M D P v W T P and Another (Case No A139/2024) [2025] ZAWCHC ___ (17 July 2025)
This judgment is reportable because it clarifies the principles that guide a High Court when it is asked, on appeal, to vary an interim custody and contact order involving the relocation of a very young child. It analyses the scope of the appellate court’s power to interfere with a discretionary, child-centred order and restates the centrality of the best-interests standard in relocation disputes.
The case is also significant for its discussion of the interaction between pending divorce proceedings in a different provincial division and the jurisdiction of the court seized with care-and-contact relief. In doing so, the court provides practical guidance on forum management where parents litigate in multiple courts.
Finally, the judgment synthesises and applies recent expert, social-work and Family Advocate reports to demonstrate how courts should weigh conflicting professional opinions in high-conflict parenting matters.
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The appellant mother appealed an interim order that had granted both parents shared primary residence of their four-year-old son and set out a graduated contact schedule. She sought a variation so that the child would reside primarily with her in KwaZulu-Natal, with the father enjoying reduced contact. The father resisted, contending that the order was interlocutory, that no appeal lay, and that, in any event, the order served the child’s best interests.
Over two days the Full Bench heard argument, considered extensive expert reports and the Family Advocate’s recommendations, and revisited the procedural posture of the dispute. It held that, although styled “interim”, the order had immediate and continuing consequences for the child; leave to appeal had therefore correctly been granted.
Applying the best-interests principle, the court found no misdirection in the trial judge’s careful balancing of stability, proximity to extended family, and the need for the child to enjoy meaningful contact with both parents. It accordingly dismissed the appeal and confirmed the structured, shared-residence regime.
The court was required to determine whether an appeal lay against an interim parenting order; whether the original court had misdirected itself in allocating shared residence; and whether a relocation to KwaZulu-Natal served the child’s best interests.
The parties married in October 2017 and lived on the appellant’s Knysna farm. Their son was born on 26 April 2020. The appellant, a geneticist with a PhD, functioned as the child’s primary caregiver; the respondent, an engineer who worked from home, developed a close daily bond with the child, often visiting him for lunch and at bath-time.
High conflict marred the relationship. After serving and then withdrawing a protection-order application, the appellant left the matrimonial home in September 2021 with the child and moved to a nearby flatlet. On 14 December 2021 the parents, assisted by an educational psychologist, agreed to a structured interim contact plan.
On 21 January 2022, without consent, the appellant relocated with the child to Monzi, KwaZulu-Natal, where her family lived. The respondent only discovered the move several days later. He launched urgent proceedings in the Western Cape High Court seeking the child’s return, the appointment of experts and the formulation of a contact regime. Pending that application, on 7 February 2022 Van Zyl AJ granted a rule nisi permitting the mother temporarily to remain in KwaZulu-Natal but enforcing an elaborate contact schedule and expert investigation.
Both parties secured opposing expert reports: social worker Dr Spurrier for the father recommended a phased move to a 50/50 plan located near George; clinical psychologist Mr Townsend for the mother supported relocation and primary residence with the mother. The Family Advocate found the mother to be the child’s primary attachment figure yet stressed the need for regular paternal contact. All of this formed the evidential matrix that confronted the appellate court.
The Full Bench had to answer three inter-related legal questions. First, did the interim nature of Van Zyl AJ’s order bar an appeal? Second, if appealable, was there any basis to interfere with the discretionary determination that the child’s best interests lay in shared primary residence? Third, what weight should be given to the conflicting professional recommendations in reassessing the appropriate parenting plan?
The court began by confronting the jurisdictional objection. It considered the constitutional imperatives safeguarding children and concluded that an order profoundly shaping a young child’s living arrangements could not be immunised from appellate scrutiny by being labelled “interim”. Relying on comparable relocation jurisprudence, the court held that the child-centred nature of the relief rendered the order appealable as of right once leave had been granted by the Supreme Court of Appeal.
Turning to the merits, the judges revisited the evidence holistically. They emphasised that appellate intervention is limited: only a material misdirection or a demonstrable wrong exercise of discretion warrants interference. In this instance, Van Zyl AJ had weighed the mother’s role as primary caregiver, the practicality of long-distance contact, the father’s consistent involvement and the feasibility of gradual phasing toward equal-time parenting. There was no factual error or neglect of relevant considerations.
The conflicting expert reports did not change the outcome. The court noted that the Family Advocate’s report, the only neutral assessment, favoured the child’s remaining with the mother in KwaZulu-Natal but also highlighted the benefits of meaningful paternal contact. Van Zyl AJ’s solution—shared primary residence with specified blocks of time—struck a fair equilibrium between attachment continuity and paternal involvement. Accordingly, none of the appellant’s grounds displayed a misdirection warranting appellate correction.
The Full Bench dismissed the appeal. It confirmed the order of 2 May 2023 in all respects. Recognising the ongoing familial relationship, the court made no order as to costs, thereby limiting further conflict and financial strain on the parties.
Three core principles emerge. First, in children’s matters the label “interim” is subordinate to substance; orders that have substantial, enduring effects on residence or care are appealable. Second, a High Court enjoys a wide, child-centred discretion in crafting care and contact regimes, and an appellate court will interfere only if that discretion is misapplied or exercised on wrong principle. Third, relocation disputes demand a nuanced, fact-specific balancing of stability, primary attachment, logistical practicality and the preservation of each parent’s relationship with the child, with the best interests of the child remaining the paramount consideration throughout.