendant’s income
and expenditure in exhibit B87-88 which is the basis
for the
defendant’s claim. During the hearing, after the plaintiff
made a tender to the defendant in which the plaintiff
agreed that the
defendant could remove her property from the common home, the
defendant reduced the second part of her claim to
R275 601. The
calculation of this amount appears from exhibit ‘F’.
[3] The defendant
claims maintenance from the plaintiff in terms of section 7(2) of the
Divorce Act 70 of 1979 (‘the Act’)
which provides:
‘In the absence of an order
made in terms of subsection (1) with regard to the payment of
maintenance by the one party to
the other, the court may, having
regard to the existing or prospective means of each of the parties,
their respective earning capacities,
financial needs and obligations,
the age of each of the parties, the duration of the marriage, the
standard of living of the parties
prior to divorce, their conduct
insofar as it may be relevant to the break-down of the marriage, an
order in terms of subsection
(3) and any other factor which in the
opinion of the court should be taken into account, make an order
which the court finds just
in respect of the payment of maintenance
by the one party to the other for any period until the death or
remarriage of the party
in whose favour the order is given.’
[4] In terms of
section 7(2) of the Act the trial court has a wide discretion to
determine the question of maintenance requirements
– see
Beaumont
v Beaumont
1987
(1) SA 967
(A)
at
987E;
Katz
v Katz
1989
(3) SA 1
(A)
at
11A-C and
Swiegelaar
v Swiegelaar
2001
(1) SA 1208
(SCA)
para
7. The court is not limited to making an order for equal monthly
instalments. The court may also order payment of an initial
amount
to enable a party to purchase household necessaries to establish a
new home – see
Swiegelaar
v Swiegelaar supra
paras
12-15. The court must conclude that in the light of all the relevant
factors (i.e. those specified in the subsection as well
as any other
which, in the opinion of the court, should be taken into account) it
is just for the order/s to be made – see
Buttner
v Buttner
2006
(3) SA 23
(SCA)
para
36.
[5] Before the
commencement of the Act it was said that no maintenance will be
awarded to a wife who is able to maintain herself
and that a wife
cannot expect to enjoy, after divorce, the same standard of living
that she had as a married person – see
Hahlo
Husband
and Wife
5
ed
361
and the cases there cited. However it is clear from the factors
enumerated in section 7(2) and the wide discretion which is
conferred
on the trial court that it is not bound to refuse a wife’s
claim for maintenance simply because she can support
herself –
see
Nilsson
v Nilsson
1984
(2) SA 294
(C)
at
297B-H;
Rousalis
v Rousalis
1980
(3) SA 446
(C)
at
450E-H;
Grasso
v Grasso
1987
(1) SA 48
(C)
at
52C-G and 58H;
Pommerel
v Pommerel
1990
(1) SA 998
(E)
at
1002A-D – and that the court may award her maintenance that
will give her the same standard of living – see
Grasso
v Grasso supra
at
52C-D. It will always depend on the facts and circumstances and what
the court considers to be just in the light of these facts
and
circumstances. In this regard it is significant that the factors to
be taken into account are not listed in any order of importance
and
that there is no indication of the weight to be attached to each of
these factors. Furthermore, as already mentioned, the
court is free
to have regard to any other factor which, in its opinion, ought to be
taken into account in coming to a just decision
– see
Grasso
v Grasso supra
at
52E-G.
[6
] On
12 October 1991 the parties were married to each other out of
community of property in accordance with an ante-nuptial contract

which expressly excluded the accrual system and provided that in the
event of the marriage being terminated by divorce the plaintiff
would
pay to the defendant the sum of R10 000 per month for one year; the
plaintiff would give to the defendant an average sedan
motor vehicle
not older than one year and the plaintiff would provide the defendant
with accommodation for at least two months
after the divorce.
Shortly before trial, the defendant applied to court for an order
that the plaintiff pay a contribution towards
the costs of this
action. At the pre-trial conference on 6 May 2010 the parties
settled this application on the following basis

(1) the defendant withdraws the
application;
(2) each party pays his/her own
costs;
(3) the defendant accepted the
plaintiff’s offer to comply with his obligations in terms of
the ante-nuptial contract by paying
the defendant the sum of R300 000
on or before 25 May 2010; and
(4) the defendant would vacate the
common home on or before 31 July 2010.
It is common cause that the amount to
be paid by the plaintiff to the defendant in terms of the
ante-nuptial contract would have
been R320 000 but that because the
defendant would remain in the common home until the end of July 2010
the sum of R20 000 was
deducted from the R320 000.
[7] It must also be recorded that when
the trial was not finalised in May 2010 the plaintiff permitted the
defendant to continue
living in the common home while he paid for the
upkeep and paid the defendant the sum of R7 000 per month. Although
no accurate
calculation of these expenses was done they probably were
in the vicinity of R25-30 000 per month. The defendant’s
counsel
correctly described the plaintiff’s actions in
permitting the defendant to remain in the common home while he paid
for the
upkeep and paid the defendant R7 000 per month as extremely
generous.
[8] This is the
plaintiff’s third marriage and the defendant’s second.
When the parties married the plaintiff’s
two sons, P and J,
then 14 years and 12 years old respectively and the defendant’s
two sons, B and A, then 10 and 6 years
old respectively were already
living with them. After the marriage the plaintiff and the defendant
and the four boys lived together
in the plaintiff’s various
houses in Waterkloof, Pretoria. The plaintiff’s previous wife
passed away in about May
1991 and the defendant’s husband had
passed away before the plaintiff and the defendant met. For all
practical purposes
the defendant became the mother of and J.
[9
] The
defendant testified and tendered the evidence of Mr. Christiaan
Hendrik O’Neil a chartered accountant and Mr. Trevor
Clyde
Cockayne, a financial planner and investment manager. The defendant
did not testify but presented the evidence of Mr. Jacobus
Petrus van
Niekerk, an auditor and chartered accountant, and a number of the
Protea Group employees: Mrs. Martha Roets, Mrs. Gretha
Munnik and
Mrs. Estelle de Kock (formerly Lodewyk). The defendant testified
again on the question of the cost of establishing
a new home.
[10] Neither party
argued that the witnesses of the other party should not be believed.
The criticism of their evidence was directed
at the
reliability
and the weight to be given to their evidence. The defendant was the
only witness to testify about the marriage relationship
and its
breakdown and while she sometimes argued instead of answering the
question directly she generally gave a balanced and objective

description of the relationship. She is obviously a strong willed
person and has her own mind. Where she drew inferences about
the
plaintiff’s conduct, such as his role in the termination of
Phambele’s contract with Centurion Retirement Village
and his
relationship with Mrs. De Beer, which seemed to be based on
insufficient information they were shown to be correct in the
light
of other evidence. Mr. Van Niekerk confirmed the plaintiff’s
role in the voting at Centurion Retirement Village and
the
circumstantial evidence of the other witnesses supports the inference
that the plaintiff and Mrs. De Beer were already involved
in a
relationship before the plaintiff left the common home on 15 November
2008. Plaintiff’s counsel correctly criticised
the defendant
for the unscientific way in which she investigated the cost of items
and expenses for the purposes of her maintenance
claim. The
defendant obviously could have done a lot more to establish these
costs and expenses. But her evidence must be considered
in the light
of what was put to her in cross-examination. It is clear that the
plaintiff’s counsel had very little, if any,
information to
suggest that the defendant’s figures were inflated and did not
accord with her and the plaintiff’s standard
of living. Mr.
O’Neil obviously has the necessary accounting knowledge but he
adopted a narrow approach and did not investigate
all the underlying
facts on which he expressed opinions. Mr. Cockayne is and sounded
like a financial planner. He is obviously
very knowledgeable and
experienced in the field. He was clearly wrong about the PPS
requirement that a member must take out life
insurance in order to be
able to take out disability insurance. The defendant’s counsel
did not contend otherwise. Mr.
Van Niekerk is obviously a very
competent and experienced professional and it would be difficult to
fault his reasoning in respect
of the various matters about which he
testified. He is however clearly on the side of the plaintiff and it
is significant that
while he was the defendant’s auditor he did
not advise her to rearrange her estate as he testified she should now
do. Mrs.
Roets, Mrs. Munnnik and Mrs. De Kock were all satisfactory
witnesses and there is no reason not to accept their evidence. From

their evidence it appears that the plaintiff and the defendant
sometimes became involved in heated arguments when in their company

and that the intensity of the exchanges made them uncomfortable.
This always seems to have occurred in a business context and
is
consistent with the defendant’s evidence that the plaintiff and
the defendant sometimes had violent disagreements about
business
matters. Mrs. Munnik’s alleged ignorance about the
relationship between Mrs. De Beer and the plaintiff is not decisive

of the question and must be considered in the light of all the
evidence.
[11
] The
following issues must be decided:
(1) whether the plaintiff should be
ordered to pay maintenance to the defendant; and if so
(2) what amount is
to be paid to enable the defendant to purchase household necessaries
in order to establish a new home –
see
Swiegelaar
v Swiegelaar
2001
(1) SA 1208
(SCA)
paras
15-16;
(3) what amount is to be paid to the
defendant in equal monthly payments to enable her to support herself.
The same factors
must be taken into account in determining both the defendant’s
entitlement to maintenance and the quantum
thereof.
The
parties have diametrically opposed points of departure. The
defendant contends that she is entitled to enjoy the same standard
of
living which she enjoyed while married to the plaintiff and that she
is not obliged to rearrange her estate in order to maintain
herself
at that level. The defendant clearly emphasises the plaintiff’s
means and earning capacity as well as the plaintiff’s
conduct
in the breakdown of the marriage. The plaintiff contends that the
defendant is able to support herself and can support
herself at the
standard which she enjoyed while married if she reconfigures her
estate so that she receives more income. The plaintiff
emphasises
the defendant’s means and earning capacity: i.e. her ability
to maintain herself. The resolution of these issues
will require a
determination to be made of the standard of living to which the
defendant is entitled.
[12
] The
following facts are common cause or are not disputed:
(1) The plaintiff
was born on 11 July 1944 and when the trial commenced in May 2010 was
64 years old. He is a builder and property
developer and has
developed a number of residential complexes or villages including
three retirement villages, Protea Heuwelsig,
Protea Centurion and Die
Wilgers. The plaintiff still owns a large number of the units in
these villages, 91 in Centurion, 114
in Heuwelsig and a few in Die
Wilgers.
(2) The plaintiff
was married twice before he married the defendant. He has three
grown-up children from the first marriage and
two grown-up children
from the second marriage, P and J.
(3) The plaintiff
has become extremely wealthy as a result of his business activities.
It is not in dispute that he would be able
to pay maintenance to the
defendant in the amount of R68 794 per month and the resettlement
allowance of R3 000 000 (which the
defendant originally claimed).
The plaintiff conducts business through a number of companies which
form part of the Protea Group.
The plaintiff also created
discretionary trusts of which he is both a beneficiary and a trustee.
These trusts probably hold most
of the assets which the plaintiff
has built up. Whatever the position (the plaintiff did not disclose
what his assets and income
are) it is clear that he receives income
directly or indirectly from the units in the retirement villages and
that he owns these
units or controls them directly or indirectly
through trusts or other legal entities.
(4) The defendant
was born on 14 February 1954 and was 56 years old when the trial
commenced in May 2010. The defendant obtained
a BSc in town planning
from the University of the Witwatersrand in 1976. At various times
thereafter she practised as a town planner,
first for her own account
and then as a director of Els & Van Straaten of Randburg and then
again for her own account. She
married Colin Watt and two children
were born of the marriage, B, on 27 March , and A, born on 3 August .
The defendant’s
husband died of cancer in December 1988 when B
and A were 7 years old and 4 years old respectively. At that stage
the defendant
was a director of Els & Van Straaten.
(5) The plaintiff
and the defendant met in about June 1990 when the defendant, as town
planner, assisted the plaintiff with a property
development called
Waterkloofvallei. They became friendly and entered into a
relationship and after approximately 6 months the
defendant moved to
Pretoria to live with the plaintiff in a house in Club Avenue,
Waterkloof. The defendant’s sons moved
with her and lived in
the house with the plaintiff and the defendant. After the
plaintiff’s second wife passed away in May
1991 the plaintiff’s
two sons, P and J, moved in with the plaintiff and the defendant and
B and A. When the plaintiff and
the defendant married on 12 October
1991 they and the four children were living together in the Club
Avenue house.
(6) For a while
after the marriage the defendant continued to practise as a town
planner as a director of Els & Van Straaten.
To do this she
commuted daily from her home in Waterkloof to the Els & Van
Straaten offices in Randburg. The defendant then
resigned from Els &
Van Straaten and started her own practice in Pretoria. She practised
from an office in the office building
occupied by the plaintiff’s
companies.
(7) Before the
marriage the plaintiff had bought a property at 369 Lawley Street,
Waterkloof. The plaintiff demolished the existing
house on the
property and built a new one. The plaintiff built the house using
subcontractors. The defendant was involved in
designing and planning
the house with the architect, Liselle Larson. When the house was
completed the defendant was involved in
laying out the garden,
choosing tiles and assisting with the interior decorating. She was
involved in every aspect of the new
house. This house was a very
large and imposing residence and extremely luxurious. It also had a
beautiful garden and was featured
in the magazine ‘Garden and
Home’ (B1-2). The plaintiff and the defendant and the four
children lived in the house
at 369 Lawley Street for about 9 years
until it was sold to the Danish Government to be used by the Danish
Ambassador. The purchase
price was R4,5 million.
(8) After the
defendant moved from Randburg to Pretoria she leased the house which
she owned at Randburg. She kept the house in
case the marriage was
not successful. The defendant sold the house in about May 1993 and
used the proceeds of the sale to purchase
three townhouses (one in
partnership with her son) at Die Wilgers, Pretoria: units 2, 14 and
15. The defendant leased these townhouses
and at the time of the
trial was still the owner (co-owner of unit 2) and was still leasing
the townhouses. The position with
regard to these townhouses is as
follows:
Unit 2 Value
R400 000 ½ share
Unit 14 Value R850
000 Bond R87
007
Unit 15 Value R750
000 Bond R103
818
The
total income which the defendant receives from the three units is R11
800 and the total bond repayments and rates and levies
amounts to R10
855. This gives the defendant a net income from the three units of
R945 per month. The purchase price of unit
2 was R199 000 and of the
other two units was R180 000 each. Each unit was bonded for R150
000.
(9) When the
plaintiff sold the property at 369 Lawley Street, Waterkloof, the
family moved into a house in Eridanus Street, Waterkloof
Ridge, which
the plaintiff leased. They lived there for approximately 9 months
before moving to another property at Bootes Street,
Waterkloof (B3-4)
while the plaintiff was building a new house at 230 Milner Street,
Waterkloof. The plaintiff bought the Bootes
Street property to
develop for the parties’ retirement. They lived at Bootes
Street for approximately two years until the
new house at 230 Milner
Street was completed (B5-24). They moved into that house at the end
of 2004.
(10) Once again,
the plaintiff employed an architect, Liselle Larson, to design the
new house in Milner Street. As before, the
defendant was involved in
the planning and design of the house, choosing the tiles and
assisting with the interior decorating.
She was also involved in
laying out and developing the garden. The intention was to develop
the property and sell it. It was
much too big for the plaintiff and
the defendant once the four boys had left home. The house is very
big and luxurious and caters
for the occupants’ every need.
The plaintiff and the defendant lived there until the plaintiff left
on 15 November 2008.
The defendant continued to live in the house
from then. The plaintiff paid all the costs of maintaining the
house.
(11) During the
course of the marriage the defendant assisted the plaintiff in his
business ventures and in addition ran the home
and mothered all the
children. The plaintiff’s sons attended Afrikaans Hoër
Seunskool and the defendant’s sons
attended Pretoria Boys High
School. The plaintiff’s sons had difficulties at school and
did not fare well academically.
The defendant’s sons did well
academically. The defendant ferried the children to and from school
and made sure that they
attended extra classes when this was
necessary. She also made a point of involving the extended family in
family gatherings and
celebrations. She involved the plaintiff’s
three grown-up children from his first marriage in such gatherings
and a great
deal of the social activity of the plaintiff and the
defendant was family orientated.
(12) The
defendant’s own family were also involved in the plaintiff and
defendant’s family life. When the plaintiff
was developing the
garden in Bootes and Milner Streets he was assisted by the
defendant’s mother and father. When the plaintiff
bought a
farm in the Ermelo district he was again assisted by the defendant’s
mother and father. When P left school without
writing matric and was
experiencing personal problems the defendant arranged that he go and
spend time with her sister in the United
States. This proved to be
beneficial for P and he matriculated and then obtained a BA degree at
Hunter College.
(13) Throughout the
marriage the plaintiff continued to develop properties by building
townhouse and/or retirement villages and
he was involved in the
development of the three retirement villages, Protea Centurion,
Protea Heuwelsig and Die Wilgers. The defendant
assisted the
plaintiff in these activities and in 1995 became involved in selling
the Centurion and Heuwelsig units for the plaintiff’s
company
Superior Concepts Marketing (Pty) Ltd (‘Superior Concepts’).
After Superior Concepts terminated the mandate
of its estate agent
the defendant suggested that Superior Concepts appoint one, Fanie
Swanepoel, who worked for her close corporation,
Anet Watt Town
Planners CC (‘Anet Watt’) to market the units. Superior
Concepts did this. For every unit sold Superior
Concepts charged a
commission of 7,5 per cent of the selling price and where Swanepoel
was involved paid Anet Watt a portion of
this commission equal to 3,5
per cent of the selling price. During the period 1995 to 2007 Anet
Watt received the following total
commissions (A285):
Year’s
ending
Total
commissions
February 1996 R171 709
February 1997 R275 045
February 1998 R165 950
February 1999 R208 497
February 2000 R253 458
February 2001 R236 169
February 2002 R457 997
February 2003 R321 852
February 2004 R349 337
February 2005 R432 095
February 2006 R606 476
(14) In 2002 the
defendant and Heléne van Drimmelen commenced business in the
close corporation, Phambele Property and Management
Services CC.
Phambele provided services related to property: town planning,
selling property and managing retirement villages.
Before Phambele
was incorporated the defendant was appointed the chairman of one
village and managed it from 1998 until 2002 free
of charge. After
the defendant went into business with Heléne van Drimmelen
Phambele obtained contracts to manage both
Centurion and Heuwelsig
retirement villages. Centurion consists of 202 units with
approximately 300 people and Heuwelsig consists
of 219 units also
with about 300 people. By the second half of the 2010 tax year
Phambele’s management fee each month ranged
between R37 000 and
R41 000 for each village.
(15) At first
Phambele managed the two villages from an office at Centurion
retirement village and then, in 2005, moved to an office
which it
purchased in an office complex called Chrystal Park. Phambele bought
units 3 and 4 Chrystal Park for between R500 000
and R600 000 each.
At Centurion Phambele had not had to pay rental for its offices and
only paid for water and lights. At Chrystal
Park Phambele paid all
its own expenses. Phambele also appointed more staff to attend to
the work. In 2006 Phambele bought unit
16 Chrystal Park. The
defendant used the proceeds from the sale of a flat which she had
purchased for her sons in Hatfield, Pretoria,
to purchase the units
in Chrystal Park.
(16) Phambele
earned management fees for managing Centurion and Heuwelsig
retirement villages and a few other villages and earned
commission
from the sale of units which it effected in Centurion and Heuwelsig.
Superior Concept received the full commission
of 7,5 per cent of the
sale price and then paid Phambele 3,5 per cent of the commission
(i.e. 3,5 per cent of the sale price).
(17) For about 15
years of the marriage the plaintiff and the defendant lived in two
very large luxurious houses in the affluent
suburb of Waterkloof,
Pretoria. These houses have just about every conceivable facility
and it seems that no expense was spared
in the design and finishes of
the houses and the interior decorating. The plaintiff is a builder
and was obviously able to ensure
that the houses are of a very high
quality. He employed an architect to design both houses. The
parties did not enter into an
agreement relating to the cost of
furnishing the houses and as the trial progressed it became clear
that each of them purchased
items of furniture which they were able
to identify as their own property. This is reflected in annexure C
to the tender made
on 1 March 2011 (exhibit E). A large number of
items are there identified as the defendants’ property. The
plaintiff sold
the first house at 369 Lawley Street, Waterkloof to
the Danish Government to be used as the Ambassador’s residence.
The
purchase price was R4,5 million. The plaintiff developed the
second house at 230 Milner Street, Waterkloof with the object of
selling it as soon as possible. It has been in the market for about
6 years at a price of R12 million.
(18) The plaintiff
and defendant obviously entertained and the Milner Street house is
designed and equipped for that purpose. The
defendant is a keen cook
and the plaintiff has a wine cellar which was always fully stocked
until their marriage foundered. They
were also accustomed to dining
out at least two to three times a week, usually at Italian
restaurants or steakhouses.
(19) The couple
also travelled overseas once a year and when they did flew business
class. They also had a month holiday at the
sea every Christmas.
The plaintiff owns a luxurious seaside home at Port Alfred where the
members of the family would get together.
(20) The plaintiff
and the defendant had arguments from time to time and hard words were
exchanged. However this did not last and
the parties continued with
their marital relationship without any overt indication or warning
that the marriage relationship was
in serious danger of breaking
down. Over a lengthy period the plaintiff sent the defendant
birthday and mother’s day cards
in which he expressed his love
for her and thanked her for everything she had done for the family.
The defendant knew that the
plaintiff and B did not get on well but
not even this caused great concern. As far as the defendant was
concerned her marriage
was good and the relationship was sound. Most
of their arguments seemed to be business related and when they
disagreed they did
so forcefully if not violently. The plaintiff did
not abuse alcohol and he was generous towards the defendant. For a
while he
paid the defendant’s credit card accounts and then he
paid her an allowance of R7 000 per month. Quite often he gave her

expensive presents.
(21) On 15 November
2008 the plaintiff and the defendant and about sixteen Protea Group
employees including Mrs. Lodewyk (now Mrs.
De Kock), the financial
manager, and Mrs. Elfrieda de Beer, went on a Christmas outing by
train from Pretoria to Cullinan. This
was intended to be a Christmas
celebration and the purpose of the outing was to have lunch in
Cullinan. They arrived in Cullinan
and had lunch. During the meal
the members of the party drank wine and other alcoholic beverages.
After lunch some members of
the party purchased bottles of whiskey
and other spirits to drink on the journey back to Pretoria. The
journey passed uneventfully
and the train arrived back in Pretoria in
the late afternoon or early evening. No-one got drunk or was
disorderly.
(22) When the train
arrived at the Pretoria station Mrs. Lodewyk invited the members of
the party to go to her house for drinks.
About 10 of the 18 accepted
the invitation and went to Mrs. Lodewyk’s home in Charles
Street, Brooklyn. These included
the plaintiff, the defendant, Mrs.
Martha Roets, Mrs. Gretchen Munnik and Mrs. Elfrieda de Beer. Some
of the party took their
bottles of alcohol to Mrs. Lodewyk’s
house. Mrs. Roets and Mrs. De Beer had arranged with Mrs. Lodewyk to
stay over at her
house after the party. As the evening progressed
the people present consumed alcohol including a bottle of
Jaggermeister. Eventually,
at about 10 pm, the plaintiff and the
defendant left the party. They went home to their house at 230
Milner Street, Waterkloof
where a heated argument took place. This
started when the defendant asked the plaintiff why Mrs. De Beer’s
husband had not
accompanied the party to Cullinan and commented on
her drawn appearance. The argument ended when the plaintiff said he
was leaving
and went and packed a bag. He then left the house.
During this argument the plaintiff told the defendant that he did not
feel
well.
(23) The plaintiff
drove directly to Mrs. Lodewyk’s house where the party was
still in full swing. There the plaintiff also
complained about not
feeling well. The plaintiff spent about an hour in the company of
Mrs. De Beer and they then left the party
together and drove to a
guesthouse in Albert Street, Waterkloof, where they booked in and
spent the night together. At that time
Mrs. De Beer was in the
process of getting divorced and was living with her sister. In about
April 2008 while the defendant was
travelling overseas with the
plaintiff’s sister, visiting her own sister in England, Mrs. De
Beer and Mrs. Lodewyk underwent
breast augmentation operations which
the plaintiff paid for. The plaintiff did not tell the defendant
that he had done this.
(24) On 27 November 2008 the plaintiff
instituted action against the defendant seeking a divorce and
ancillary relief. On 27 February
2009 the defendant filed her plea
and a counterclaim in which she sought a decree of divorce and
payment of maintenance in the
sum of R68 794 per month and a
resettlement allowance of R3 million.
(25) For about 3 months after their
separation the defendant attempted to persuade the plaintiff to
return to her and continue with
the marriage. All her attempts
proved unsuccessful and she eventually accepted that their marriage
had broken down.
(26) In August 2009
at the Annual General Meeting of Centurion retirement village the
members voted to end Phambele’s management
contract on the
grounds that it was too expensive. The plaintiff who holds 91 of the
total votes (a majority) also voted in favour
of the motion. If he
had been so minded he would have been able to prevent the motion from
being passed. As a result of the decision
taken Phambele lost the
Centurion management fee of about R40 000 per month. At the
Heuwelsig Annual General Meetings in 2009
and 2010 the same thing did
not happen. Nevertheless there is no certainty about what will
happen in the future. Because of the
loss of the Centurion contract
Phambele has reduced its expenses and now conducts business from only
one of the Chrystal Park units.
It leases the other two.
(27) This trial
commenced on 25 May 2010 and ran until 28 May 2010 when it was
postponed
sine
die
.
The trial resumed on 28 February 2011 and evidence was led until 1
March 2011 when the matter was adjourned until 3 March 2011
for
argument. The plaintiff did not testify. On closing his case the
plaintiff’s counsel informed the court that the plaintiff
would
not be testifying for health reasons. No medical evidence or even a
certificate was tendered to explain why the plaintiff
could not
testify. During his cross-examination of the defendant the
plaintiff’s counsel repeatedly put to the defendant
what the
plaintiff would say in evidence.
[13] Against that background the
various matters referred to in section 7(2) of the Act will be
considered.
Means
of the parties
[14] The plaintiff
is a very wealthy man. Although he has not placed the court fully in
the picture about his income and assets
and liabilities (this case
has been conducted on the basis that the plaintiff will be able to
pay whatever amount the court considers
just) it is clear that the
plaintiff owns and/or controls very valuable assets. He owns and/or
controls more than half of the
unsold units in the Centurion and
Heuwelsig retirement villages (more than 200 units) as well as a few
units in Die Wilgers. He
receives, directly or indirectly, the
rental from the lease of these units. He owns/controls 230 Milner
Street which is on the
market for R12 million and he owns/controls a
big and luxurious seaside house at Port Alfred. He recently
purchased a very expensive
Mercedes Benz SUV (B25) and a Cobra sports
car (B26). The plaintiff spared no expense in designing, building
and furnishing the
house at 230 Milner Street. Although he built the
house to sell the plaintiff has not reduced the selling price from
R12 million
to facilitate a quick sale. The assets owned/controlled
by the plaintiff are probably worth between R150 and R250 million and
the rental income is probably about R1 000 000 per month (see the
defendant’s units in Die Wilgers and the gross income she

receives). It is significant that when pleading to the defendant’s
claim for maintenance in the sum of R68 794 per month
and a
resettlement allowance of R3 000 000 the plaintiff admitted that he
was able to pay such maintenance and alleged that the
precise extent
of his estate and his financial means are irrelevant in the light of
his admission.
[15] The defendant’s financial
position at the commencement of the trial can be summarised as
follows:
(1)
Assets
and liabilities (all values and figures have been agreed)
(i)
Fixed
Property (Die Wilgers)
Unit 2
(
1
/
2
share) R400 000 Bond Son pays
Unit 14 R850 000 Bond R 87 007
Unit 15 R750
000 Bond R103
818
Net value R1 809 175.
(ii)
Investments
(liquid assets)
Bank balance
R
17 865
Nedbank Call
Account R 7 935
Listed
shares R 986 860
Total
R1
032 798
(iii)
Interests
in close corporations (Phambele and Bryand
Investments)
and loan accounts
R2 378 769
(iv)
Motor
vehicle
Net value R124 461
(v)
Furniture
and personal effects
Value R35 000
(vi)
PPS
Investment Account
Value R203
841. (Only available
when
the defendant ceases to be a member)
The total value of the defendant’s
assets is therefore R5 503 844.
(The capital value
of the defendant’s life annuity, R661 379, is not included in
the defendant’s assets as it does
not constitute an asset in
her hands).
(2)
Income
The
defendant received the following income:
(i) Pension (first husband) R7 500
(ii) Annuity R1 250
(iii) Salary and benefits from
Phambele R29 233
(iv) Net income from lease of units
at
Die Wilgers R945
(v) Dividends and interest R3 000
The defendant
therefore has substantial assets and a good
income.
A
high proportion of the defendant’s assets are growth assets
which should increase in value over time. Although this is
probable
the precise extent of the growth cannot be calculated with any
certainty.
Earning
capacity
[16]
The
plaintiff is obviously heavily invested in fixed property which will
continue to produce rental income for the plaintiff and/or
his
companies and/or his trusts. The overwhelming probability is that
the value of the property and the plaintiff’s earnings
will
increase substantially over time. The precise extent of this
increase cannot be determined with any certainty.
[17] The defendant
receives a salary and benefits (her motor vehicle and cellphone
expenses are fully paid) from Phambele. It must
be accepted that if
the defendant reconfigures her estate she could increase her gross
income substantially. This would involve
increasing her salary and
benefits from Phambele and liquidating assets and investing the
proceeds to earn interest. Most of the
debate between the expert
witnesses related to this issue.
[18] The defendant
has managed retirement villages for more than 12 years and has
acquired a great deal of knowledge about the management
of retirement
villages. This is a niche market and there is a need for competent
managers. She obtained a diploma in Property
Management from the
University of Cape Town in 2007. The evidence indicates that she is
a competent business woman. Nevertheless
I do not consider that her
prospects of earning a large income in the future are as good as the
plaintiff contends. I agree with
the defendant that there is little
likelihood of her practising again as a town planner. Her best
prospects lie in the field of
managing retirement villages. The
defendant has built up a business selling units in and managing
retirement villages which are
owned or controlled by the plaintiff.
The defendant’s dependence on income from these sources is
precarious and depends
on the plaintiff’s goodwill. The facts
do not justify a finding that the defendant will continue to earn
what she has been
earning with Phambele. The plaintiff has already
voted against Phambele retaining the contract to manage Centurion
Retirement
Village. There is no guarantee that he will not do the
same with the Heuwelsig Retirement Village after the divorce is
finalised.
There is also no guarantee that Phambele will continue to
earn commission for the sale of units in the retirement villages. It

lies within the plaintiff’s power to terminate both sources of
income. The plaintiff’s tender to give Phambele a written

mandate to sell/resell units in the Protea retirement villages and to
allow other right of occupation members to cast his votes
at any
meeting where Phambele’s management contract is involved was
made at the eleventh hour and for that reason is not
convincing. The
plaintiff obviously appreciates that his conduct is a matter for
concern. If he had been genuinely concerned
about ensuring that the
defendant would continue to earn as she was this should have been
dealt with earlier. Since his case is
that the defendant can
maintain herself with her income from Phambele he should have made
sure that this was possible. If the
plaintiff terminates these
sources of income the defendant will be obliged to start from scratch
in a depressed property market
where she does not enjoy any
protection.
Financial
needs and obligations
[19] Nothing is
known about the plaintiff’s financial needs and obligations.
In view of his success as a businessman
and
the way he has structured his estate he probably lacks for nothing
and has few financial obligations.
[20] The defendant
must only support herself. The defendant’s case is that she
will require at least R79 780 per month to
maintain the same standard
of living. This was the subject of much debate in the evidence and
in argument.
Age
of parties
[21] The plaintiff was 64 when the
trial commenced and the defendant 56.
Duration
of the marriage
[22] The parties were married on 19
October 1991 and have been married for 19 years.
Standard
of living
[23] The parties enjoyed a very high
standard of living. They lived in a very large and very luxurious
house in an affluent suburb
of Pretoria. They had four servants
including a factotum who was paid R7 500 per month. They owned and
drove expensive high quality
motor vehicles. They took regular
overseas holidays, usually flying business class, and a seaside
holiday every Christmas which
they spent in a very big and luxurious
seaside house. They dined well at home and dined out regularly
although they did not frequent
expensive restaurants. They were
members of a very good medical aid scheme. Materially they lacked
for nothing.
Conduct
relevant to the breakdown of the marriage
[24] The plaintiff
made a number of allegations against the defendant relating to her
conduct in relation to the breakdown of the
marriage. Apart from
agreeing that they sometimes had arguments when hard words were
exchanged the defendant denied all these
allegations when they were
put to her in evidence. While it is usual for both parties to be at
fault when a m
arriage
breaks down and it is clear that the defendant is strong-willed and
independent minded I accept her evidence that she thought
she was in
a good and stable marriage. There is no evidence that the plaintiff
threatened to divorce her if she did not mend her
ways. There is no
evidence that the parties ever considered counselling to deal with
their problems. There is no evidence that
they became estranged
prior to 15 November 2008. They were still sleeping in the same
bedroom and sharing the same bed. On 15
November 2008 the defendant
accompanied the plaintiff and his employees on a Christmas outing to
Cullinan and she and the plaintiff
enjoyed themselves. Every year
the plaintiff gave the defendant birthday and Mother’s day
cards in which he expressed his
love for and appreciation of her.
[25] On the other
hand the plaintiff paid R28 000 for Mrs. Elfrieda de Beer to have a
breast augmentation procedure performed and
despite his denials that
he was involved in a relationship with her prior to 15 November 2008
the most plausible probable inference
is that he was involved with
her – see
Skilya
Property Investments (Pty) Ltd v Lloyds of London
2002
(3) SA 765
(T)
at
780G-781D and the cases there cited. The relevant facts are these.
Apart from paying for the breast augmentation procedure
for Mrs. De
Beer the plaintiff insisted that this be kept from the defendant. On
15 November 2008 after the Cullinan outing the
plaintiff and the
defendant went to Mrs. Lodewyk’s house for drinks. Mrs. De
Beer was there without her husband and had
arranged to stay over
after the party. At that stage Mrs. De Beer and her husband were
separated and in the process of getting
divorced. The plaintiff and
the defendant left the party and went home where an argument started
because the defendant asked where
Mrs. De Beer’s husband was
(she obviously did not know that Mrs. De Beer was getting divorced)
and commented on Mrs. De Beer’s
drawn appearance. The
plaintiff got into a rage, packed a bag and left. He went straight
back to Mrs. Lodewyk’s house where
he joined Mrs. De Beer.
Within an hour of his arrival the plaintiff and Mrs. De Beer left the
party, went to a guesthouse in Waterkloof
and spent the night
together. The plaintiff never returned to the common home and from
15 November 2008, or shortly afterwards,
lived with Mrs. De Beer.
The defendant attempted for about three months to persuade the
plaintiff to return to the common home
and continue with the marriage
but he refused to do so.
[26] Whether or not
the plaintiff’s relationship with Mrs. De Beer existed before
15 November 2008 it clearly brought an end
to the marriage
relationship. The defendant was prepared to forgive the plaintiff
and to continue with the marriage despite his
adultery and despite
the fact that he was in a relationship with another woman.
[27] These
inferences and the conclusion are reinforced by the plaintiff’s
failure to testify. There was some argument about
what the court
should make of the plaintiff’s failure to testify. It was
noteworthy that during the defendant’s evidence
it was put to
her what the plaintiff would say. The plaintiff’s counsel
contended that it was not necessary for the plaintiff
to testify as
the defendant had already conceded the matters on which she would
testify and the facts pertaining to the parties’
separation on
15 November 2008 were already on record. The defendant’s
counsel contended that the plaintiff’s failure
to testify
justifies a finding that he cannot dispute the defendant’s
evidence and that he knows that he cannot explain what
he did on 15
November 2008 other than by agreeing that he was already having an
affair with Mrs. De Beer. In the absence of medical
evidence that he
cannot or should not testify (this was suggested when counsel
informed the court that he would not testify) the
inevitable
inference is the one that the defendant contends for. There can be
no doubt that the plaintiff would not be able to
put forward a
credible innocent explanation for what he did – see
Galante
v Dickinson
1950
(2) SA 460
(A)
at
464-465.
[28] In my view
against the background of the marriage relationship and its duration
the plaintiff’s conduct in ending the
marital relationship in
this way was callous and cruel.
Other
relevant factors
[29]
In
my opinion the court should take into account the following
additional factors:
(1) As far as the plaintiff is
concerned money is no object. It will be remembered that the
plaintiff is possessed of or controls
assets of great value and is in
receipt, directly or indirectly, of a very large income. The
plaintiff has not disclosed what
his income and assets and
liabilities are but admits that he is able to pay maintenance of R68
000 per month and a resettlement
allowance of R3 million.
(2) The plaintiff’s financial
position will probably improve substantially over the next few years.
(3) The business
which Phambele has built up is dependent upon the plaintiff’s
goodwill and he has the power to terminate
the flow of commissions
and management fees which Phambele receives from the Protea
retirement villages. If the plaintiff does
this Phambele would have
an uncertain future and the defendant’s income from Phambele
would become extremely precarious.
Any assessment of the defendant’s
ability to earn an equivalent income from similar activities
elsewhere would be pure speculation.
(4) While
contending that the defendant will be able to support herself
properly
inter
alia
from
her own income the plaintiff has failed to guarantee or ensure that
the plaintiff continues to receive such income by entering
into
appropriate agreements with either Phambele or the defendant.
(5) The defendant has given the
plaintiff 18 of the best years of her life. She brought up the
plaintiff’s children with
her own and there is no suggestion
that she was anything but a good mother to them. She actively
involved the plaintiff’s
extended family in family gatherings
and activities. She managed the plaintiff’s home and she
assisted the plaintiff in
his business activities. She managed one
of the plaintiff’s retirement villages for a number of years at
no charge. She
was involved in the design and planning of the
plaintiff’s homes, the selection of tiles and finishes and the
interior decorating.
She also assisted in the design and development
of the gardens.
(6) The defendant
built up a profitable business and, but for this divorce, the
defendant would have looked forward to some years
of conducting this
business while she enjoyed a stable and loving relationship and every
material comfort. She would have continued
to enjoy a very high
standard of living while she continued to develop her business and
build up a large estate.
[30] The
plaintiff’s counsel contended that the clause in the
ante-nuptial contract which provided for certain benefits for
the
defendant in the event of divorce is an important consideration. I
do not agree. There is no explanation for the inclusion
in the
ante-nuptial contract of this provision. It was clearly not intended
to be the only maintenance which the defendant would
be entitled to.
The plaintiff did not understand the clause in this way and it was
not raised as a complete defence to the defendant’s
claim for
maintenance.
[31] Taking all
these factors into account I consider that it is just that the
plaintiff be ordered to pay maintenance to the defendant
to enable
her to enjoy, as far as possible, the same standard of living which
she enjoyed while married to the plaintiff. I do
not consider it
necessary for the defendant to reconfigure her estate so that she can
earn more income so that the defendant need
not maintain her. The
defendant has received advice from a competent financial advisor and
she is entitled to follow that advice
and invest her assets to the
best possible advantage. The maintenance to be paid to the defendant
must include an amount to enable
her to purchase the household
necessaries for her new home. The last mentioned part of the claim
will be considered first.
[32] The defendant
claims payment of the sum of R275 601 to enable her to purchase the
necessary items to establish a new home.
The defendant initially
claimed the sum of R500 000 for that purpose but in the light of the
tender made by the plaintiff on 1
March 2011 (exhibit ‘E’)
she reduced the amount claimed to R275 601. Annexure ‘C’
to the tender is a letter
from the plaintiff’s attorney
informing the defendant that the plaintiff will not object to her
removing from 230 Milner
Street the items listed under 1-41 which the
plaintiff acknowledges is her property. The letter also refers to
items 42-44 which
the plaintiff consents to the defendant removing.
Finally the letter lists other items, 45-52, which the plaintiff
acknowledges
the defendant will require to furnish her new home which
he contends will cost R80 000. The plaintiff does not acknowledge
that
he is liable to pay the sum of R80 000 and contends that the
defendant can pay for this out of the R300 000 which she received
pursuant to the settlement of her Rule 43 application on 6 May 2010.
[33] In accordance
with the ruling made when she testified the defendant was recalled as
a witness to testify about the cost of
the additional items she would
require to furnish her new home. For this purpose she prepared a
list (exhibit ‘F’).
[34] The defendant accepted that she
can remove her own property listed at 1-41 of annexure ‘C’
to exhibit ‘E’.
She pointed out that items 43 and 44 do
not properly identify what she could take and this would require the
cooperation of the
plaintiff which has not been forthcoming. She
testified in respect of item 43 that she would require an 8 seat
dining room table
and 8 chairs; in respect of item 46 that she would
need 3 not 2 bedroom suites; in respect of item 47 that she would
require
shelving as well as a desk; in respect of item 48 that she
would require a fairly big TV set (as priced in exhibit ‘F’);

and in respect of items 49-52 that she did not have any of these
items. She testified about the cost of the items listed in exhibit

‘F’ which are necessary to furnish her new house. These
are standard prices for the items which are available at the
types of
retailers which the defendant usually frequents. She confirmed that
the R300 000 received after the settlement of her
Rule 43 application
had been utilised to pay legal costs.
[35] In
cross-examination the need for most of the items listed in exhibit
‘F’ was not questioned, only the prices.
The defendant
testified that while she did not do any market research she checks
prices in the newspaper. These were the prices
at reasonably priced
retailers. She did not employ anyone to go and get the cheapest
quotes for the items. She was not confronted
with any quotations and
the cross-examination was on a vague and superficial basis. It was
conceded by plaintiff’s counsel
that the defendant would
require three new bedroom suites which would cost R8 000 each, a deep
freeze for R1 900, a tumble drier
for R3 700, a vacuum cleaner for R2
000 and curtains for R30 000. Finally it was put to the defendant
that the plaintiff would
agree that the cost of the additional items
would amount to R145 000. The calculation of this amount was not
disclosed and it
appears to be a rough estimate. Although the
evidence presented is not the result of a careful search for the best
prices for
the items there is no reason to doubt that the items are
necessary and that the prices are reasonable for the quality which
the
defendant is entitled to. The amount of R275 601 will therefore
be allowed.
[36] As far as
monthly maintenance is concerned I am satisfied that the defendant is
entitled to monthly maintenance in the sum
of R35 000 which is
arrived at as follows:
(1) The basis for the defendant’s
claim for monthly maintenance is set out in B87-88. It is clear from
the evidence that
the calculation of the defendant’s income and
expenditure is subject to a number of variables and it will serve no
purpose
to consider all the possibilities. I regard the calculation
as a useful guideline and shall simply consider the important
contentious
items. These are the cost of accommodation, the cost of
the servants, the cost of groceries, the cost of PPS life insurance,
the
cost of the defendant’s motor vehicle and the cost of
holidays. A number of the other items were not disputed and the rest

were not seriously challenged. As far as the defendant’s
income is concerned I shall consider the defendant’s income

from Phambele, the income she receives from the life annuity and the
dividends and interest she receives from her shares and cash

investments.
(2)
Accommodation
It is not
disputed that the defendant is entitled to the accommodation she
seeks, only the cost. It was not put to the defendant
that what she
seeks is available for a much lower rental and clearly the plaintiff
has not obtained such evidence. Significantly,
Mr. Van Niekerk
considered that the defendant should purchase a house for R2,5
million. To judge by the figures used by Mr. Van
Niekerk and the
quotation obtained by the defendant the cost of leasing the house she
seeks would fall within the range of R15
000 to R20 000 per month.
The sum of R17 500 is reasonable and will be used in the calculation.
(3)
Servants
As a single person the defendant
would not reasonably require the services of a general handyman and
the cost of employing such
a person will not be used. However the
defendant is entitled to employ a full time domestic worker and the
gardener, twice a week.
The salaries of these employees will be used
in the calculation.
(4)
Groceries
The defendant has
not shown that as a single person she will spend R6 820 per month on
groceries. If allowance is made for entertaining
(and possibly
providing the domestic worker and gardener with meals) a figure of R3
000 per month is reasonable. The amount for
cash purchases was not
challenged and is reasonable.
(5)
PPS
life insurance
There is no dispute about the
necessity for and cost of disability insurance but it is not
necessary for the defendant to have
life insurance in order to take
out disability insurance. The cost of PPS life insurance will
therefore be excluded from the calculation.
(6)
Motor
vehicle
Phambele pays for the defendant’s
motor vehicle and this cost is accounted for in Mr. O’Neil’s
calculation of
the defendant’s income from Phambele. The cost
of the motor vehicle will therefore be excluded from the calculation.
(7)
Holidays
The cost of the holidays is
reasonable taking into account the standard of living enjoyed by the
parties. Obviously the cost of
holidays can vary but there is no
evidence that the plaintiff insisted on the cheapest options when
travelling. This cost will
therefore be included in the calculation.
(8)
Unforeseen
expenses
The defendant agreed that this figure
should be reduced to R500 per month.
(9)
Income
Mr. O’Neil’s calculation
of the defendant’s gross income omitted the pension she
receives from the life annuity
(R1 250 per month) and the income from
her cash and shares (R3 000 per month). His calculation of the
shortfall on expenses over
income also does not allow for income tax
on the defendant’s taxable income.
(10) To summarise: the following
amounts must be deducted from the defendant’s monthly expenses

Accommodation R 1 500
Servants R 2 300
Groceries R 2 820
PPS life insurance R 3 000
Motor vehicle R 9 575
Unforeseen expenses R 500
Total R19 695
If this is deducted from the total
the balance is R62 385.
(11) On the assumption that the
defendant’s income from Phambele remains the same the
defendant’s gross income would
be calculated as follows:
Rental (Die Wilgers) R 945
Phambele salary R17 000
Phambele benefits: motor vehicle R
9 575
Cellphone R 2 685
Old Mutual pension R 7 500
Life annuity R 1 250
Dividends and interest R 3 000
Total R41 955
On the assumption
that the dividends and interest are exempt from tax and the Phambele
benefits are taxed, the defendant would
pay tax on the sum of R38 955
per month (or R467 460 per annum). Accepting that the benefits are
taxed at the same marginal rate
this would attract tax of about R138
094 leaving an income after tax of R329 366 (R27 447 per month).
With the dividends and interest
the defendant would have R30 447 per
month available to pay her expenses. (It must be emphasised that the
assumptions are subject
to variables, the most important of which is
that Phambele’s ability to earn income is not affected by
anything which the
plaintiff does.)
(12) The defendant would therefore
have a shortfall each month calculated as follows:
Balance monthly expenses R62 385
Monthly income R33 371
Shortfall R29 014
(13) Taking into account all the
circumstances surrounding the defendant’s position with regard
to income from Phambele and
the parties’ standard of living I
am of the view that it would be just to order the plaintiff to pay
monthly maintenance
of R35 000 to be escalated annually in accordance
with the consumer price index published in the Government Gazette.
[37]
The
defendant has achieved substantial success in this action in the face
of a plaintiff who has persisted in his view that he
should not pay
maintenance and who was not prepared to testify in defence of that
view or disclose to the court his full financial
position. It would
be just for the plaintiff to pay the costs which costs will include
the costs of a senior counsel. The plaintiff
was represented by two
counsel and the defendant by a senior only. The counsel agreed that
such an order should be made in order
to facilitate the taxation of
the defendant’s costs.
[38] The following order is made:
I A decree of divorce is granted;
II The plaintiff is ordered to pay
maintenance to the defendant in the following amounts:
(1) R275 601 to be paid within 10
(ten) days of this order;
(2) R35 000 per
month, the first instalment to be paid on or before 1 May 2011, and
each subsequent instalment to be paid on or
before the first day of
each succeeding month and which amount is to be escalated annually on
the 1
st
of May in accordance with the consumer price index as published in
the Government Gazette, the first escalation to be calculated
on 11
May 2012;
III The plaintiff is ordered to pay
the defendant’s costs of suit taking into account any amount
the plaintiff has paid in
accordance with any order in terms of Rule
43. The costs shall include the costs of a senior counsel.
______________________
B.R. SOUTHWOOD
JUDGE OF THE HIGH COURT
CASE NO:
55831/08
HEARD
ON: 25 May 2010 to 28 May 2010, 28 February 2011, 1 March 2011 and 3
March 2011
FOR
THE PLAINTIFF: ADV. J.L. VAN DER MERWE SC
INSTRUCTED
BY: Ms. A.M. Laäs of Laäs Döman Inc
FOR
THE DEFENDANT: ADV. D.A. SMITH SC
INSTRUCTED
BY: Ms. B. Clark of Clarks Attorneys
DATE
OF JUDGMENT: 28 March 2011