D.J.B v M.D.P (previously B) (30377/2008) [2010] ZAGPPHC 612 (27 May 2010)

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Brief Summary

Parental Rights — Custody — Application for sole custody of minor child — Applicant alleging exposure of child to excessive medication and harmful treatment by respondent — Respondent denying allegations and asserting best interests of child served by remaining in her care — Court emphasizing the paramountcy of the child's best interests and the need for thorough investigation into the child's welfare — Application for primary residence and care of the child ultimately dismissed, with the court prioritizing the stability and continuity of the child's environment.

Comprehensive Summary

Summary of Judgment


1. Introduction


The proceedings were an urgent motion application in the North Gauteng High Court, Pretoria, in which the applicant (the child’s father) sought a variation of an existing court order regulating parental responsibilities and rights, specifically the child’s primary residence and care.


The parties were formerly married and are now divorced. The applicant was the father, D.J.B, and the respondent was the mother, M.D.P (previously B). Their minor child, a boy aged approximately 11 years at the time of judgment, was the central subject of the dispute.


The procedural history began with the parties’ divorce on 18 March 2005, when their settlement agreement was made an order of court. Under that order, custody of the minor child was granted to the respondent, with the applicant enjoying reasonable access. On 25 June 2008, the applicant launched an urgent application to alter that arrangement by seeking sole parental responsibilities and rights (or, alternatively, shared responsibilities with the child’s primary care and residence vesting in him). The matter was heard on the urgent roll on 17 July 2008, and—by agreement and court order—was referred for expert investigation and reports by an independent paediatrician and a psychologist appointed through the Office of the Family Advocate. The application was later re-enrolled on 17 November 2009 and ultimately heard on the opposed motion roll on 25 March 2010, culminating in judgment on 27 May 2010.


The general subject-matter was a dispute about the child’s best interests, including competing allegations about the child’s medical treatment and whether the child’s welfare would be better served by a change of primary residence from the mother to the father, together with appropriate arrangements for contact, parental cooperation, and oversight regarding medical decision-making.


2. Material Facts


It was common cause that the parties were divorced and that the divorce order incorporated an agreement granting the respondent custody of the minor child, subject to the applicant’s access. It was also common cause that both parties had since remarried and that each household included additional minor children from those subsequent marriages. The minor child resided with the respondent and attended primary school.


A material factual foundation for the applicant’s case concerned the minor child’s medical treatment. It was not in dispute that the child had received thirteen prescriptions of antibiotics over a period of sixteen months, and that from 18 October 2007 he had been prescribed and administered large amounts of neurological drugs. The applicant alleged that the child frequently complained of symptoms such as nausea, diarrhoea, lethargy, and sleepiness, which he attributed to excessive medication and medical interventions.


The applicant’s primary factual allegation was that the respondent exposed the child to unnecessary and excessive medication and medical examinations, allegedly harming the child’s well-being. He further alleged that the respondent suffered from a psychotic condition associated with excessive medication use and that this pattern was being transferred to the child, with an implication that the conduct resembled Munchausen’s Syndrome by proxy.


The respondent disputed the applicant’s characterisation of the medical treatment. She maintained that the child suffered from two chronic conditions, described as heart-related and asthma/allergy-related, and that treatment was administered by doctors known to the applicant and with medication prescribed with the applicant’s knowledge. She further stated that the child had mood destabilisation and anger attacks, treated by a neurologist. She alleged that conflict arose because the applicant allegedly refused to administer, or mal-administered, medication during contact, which then led to the child becoming ill and fuelled further disputes. On her version, moving the child would place him in an environment where necessary medication would not be properly administered.


Following the July 2008 urgent hearing, the court ordered expert investigations. Prof Lorna Jacklin (a paediatrician) was to report on the child’s health and medication, and the Family Advocate’s office was to appoint a psychologist to assess the parties and child, including the possible presence of Munchausen’s Syndrome by proxy and what arrangement would be in the child’s best interests regarding primary residence.


The paediatric expert report recorded that the Munchausen’s by proxy allegation could not be validated and that medication decisions were made by doctors; it also recorded that psychotropic medication being taken was unnecessary (though prescribed by a specialist) and that the child had been weaned off it. The report additionally raised concerns about the child’s well-being, the lack of compliance with a diet resulting in obesity, and both parents’ shortcomings, describing the applicant’s failure to enforce asthma medication and the respondent’s failure to enforce a diet as potentially amounting to neglect.


The psychologist, Colyn Schutte, conducted assessments that included observations of the families in their home settings and recommended that the child be placed in the residence of the applicant, describing the child as being in a “pedagogiese noodsituasie” and recommending further supportive interventions and an extensive parenting plan.


The Family Advocate-related report (by a family counsellor/social worker) was based on perusing the Jacklin and Schutte reports and an informal assessment of the child, including interviews and review of school workbooks, but without home observation or formal testing. That report recorded the child’s stated wish to stay with his mother and recommended that both parents retain full parental responsibilities and rights regarding care, guardianship, and maintenance.


A further material factual aspect was that, almost a year after the expert reports, the court was presented with information suggesting continued extensive medical consultations and prescriptions over a short period. The court treated this as raising uncertainty about whether symptoms were correctly conveyed to doctors, in circumstances where the child had continued to be exposed to extensive medical examinations.


3. Legal Issues


The central legal question was whether the existing divorce-order custody arrangement should be varied so that the child’s primary residence would be transferred from the respondent to the applicant, and what residence/contact structure would best serve the child’s best interests.


The dispute primarily concerned the application of legal standards to contested facts, rather than pure questions of law. The court was required to evaluate competing factual versions, expert assessments, and the child’s circumstances, and then apply the constitutional and statutory best-interests standard to determine an outcome that promotes the child’s welfare.


A procedural issue arose regarding whether the applicant’s late replying affidavit should be disallowed. That issue entailed a value-laden procedural discretion, shaped by the court’s approach to child-related litigation, where strict adversarial rules were weighed against the need to consider relevant information bearing on the child’s welfare.


A further issue concerned whether the court should interview the minor child to ascertain his wishes regarding primary residence and care, implicating section 10 of the Children’s Act and an evaluative determination of the child’s maturity and ability to make an informed choice.


4. Court’s Reasoning


The court approached the matter through the lens that the welfare and best interests of the minor child were paramount. It emphasised that technical procedural objections should not prevent the court from receiving and considering evidence relevant to determining what arrangement best serves the child’s physical, psychological, and emotional well-being. In this connection, the court relied on the constitutional principle in section 28(2) of the Bill of Rights and the statutory framework in the Children’s Act. It also referred to authority recognising that custody/access litigation is not purely adversarial and that the court plays an investigative role, including the ability to call evidence mero motu.


Applying those principles, the court rejected the respondent’s contention that the applicant’s late replying material should be excluded. The court reasoned that excluding potentially crucial evidence would risk preventing an adequate best-interests determination, and that the focus should remain on the child’s welfare rather than strict procedural compliance in motion proceedings.


On the issue of hearing the child directly, the court considered section 10 of the Children’s Act, which requires that due consideration be given to a child’s views if the child is of sufficient age, maturity, and stage of development to participate meaningfully. Although the court noted the child’s above-average intelligence as reflected in expert reports, it concluded that he was still too young to make an informed decision about what was in his best interests. The court considered that the child might not appreciate the longer-term welfare implications of particular household rules and conditions (such as dietary discipline in circumstances of obesity). The court therefore declined to interview the child, while noting that the child had told Prof Jacklin he wished to stay with his mother, and that Schutte’s report described the child as ambivalent and preferring to live with both parents.


In evaluating the merits, the court identified section 7 of the Children’s Act as the relevant statutory guide to best-interests factors, including the nature of the child’s relationships with parents, parental attitudes, capacity to provide for the child’s needs, and the likely effect of changing the child’s circumstances. The court treated the expert reports as central to assessing these factors.


The court distinguished between the scope and purpose of the expert evidence. It regarded Prof Jacklin as an expert paediatrician tasked with reporting on health and medication, and accordingly not positioned to make primary residence recommendations. The court treated Schutte as having been appointed specifically to assess the parties and the broader circumstances bearing on residence and care, and considered his recommendations to be based on independent investigation and home-setting observation. The court noted that Schutte’s expertise and neutrality were not in dispute and stated that his recommendations would not easily be ignored.


The respondent’s argument that the child’s good scholastic performance undermined the conclusion of a pedagogical emergency was not accepted as decisive. The court referred to McCall v McCall 1994 (3) SA 201 in emphasising that academic performance is not the sole consideration in child-welfare adjudication. The court considered it significant and “disconcerting” that, despite the passage of time since the expert reports, it appeared that the child was still exposed to extensive medical consultations and prescriptions within a short period, which the court treated as raising uncertainty about whether symptoms were correctly relayed to medical practitioners.


Ultimately, the court concluded that there was no reason to doubt Schutte’s factual and clinical observations or the validity of his opinion. The court determined that the child’s best interests would be best served by vesting permanent residence with the applicant. It reasoned that disruption would be mitigated because the child had lived with both parents since birth, and there had been liberal access after divorce. The court also found no suggestion that the applicant was unsuited to be a custodial parent or otherwise disqualified.


Regarding costs, the court considered that the respondent’s opposition was not unnecessary and that both parties acted in what they perceived to be the child’s best interests. The court nevertheless took account of the applicant’s procedural shortcomings after re-enrolment, including late filing of a reply and failures in indexing and pagination, which caused unnecessary costs. In the exercise of its discretion, it found it fair that each party should pay their own costs.


5. Outcome and Relief


The court granted relief that effectively varied the prior custody arrangement by ordering that, while both parties would retain full parental responsibilities and rights, the minor child would reside permanently with the applicant, who would retain permanent residence of the child.


The court further ordered that the parties must consult each other on all important decisions relating to the child, with specific emphasis on consulting regarding taking the child to any medical practitioner for treatment. It directed that both parties participate in parental guidance with a suitably qualified person nominated by the Family Advocate, Pretoria.


The respondent was granted structured contact with the minor child, framed as specific parental responsibilities and rights in respect of contact contemplated in section 18(2)(b) of the Children’s Act. Detailed provisions regulated alternate weekends, alternate public holidays, division of school holidays, birthdays, and arrangements for Mother’s Day and Father’s Day, together with notice requirements if contact could not be exercised. International travel with the child was made subject to written consent of the other party, which consent was not to be unreasonably withheld, and with provision of full travel details.


No costs order was made against either party; the court ordered that each party pay their own costs.


Cases Cited


B v S 1995 (3) SA 571 (A).


McCall v McCall 1994 (3) SA 201 (C).


Legislation Cited


Constitution of the Republic of South Africa, 1996, section 28(2).


Children’s Act, Act 39 of 2005, section 9.


Children’s Act 38 of 2005, sections 7, 10, and 18(2)(b).


Rules of Court Cited


Uniform Rules of Court, Rule 6(12).


Held


The court held that the paramount consideration was the minor child’s best interests, and that procedural objections should not deflect the court from considering relevant material bearing on the child’s welfare. It held further that, in the circumstances of this case, the child was not of sufficient maturity and developmental stage to warrant a direct interview by the court to determine residence preferences.


On the merits, the court accepted the psychologist Schutte’s recommendations regarding primary residence, finding no basis to doubt his neutrality or the validity of his observations. It held that the minor child’s best interests would be best served by ordering that the child reside permanently with the applicant, while both parents retained full parental responsibilities and rights, and that appropriate measures be put in place to regulate contact and parental cooperation, including consultation on medical decisions and parental guidance.


The court held that it was fair, given the nature of the dispute and the conduct of the litigation, that each party should bear their own costs.


LEGAL PRINCIPLES


The child’s best interests are of paramount importance in every matter concerning the child, as reflected in section 28(2) of the Constitution and reinforced through the Children’s Act framework for evaluating best interests.


In child-related disputes concerning residence, care, custody, or contact, the litigation is not treated as purely adversarial in the ordinary civil sense; the court conducts a judicial investigation into what arrangement best promotes the child’s welfare, and procedural technicalities should not prevent the reception of relevant material needed to decide the child’s best interests.


Section 7 of the Children’s Act provides a set of relevant considerations to guide best-interests determinations, and the court must holistically evaluate the child’s circumstances rather than treating any single factor, such as academic performance, as determinative.


A child’s views must be given due consideration where the child is of sufficient age, maturity, and developmental stage to participate meaningfully, but the court retains a discretion to determine whether the child can make an informed choice and whether a judicial interview would serve the best-interests enquiry in the circumstances.


Where expert evidence is obtained for specific purposes, the weight accorded to a report depends on the expert’s mandate, expertise, methodology, and the relevance of the findings to the residence-and-care enquiry; a court may prefer an expert assessment directed at primary residence and family dynamics over medical evidence directed primarily at health and medication, while still considering both in the overall best-interests analysis.

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D.J.B v M.D.P (previously B) (30377/2008) [2010] ZAGPPHC 612 (27 May 2010)

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IN
THE HIGH COURT OF SOUTH AFRICA
(NORTH
GAUTENG HIGH COURT, PRETORIA)
Case no: 30377/2008
Date: 27 May 2010
Not reportable
Not of interest to
other judges
In the matter
between
D[...]
J[...] B[...]
…................................................................................................................................
Applicant
and
M[...]
D[...] P[...]
…...........................................................................................................................
Respondent
(previously B[...])
JUDGMENT
MATOJANE. J
[1] On the 25 of
June 2008 the applicant launched an urgent application in this court
in terms whereof the applicant sought the
following relief:
1.1 That the matter
be dealt with on an urgent basis in terms of Rule 6(12);
1.2 That sole
parental responsibilities and rights with regard to the minor child,
be awarded to the applicant, subject to the respondent's
rights of
reasonable contact, alternatively, that parental responsibilities and
rights over the minor child be awarded to both
applicant and
respondent, subject thereto that care and primary place of the minor
child be with the applicant, subject to the
respondent's rights of
reasonable contact;
1.3 That the
respondent obtains rights of access to the minor child subject to
several conditions and restrictions;
1.4 Costs of the
application in the event of opposition thereto.
[2] The applicant
and respondent were previously married and finally divorced by the
order of this court on 18 March 2005. The settlement
agreement
concluded between the parties was incorporated as an order of court.
In terms of the settlement agreement, custody of
their minor child, a
central figure in these proceedings was awarded to respondent subject
to applicant's rights of reasonable
access.
[3] The minor child
is a boy born out of the parties' previous marriage on [...]. He is
presently 11 years old, lives with the respondent
and attends primary
school.
[4] The applicant
seeks to amend the custody order by having custody of the minor child
awarded to him.
[5] After the
divorce, applicant married one C[...] B[...] who has two minor
children born of her previous marriage. The respondent
also remarried
after divorce to one D[...] d[...] P[...]. He also has two minor
children from his previous marriage.
[6] In his founding
affidavit, applicant states that one of the reasons he launched this
application for primary residence and care
of the minor child was
because, in his view, the respondent was exposing the child to
excessive use of medication and exposing
him to unnecessary and
excessive medical examinations and treatments, which process was
according to him, seriously debilitating
and harmful to the child's
general well-being. He further states that the respondent herself
suffers from a psychotic condition
whereby she is addicted to taking
excessive medication for no reason at all and is busy transferring
this condition to the minor
child. Respondent denies applicant's
averments and aver that it is not in the best interest of the minor
child, to be moved from
the respondent to reside with the applicant.
She proposes an alternative relief that the court should order that
the applicant,
herself and any other relevant party, which the court
deem fit, be subjected to professional help regarding any conflict
regarding
the upbringing of the minor child.
[7] It is not in
dispute that the minor child had thirteen prescriptions of
antibiotics administered to him over a period of sixteen
months and
that since 18 October 2007, large amounts of neurological drugs had
been prescribed and given to the minor child. Applicant
states that
he has personal knowledge of the fact that the minor child constantly
complains to him and his wife that he is nauseous,
suffering from
diarrhea and has no energy. He cannot sit for more than five minutes
without falling asleep.
[8] In the opposing
affidavit respondent states that the minor child has two chronical
conditions, the one being heart related and
the other being
asthma/allergy related. These according to her, are treated by
doctors known to the applicant and by medicines
prescribed with
applicant's knowledge. She states that the minor child suffers from
moods destabilization and anger attacks. This
is being treated by a
neurologist. She further states that the child is presently taking no
drugs for his heart related problems,
but chronical drugs for his
allergy and neurological related problems and drugs to treat chest
infections which are asthma related.
She states that her main problem
with the applicant is that he refuses to administer, or
mal-administer, the child's medicine which
leads to the child
becoming ill. This furthermore leads to conflict between the
applicant and the respondent. She avers that applicant
wants to take
the child out of a known environment and into an environment where
the applicant is against administering the necessary
medicine.
[9] As indicated
earlier, the applicant launched this application for primary
residence and care as a matter of urgency. The respondent
opposed the
relief sought. The application was heard in urgent court on the 17
July 2008 and pursuant thereof and as agreed between
the parties, the
matter was referred to an independent specialists for investigation,
consultation and subsequent reporting. An
order was made to the
effect that:
9.1 That the minor
child be examined by one Dr Lorna Jacklin, an expert paediatrician,
on an urgent basis and that Dr Jacklin report
on the child's state of
health and the medication presently used by him on or before 30
September 2008;
9.2 The office of
the family advocate, Pretoria, was requested to appoint an
appropriately qualified psychologist to evaluate and
assess the
applicant, respondent and the minor child. To assess the possibility
of the presence of Munchausen's Syndrome by proxy
being present in
either of the parties' profile and importantly, what would be in the
best interest of the minor child with regard
to his primary residence
and place of care.
[10] On 17 November
2009 applicant re-launched the application on the urgent roll. As
this matter has a long history and the papers
are voluminous,
preference regarding the opposed motion roll was granted by the
Deputy Judge President and the matter was placed
for hearing on 25
March 2010.
[11] When the
applicant re-enrolled the matter on 17 November 2009, applicant also
served his supplementary affidavit on the respondent's
attorneys. The
applicant stated that the respondent had up to 24 November 2009 to
file opposing papers, and that the applicant
would then reply before
1 December 2009. The applicant failed to reply timeously and only
served his replying affidavit on the
respondent's attorneys on 5
March 2010. Counsel for the respondent submitted in his heads of
argument and in court that applicant's
second reply should be
disallowed and that the matter be dealt with in terms of the papers
up to and including the respondent's
supplementary affidavit. For the
reasons which follow, I do not agree with this contention.
[12]
The welfare of the minor child is at stake, slavish adherence to the
opposed motion approach will result in available crucial
evidence
being disallowed and in the process the court not being able to
decide the issue of the best interest of the child on
the papers. The
legislature, in enacting section 9 of the Children's Act, Act 39 of
2005, and section 28 of the Bill of Rights
recognised the paramountcy
of the best interest of the child principle and any dispute relevant
to the child's welfare cannot be
left unresolved because of technical
procedural objections. The objection by the respondent shifts the
focus away from the most
important consideration in the case, namely,
the physical, psychological and emotional well-being of the minor
child under the
circumstances. HOWIE, JA in
B
v S
1995
(3) SA 571
at 584 par 1 recognised that this kind of litigation is
not of usual kind, he held that:
"In
addition it seems to me to be necessary to lay down that where a
parental couple's access (or custody) entitlement is being
judicially
determined for the first time - in other words where there is no
existing court order in place - there is no onus in
the sense of an
evidentiary burden, or so-called risk of nonpersuasion, on either
party. This litigation is not of the ordinary
civil kind. It is not
adversarial. Even where variation of an existing custody or access
order is sought, and where it may well
be appropriate to cast an onus
on an applicant, the litigation really involves a judicial
investigation and the court can call
the evidence mero motu
."
[13]
Counsel for the respondent submitted that the best interests standard
would best be served and applied if the court interview
the minor
child and hears the minor child's wishes with regard to the primary
place of residence and place of care. Applicant contends
that such
interview will not serve any purpose as respondent allegedly
manipulates and influence the minor child against applicant
and that
she is able to do so by virtue of the fact that his primary residence
and place of care is presently with respondent.
Section 10
of the
Children's Act, 38 of 2005
provides that where a child
"is
of such an age, maturity and stage of development as to be able to
participate in any matter concerning him".
The
court must give "due consideration" to the child's views.
In my view, the minor child, despite his above average intelligence

as appears from the reports of various experts, is still young to
decide on his own what is in his best interest. He may not, for

example, appreciate that living with a strict parent who enforce a
diet is in his best interests especially as it is common cause
that
he is obese. I accordingly declined an invitation to interview the
child as I was of the view that he has not yet reached
a stage in his
development to can make an informed decision about what is in his
best interest. I however, note that the minor
child informed Prof
Jacklin that he wishes to stay with his mother and in the report of
Colyn Schutte he was ambivalent preferring
to live with both parents.
[14]
Section 28(2)
of the Bill of Rights provides that a child's best
interest are of paramount importance in every matter concerning the
child. In
considering what is in the best interest of a child,
section
7
of
the
Children's
Act enjoins
the
courts to have regard,
inter
alia,
to
the nature of the personal relationship between the child and his
parents; the attitudes of the parents, or any specific parent
towards
the exercise of parental responsibilities and rights in respect of
the child; the capacity of the parents to provide for
the needs of
the child, including emotional and intellectual needs; the likely
effect on the child of any change in the child's
circumstances,
including the likely effect on the child of any separation from his
parents; the child's age, maturity and stage
of development, gender
and background; and the child's physical and emotional security and
his or her intellectual, emotional,
social and cultural development.
This list is not exhaustive. These considerations are dealt with in
detail in the report of Prof
Lorna Jacklin, a specialist
paediatrician and Colyn Schutte, a clinical psychologist and other
reports.
[15]
Prof Jacklin in her report found that the allegation that respondent
is abusing her child by excessive, unnecessary medication

"Munchausen's by Proxy" could not be validated. The
decision to prescribe medication was always that of doctors and
respondent informed them about previous medication. She found that
the respondent was not doctor-shopping and there is no evidence
of
enforced invalidism regarding the child. The report states that the
psychotropic medication that the minor child was taking
was
unnecessary, but prescribed by a specialist. The child has been
weaned off this medication. The report states that applicant's

failure to enforce the use of the child's asthma medication and
respondent's failure to enforce a diet regarding the child can
be
considered as neglect. The report raises the following serious
concerns about the child,
inter
alia:
15.1 The child's
emotional and physical well-being under his current situation;
15.2 The lack of
compliance to a diet in the child's home with his resultant obesity;
15.3 Both parents'
ability to care for the minor child. She got the impression that they
were both getting at each other through
the child. She strongly
recommends that the family be monitored by Child Welfare and that
both parents should be compelled to attend
a parenting course.
[16] Colyn Schutte,
a clinical psychologist, in his report was able to give direct
evidence of the interaction of the two families
in their home
settings. He interviewed and psychologically assessed the applicant,
his wife and children from her previous marriage.
He did the same
with the respondent and her family and made the following
recommendations:
"9.1. H[...]
B[...] in die residensie van sy biologiese vader, meneer D[...]
B[...] geplaas word, en dat redelike toegang tot
die biologiese
moeder toegestaan word.
H[...]
B[...] verkeer in 'n p
edagogiese
noodsituasie
.
Sy
verbesonderde
opvoedingsbehoeftes word nie in sy huidige plasing sodanig fasiliteer
dat sy persoonsvoltrekking optimaal verloop
nie. Die gevestigde
dinamiek in sy spesifieke gesiteerdheid is sodanig dat die prognose
vir wysiging ongunstig is. Die voortsetting
van die huidige 'siek
kind' rot is duidelik tot die direkte nadeel van H[...]. Ofskoon
H[...] baie geheg is aan die persoon van
Mnr d[...] P[...], gaan
sodanige gehegtheid in hoofsaak oor sy oorlewing in die d[...] P[...]
opset en nie oor ongunstige verhoudings
met die biologiese vader of
Mev B[...] nie. Die werksomstandighede van Mnr d[...] P[...] behels
dat hy nie deurentyd beskikbaar
is om die groot taak te volbring wat
hy in die verlede gedoen het nie. Selfs met Mnr d[...] P[...] voltyds
beskikbaar, is die prognose
vir herstel nie gunstig nie. Deur sy
ingrepe word die balans in die gesin fasiliteer, maar nie die
fundamentele verandering wat
nodig is nie.
Die
noodsaak aan
spoedige verligting vir H[...] is dringend.
en
weeg swaarder as die aanpassingsopgawe wat 'n verskuiwing teweeg sal
bring.
H[...]
funksioneer reeds gunstig in die pedagogiese opset in die B[...]
gesin, waar hy nie pre-disponeerd is tot die 'siek kind'
rol nie, en
waar sy persoonswording voltrek sonder die ontremmende dinamika
waarbinne hy homself bevind. Die assessering en analise
toon duidelik
dat daar gevestigde verhoudings tussen H[...] en die biologiese
vader, sy vrou en hulle kinders bestaan. Daar is
empatie en begrip
vir H[...] se behoeftes, en die gesinsdinamiek is sodanig dat H[...]
goed ondersteun word wat betref aanpassingsopgawe.
Voormelde verhoog
die prognose vir aanpassing van H[...], asook die prognose vir sy
herstel aansienlik.
9.2 H[...] deur
'n plaaslike kundige in Potchefstroom ondersteun sal word ter
wegruiming van ongunstige betekenisse wat by horn
betsaan. Sodanige
steungewing behoort gereelde ouerbegeleiding in te sluit. Beide
H[...] en sy ouers kan baat vind by steungewing,
welke verstelde
betekenisse asook verstelde opvoedingshandelinge kan fasiliteer.
9.3 Daar 'n
ekstensiewe ouerskapplan opgestel word betreffende die minderjarige
kind, H[...] B[...].
'n
Grondige ouerskapplan met ingeboude dispuutresolusiemeganisme kart
veel doen om die voortslepende konflik en twis tussen die
partye,
waartoe beide mildelik bydra, te bekamp. Ongeag waar H[...] homself
bevind
,
is dit absoluut
noodsaaktik dat daar 'n ingryp sal wees ten einde die effek van die
voortslepende konflik te bekamp."
[17] Counsel for the
respondent in his heads of argument and in court submitted that
Jacklin's report does not support Schutte's
finding that the child is
in a pedagogical emergency situation, which can be remedied by
changing the child's residence to the
applicant. He further argued
that the minor child's scholastic performance contradicts the finding
that the child is in such an
emergency situation. He submits that the
conflict between the child's parents should be brought to an end in
order to improve the
child's situation, as the conflict is the core
of the problem.
[18] Prof Jacklin is
an expert pediatrician who was requested to bring out a report on the
minor child's state of health and the
medication used by him. She is
not qualified to make recommendations regarding primary residence and
place of care of the child.
Schutte on the other hand was appointed
for a specific purpose, he was to assess the parties and prepare a
report with regard to
the general situation and what would be in the
best interest of the child with regard to his primary residence and
place of care.
His recommendations are based on independent
investigations and observations and not on the medical treatment
received by the child.
The court will not easily ignore his
recommendations as his expertise and neutrality is not in dispute.
[19] Counsel for the
respondent concedes that the family advocate's report was very
hastily put together. The family counselor,
Ms Maluleka, a social
worker with 13 years experience perused the reports of Jacklin and
Schutte and informally assessed the minor
child and the child's
workbooks and interviewed the child. She did not see the child in his
home environment and did not perform
tests on the child. She reports
that the minor child expressed his wish to stay with his mother
during the interview. She noted
that the hostile relationship between
the parties clouds their objectivity pertaining to the needs of the
minor child. She recommended
that both parents retain full parental
responsibilities and rights in respect of the minor child with regard
to care, guardianship
and maintenance.
[20]
In her supplementary affidavit respondent submit that the
"pedagogiese
noodtoestand"
as
referred to by Schutte in his report has already been remedied as she
has taken steps to remedy those aspects of her behavior
for which she
was criticized in the reports. It is common cause that the child is
showing very good academic progress at school
and has been chosen as
a Grade 4 prefect. In my view, these are by no means the only
considerations the court must take into account
in judicial
decision-making process employed in matters concerning the child's
welfare. See
McCall
v McCall
1994
(3) SA 201.
What is disconcerting is that almost a year after the
report by Schutte and Prof Jacklin, it would seem that the minor
child is
still being exposed to extensive medical examinations.
According to the Claims Transaction History that reflects the use of
the
medical aid by the respondent for the minor child for the period
25 March 2009 to September 2009, various medical practitioners
saw
the minor child on 16 different occasions and 52 medical
prescriptions were purchased through the Discovery Medical Aid Scheme

within 6 months. This raises considerable uncertainty whether the
doctors' prescriptions are as a result of existing symptoms correctly

conveyed to them by the respondent.
[21] In my judgment,
there is no reason for doubting the correctness of the factual and
clinical observations of Schutte and the
validity of his opinion. In
my view, the best interest of the minor child will best be served if
his residence vests with applicant
as recommended by Schutte in his
report. The disruption in the minor child's life will be mitigated by
the fact that since birth
the child lived with both parents and after
divorce in 2005, there have been liberal rights of access between the
son and his father.
There is no suggestion that applicant is unsuited
as a custodian parent or that he is disqualified from this role,
there is accordingly,
no uncertainty that the child's best interest
will not be served if he lives with applicant.
[22] On the question
of costs, It is clear that the respondent did not oppose the
application unnecessarily. Both parties acted
in what they perceived
to be the best interest of the minor child. When the applicant
re-enrolled the matter, on the then urgent
basis, the applicant
served his supplementary affidavit on the same day but failed to
adhere to the rules laid down by him by failing
to reply timeously.
The applicant also failed to index and paginate the papers timeously
resulting in unnecessary costs for the
respondent. In my view, it
will be unreasonable to order the respondent to pay applicant's costs
as respondent's opposition was
reasonable under the circumstances. It
will be fair and proper if each of the parties pays his or her own
costs in the matter.
I accordingly make
the following order:
1. The applicant and
respondent shall each retain full parental responsibilities and
rights with regard to the care of the minor
child born of the
marriage, but that the minor child shall reside permanently with the
applicant, who shall retain permanent residence
of the minor child.
2. The applicant and
respondent shall consult each other concerning all important
decisions relating to the minor child, more particularly,
the taking
of the minor child to any medical practitioner for treatment.
3. Both parties are
ordered to participate in parental guidance with a suitably qualified
person nominated by the family advocate,
Pretoria.
4. Specific parental
responsibilities and rights with regard to contact to the minor
child, shall be granted to the respondent as
contemplated in
Section
18(2)(b)
of the
Children's Act, provided
that it does not disrupt,
interfere with or prejudice the minor child's religious, cultural,
educational and social activities
and the respondent shall have
contact with the minor child at all reasonable times. In particular,
the respondent shall have contact
with the minor child as follows:
4.1 Every alternate
weekend from 17h00 on a Friday until 18h00 on Sunday evening, or
earlier if agreed between the parties.
4.2 Alternate public
holidays.
4.3 Alternate short
school holidays with the Easter holiday period alternating between
the parties.
4.4 One half of each
long school holiday, with the second half of the December school
holiday period (including the Christmas/ New
Year period) alternating
between the parties.
4.5 Every birthday
of the minor child for 50% of the available time, the remainder of
the available time the respondent shall be
entitled to contact the
child.
4.6 Every Father's
Day and birthday of the applicant from 17h00 until the following
morning, when the applicant shall be obliged
to take the minor child
to school or back to the respondent, subject to the proviso that
should Father's day and/or the birthday
of the applicant fall on a
weekend that he does not have contact, then the weekend access
periods will be exchanged between the
parties and the applicant will
have contact with the minor child for that weekend.
4.7 The provisions
of clause 4.6 hereof shall apply to the respondent in respect of
Mother's day and the birthday of the respondent.
5. The respondent
shall further be entitled to have such further reasonable contact
with the minor child as may be agreed upon between
the parties from
time to time, due regard being had to the minor child's religious,
scholastic and other extra-mural activities.
6. Both parties
shall provide each other with reasonable notice should it not be
possible for such party to exercise contact with
the minor child on a
specific date, in order not to inconvenience the other party.
7. In the event,
that either party requires to remove the minor child from the
Republic of South Africa for a holiday period, then
and in such
event, it will be necessary to obtain the written consent of the
other party, which consent shall not be unreasonably
withheld. The
party wishing to remove the child from the Republic of South Africa
shall provide the other party with full details
and contact numbers
relating to such holiday out of the Republic of South Africa.
8. Each party to pay
his or her own costs.
K E MATOJANE
JUDGE OF THE HIGH
COURT